Man OP is right the stepdad looked out for his own ass instead of protecting that child he was in their care at the time of that happening to him and the stepdad did nothing but overlook it, i would do all i could to have saved that child from that horrible woman people dont care about children anymore its sad and who is to say the boy didnt tell his bio dad and that bio dad just didnt do anything all adults in this story failed this childs miseralby they should all be ashamed of themselves
Im not gonna lie. She sounds like she want a man from atleast 1950s. Aint no way with how woman acting these day will the majority of man act like that, as ther no way they'll get a woman like that.
I remember going on a long trip with some friends and they ended up going to a strip club, and although I was henging outside on the patio I guess my GF also found out that I "Was there." In the end she brought it up two weeks later, got mad at me for not telling her, etc. And although I agree I probably should have brought it up, it would have been just another exhausting argument. So I broke up with her and told her if she can't bring up something that she doesn't like me doing within a few days, and she'd rather wait weeks for it to fester in her head. Then I'd rather not have her at all. Communication is key.
OP, you should never touch anyone anywhere without consent. Espeshuily with her being an AS victim. What you should do is not only apologize but let her be and let her debate on coming back to you considering you crossed a line.
I went out with a guy to a restaurant for a nice meal. Yes, l offered to pay half. He proceeded to chop all the food on his plate up, stir that gray mass all together, hunch over and eat it in a few minutes. No thought given to his dinner napkin, either. Yuck. One and done. 🤢
She’s giving mixed signals and then blowing up on him for an understandable fuckup. This is why men should just avoid women in this post-metoo world. Dude could catch a case just for being an idiot.
#2 HECK NO you're not the AH. Boy betrayed you, broke your heart, and you're not married with kids or anything, so nothing stopping you from just walking away.
Part of my family is old money, so as an average work’n man, I got the rich-people learn’n from an early age. From personal dating experience, the behaviors and manners don’t attract women, the actual money behind it does…
I don't normally pay attention to the video itself, but wtf was this gameplay lol. Also don't mutilate your genitals just because a gf doesn't like the look.
Husband is weak. His weakness is causing an inability to make the difficult decision he should be making. He justifies his weakness by saying he is doing the right thing, qnd that euthanizing his dog would be a betrayal even though its clear to any responsibile owner tha these dogs are well past their time. Weak people like that dont deserve to have pets, if tou cant properly asses your own animals quality of life and make that decision out of love than you shouldn't have pets to begin with...
None of this sounds ok. Playing with the concept of having feelings for each other, but not "Being ready to be in a relationship" is asking for disaster. You're telling me they're comfortable enough to have sex, but not comfortable enough to touch each other unprompted? They should not be anywhere near each other.
@@G1sandG1rlsGaming Agreed. Half of that sounds to me like "I want you to be my friendzoned guy so I can have all the comfort and care I want without the responsibility to be in a relationship"
We don't know what the future holds for humanity so the more diverse the gene pool the better we are prepared to not get extinkt. Even sickle cell disease is useful against certain infections but shortens the life span by 20years, all genes can be useful depending on the circumstances. Short people are less hot because of their proportions but big bodies need more energy and we don't know how much food we will be able to distribute in the future.
Thats why situansionships are the worst. Things are encrypted and everyones trying to decode It in different ways. But you're a guy and the chivalrous, and also the safe thing for both of you, Is to always round back whatever hint you get or at least ask some confirmation back "Hey should I scractch the lower back ?" If she says yes ask "Hey should I scracth even the lower back ?" So NAH because there Is no malice but you surely are making some poor decisions.
All of you saying that the stepfather is right are like barking dogs, the child could do shit against an adult and was in a horrible situation i would have called cps. The child himself would be against the mother so was the issue, him being a pussy and the coworkers being a simpy? thats it the wife should be arrested and sent of jail for abusing a little boy, that man should have at least told the bio dad.
She should be arrested, but she wouldn't be. All it takes is one allogation from her, switching the blame into stepdad and his life would be ruined. Even in the unlikely circumstance that he could prove his innocence, and the less likely event where the court system cats about the proof, his reputation would be ruined, his family and friends give, his job gone.
Nah OP is the AH. stepdad was right, he could’ve ended up being the the person they switched blame on. He should’ve reported it to the police if anything, because realistically he didn’t do anything wrong. His fear of being the false perpetrator is justified, OP is right in their mindset but wrong in how they judged Stepdad
@@adamkaufman724 that’s not bullshit, he may have a moral obligation to the child but he has an unquestionable obligation to protect himself above all else.
@@adamkaufman724 yeah, but divorcing a sexually assaulting wife but not getting his stepson more help is not the same as SEXUALLY ASSAULTING YOUR CHILD.
@@adamkaufman724 Perhaps you should look at how men are treated by the court system. For example look at how johnny dep was treated when he was accused of abuse by a woman with a history of abusing people she was in relationships with.
If the stepdad was going to divorce the evil mom, there is nothing he could have done. He has no legal rights over the kid, and while he should have reported this to the police, he at minimum should have told the biodad
NTA - if a 13 year old is making the claim, you've seen evidence, and you've ignored it - then you're a selfish, cowardly, and morally reprehensible human being who has enabled the continuation of child abuse. Not only that, its likely damaged that childs ability to trust other people most likely for the rest of their lives. If people at work support that then equally they are immoral human beings and I'd get out of that workplace to a healthier working environment with people who actually have solid morals.
It’s his word vs the word of the birth mother. He should’ve just documented everything and the dates of then reported it after he divorced her and got away. Hes not wrong to be afraid tho, perfectly reasonable
You want a sophisticated man but you're dating an ignorant boy.... That said, you're worlds apart in social backgrounds, education, intelligence, and experiences.
YTA and an entitled B also. Hope they report you to HR for the slander campaign and harassment you promised you would do in your comments. Enjoy being black listed from an entire industry. Edit: oh look, the cancel culture freaks are here 🙄
How is she the asshole the guy is literally protecting a pedophile because he can't be bothered because it is not his kid. Imagine if your child was being sexually abused and someone else knew but did nothing about it because hey not my kid not my problem.
They're not in the slightest wrong tho. The child Was clearly desperate for help, and instead of helping the man Just ran away from the situation. He's a coward and the only reason for him to feel Bad should be that he's aware of what he should have but didn't do.
No, the stepdad was a complete coward who allowed a child to continue being abused to make it easier for himself. It's extremely morally questionable why people such as yourself hold the view it was "the wrong thing to do" to call this out - if people at work genuinely think this was the right choice, they are the ones supporting a child being abused while doing nothing about it - cowards. My Edit: "The cancel culture freaks are here" - god forbid people who are against individuals who enable child abuse - you must be such a virtuous person for enabling child abuse 🙄
Nah stepdad could’ve been made into the false perpetrator in two point 5 seconds. It’s stepdads word vs mom, maybe even mom and kid if she can sway him. This was a dangerous situation, he could’ve handled it better tho but i don’t blame him for being a coward. I’d fear being branded a child predator by the mother trying to save herself
Yta, you can't have a future with someone without disclosing about your past. Not everyone would be comfortable with someone like this (this would be a hard deal breaker to me), when you don't tell someone when you get serious, you are taking away their chance of making a informed choice of leaving or staying. You do whatever you want with your life, but that also includes people rejecting you for this, everyone decides about who they want to get married and not everyone wants a sperm donor 🤢🤢😅
first of all, horrible ai voice, 2nd of all, after you said how stupid he is, that he smokes weed and does shrooms that make him blank in the head and that you live together but still are both virgins at 25 and 22 and dont even see each other, after ALL of this you say the reason for breaking up with him is food? Should have broken up ages ago
