My name is Ger O' Brien. I am a master EFT practitioner, motivational and inspirational speaker. I am currently based in Cork City, Ireland.
I created this channel to raise awareness on mental health and wellbeing around the world as I believe I can help my viewers to overcome their problems.
I am very passionate about what I do and this is something I have wanted to do for a long time so I am determined to create engaging, informative and positive content for any of you watching!
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Just to give you some insight into what a lot of transgender people are feeling, myself included. Being transgender comes with a tremendous sense of loss which people like to call gender dysphoria. We grieve the lives we wish we could have had, and our cisgender privelage. For those of us with families who are unaccepting and those of us who live in places where our true identity is not accepted there also comes shame and an overwhelming feeling that we are completely unlovable. This is often reinforced by the media and futher attempts to scapegoat and marginalise us despite the scientific evidence proving that we are real. In fact people use fake science to gaslight us about not being real.
For the soul there is neither birth nor death nor having once been does it ever cease to be so our suffering is the result of the pain we gave to others in this and previous life's
I grew up in a home that was both religious and abusive, both individually and in combination with each other, and religion was often used as a weapon. I was tentative to watch this video because I thought it might be an attempt to "turn me straight" or whatever. But for some reason I stuck with it. I do a lot of EFT around trauma and whatnot, and sometimes emotions come up, but it's usually really subtle. I've been out for a while now and I thought I had accepted it honestly, I'm pretty engaged and enthusiastic in the queer community and I thought I was fine. But as soon as I started tapping, I was almost instantly in tears. Like, I've only had a few experiences that have triggered such a strong emotional release so fast. And throughout the whole video my whole body was tingling and goosebumpy. I didn't realize how much pain and guilt and shame I'm still carrying. I thought I was over it. My folks never really got over it or accepted it, and I left home quite young. Again, thought I was over it. So what? Shit happens right? But just to hear someone tell me it's okay to be myself just instantly made me cry. I never heard that as a kid. I thought I was going to hell. I tried to fix myself. I didn't know what was wrong with me. I didn't even know a word for transgender. When you said "I'm going to love and accept myself for the wonderful person I know I am" - that hit especially hard, and it brought back a forgotten memory of when I was six, which was the first time I cross-dressed. Somehow it made me feel better to remember that, because I know that I've always been this way, even before I knew it was "a thing." I was just a little kid, doing what felt good, as little kids do, and it was innocent, and I guess remembering that helped me to see that it always has been and still is innocent. So really truly thank you. I needed this <3
Wow I am blown away my friend I am so happy this video and the tapping resonated and helped you. Thank you so much for sharing your story and I wish you all the best in the future, always remember you are here for a reason ❤️
