I have a guy friend that has a lot of good qualities about him. I told him this and how he is not a bad looking guy and then he told me that that doesn't sound like a good compliment. I then told him that I am sorry. I didn't want to say too much because I didn't want to feel vulnerable. I am picky about appearances and the only area he needs work on is his belly. But I don't know how to encourage him to take care of himself and slim down his stomach. He loves food and he loves to eat. I don't know if I already blew it with him though. Also we are both late in years. I am 59 and I think he is 65.
I have a secret crush on a guy, but I do not want him to know that I only talk a lot with him , so I also talk a lot with his colleague, just to hide my feelings in front of him. 🥹😅😅
When someone rejects us, it doesn’t mean there’s something wrong with us or we’re not good enough. It just means that he/she isn’t the right person for you. The right person for you WILL want to spend time with you. When we get rejected and we have these negative thoughts like we’re not good enough, there’s something wrong with us, etc, that is just the way our brain is playing tricks on us.
I had 2 stop talking 2 my crush , she is in the middle of divorce , separated , so she still lives with her husband 4 financial reasons , her hubby not ready 2 move on , so we agreed 2 let it be until she is completly done with her divorce , so it has bn about a month since we contacted each other n i can feel her thinking about me constantly , it is painful at times since we can't connect , but 1 day we will connect again, until then it's miller time 😂
If we have to develop so many things in us.....just to make him choose us over another women.... Then all this effort is not worth...... What's the point in changing yourself so much to get a man who is interested in other women???????
This might sound hard, but you don’t need a man/ woman, you need God, and God will give you everything that you need. A man/woman will love you for your physical look/ charisma/ money/ intelligence….. or all the temporary things to fill a void that THEY need and will only love you if you meet their needs, but God loves you for who you are, whatever you are and no matter what your past is. In fact, God doesn’t need you, you need Him and He can do whatever He wants anytime to you and to your life, yet He loves you. That’s what you need. Jesus said: “Make every effort to enter through the narrow door, because many, I tell you, will try to enter and will not be able to.” _ Luke 13: 24 However, (if you’re not planing to or currently committing adultery), you should ask God for everything,, EVERYTHING. nothing on this earth can't be solved or healed by God that created galaxies, medicine, atoms... everything in 7 days. Ask God for help. “And whatever you ask in My name, that I will do, that the Father may be glorified in the Son. If you ask anything in My name, I will do it. “If you love Me, keep My commandments.” _ John 14:13-17 “Truly I tell you, if you have faith as small as a mustard seed, you can say to this mountain, 'Move from here to there,' and it will move. Nothing will be impossible for you.” _ Matthew 17:20-21. "For I, the LORD your God, hold your right hand; it is I who say to you, 'Fear not, I am the one who helps you.” _ Isaiah 41:13 /
Not necessarily touch, but I sometimes smell her perfume, and I haven’t seen her in several months of no contact. I also sometimes get a weird tingling in my scalp, and it’s around then she’ll pop into my mind. Not goosebumps, but, similar?
My s/o tells me that we have plenty of “us time” during our commute to work. The commute is 2 hours each way (traffic) He won’t message me even once while he’s at work even though he is always playing games on his phone. I tell him I want to just hang out and he says he wants “him time” when we get home and only wants to play video games It’s gotten to the point where I have to ask him multiple times to even just send me 1 message. He’s responded to that with “sure we can talk once in awhile” When I asked why we don’t have quality time together he specifically said “because I need to be stimulated and if something isn’t stimulating, I don’t want to do it.” He’s not a horrible man. He does treat me well. I do think here and there he’s cheating, but I doubt it. He’s just consumed by games. That’s his life. I’m not part of his life.
This is a very underrated video which would be recommended to anyone who feels outcasted, I am thankfully no longer desperate for anyone's attention, I appreciate your hard work into making this useful video giving good advice, it even made me think less about others
Intimacy is important yes but the only one u you mentioned is physical.. you fail to include the possibility that the other person might be excluding everything but emotional or mental or psychological intimacy.. it’s not just physical that is a culprit.. and how about the reverse of compliments..
This is a great video with good advice. I just wish I would’ve seen something like this a few months ago when I was cruelly ghosted back in December. We had a ”disagreement”. I reached out after a week, again at two weeks, with no response. At the 30-day point I concluded that they must hate me, and do not have any care or respect for me. It was the most excruciating pain, the most confusing time and I felt angry, humiliated and worthless! My cruel ghoster tried to come back 5 months later and say “sorry” let’s talk again. I confronted them…I needed to express how they made feel and know why they did that…they couldn’t handle a simple conversation…so I said Adieu (goodbye forever) P.S. I still cannot get them out of my head…maybe one day…the fire will burn out. It’s such a shock and disappointment to know who they really are.
It's SO frustrating when my able-bodied, passive, retired partner of many years, scrolls on his cell phone for HOURS every day. I give him his space, but this phone addiction is ridiculous. Every evening, he turns on Wheel of Fortune, Jeopardy, '60's shows, etc, plays them loud, yet only looks at Facebook, doesn't even look at the tv or respond to me when i make conversation until I turn down the volume 6 clicks. At the dinner table, he now holds his phone over his plate while eating. I've asked him to please turn his cell phone off at the table. Then, he'll pick it up again after 5 or 6 minutes. I'll say, "Please don't. Is it THAT important?" So, should I pick up my plate to go eat in another room? (it's my house, not his). I'm done!! I don't think he's having an affair. He used to be a great conversationaist. But for the past 2 yrs, his cell phone takes priority. Feeling so ignored, I now stay busy around the house, organize, do laundry, do an hour of work on the computer, sometimes call my bff, then sit to watch tv for a few minutes. He won't even look up to notice I'm there. Gee, thanks bud.. 😖
Great video with insightful signs! It's fascinating how non-verbal cues like body language can reveal someone's feelings. How do you think these signs vary across different cultures or social contexts?
Been on the receiving end of fights for no reason. Many times driving in the car i would tell her stop the car and i got out. Little things like not making the perfect photo or not wanting to go somewhere i did not speak the language
It’s these videos that make young women go and get cosmetic procedures and sometimes with disasterous results. You make yourself healthy and attractive for your own well being not for men.
