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My Fiancee of 10 years has been sleeping with his phone,he hides it,He protects it,he says that he has no facebook and does not look at other women, he lies,Cheats and gets angry and turns it around on me. when I ask him why he lied to me about not having facebook or being on Dating sites when I caught him and got into his phone when he got Drunk and was sleeping I carefully slid his phone out from between the bed and sent all of his files/info texts and pictures & talking inappropriately and other Adult stuff right to my phone. I waited for him to say to me that I am making it all up. After all his lying I named every woman,where she lives,her phone numbers,their sexual encounters and I even printed them out at the Library lol! What is crazier is that I kept having dreams of him sneaking out getting drunk and betraying me in every" Adult XXX way" I then showed him that I know and he said YOU STOLE MY PHONE,ITS ALL YOUR FAULT, AND YOU ACCUSE ME OF EVERYTHING!!! YOU EVEN ACCUSE ME CHEATING!" WOW"! WHO ARE YOU? THINK YOU ARE SO PERFECT WHEN YOU ARE NOT!!,I CAN'T HAVE FEMALE FRIENDS BUT YOU CAN??? " Yeah my 10 year Fiancee also got busted masterbating to a girl on Facebook on his phone laying in bed right beside me and I woke up ,he had a huge hard on and that so called' Friend" of his was on there after he lied and said he does not have facebook and I tried to grab his phone and he almost broke my hand.
I had a full hysterectomy at a young age in my life so is it normal that now at the age of 66 I still get arouse. Just by talking about it I have never been married but I did have my children out of wedlock years ago. So is it okay as a Christian woman wanting to be with my fiance in a sexual relationship after marriage
I am very logic minded, inside out helped me immensely , just found this wheel.. I was thinking a great tool for journelling. Great video, thank you !!
It's strange because sometimes the Narc is only Narc in certain circumstances and with certain people. That means they are not completely beyond salvation. If they ever get insight and see they are more Narc around certain people (like you!) and they want to change, they might move away from you and leave you alone. Believe it or not, some might get some insight but stay away even if they do! And pray for them from afar.
Rom 1 (NKJV) ¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯ ²⁶ For this reason God gave them up to vile passions. For even their women exchanged the natural use for what is against nature. ²⁷ Likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust for one another, men with men committing what is shameful, and receiving in themselves the penalty of their error which was due. Whether married christians or not secular people Should not practice oral sex, and anal sex The mouth is designed for eating and anal is designed for other things too. God was wise and put everything in order
I don’t understand….Christians are largely taught that most sex is punishable by hell fire yet we are shocked that people are repulsed by sex? I would say that’s a normal reaction to sex if you were raised in that environment. Not to mention that culturally, women are shamed for sex more than men. Even sex within marriage would still be obscene if we showed it to people. Some people would argue that even within marriage- sodomy, or any sex that is used for pleasure only and not for the purpose of giving birth is wrong. Mary was literally a VIRGIN when she gave birth to Jesus. If women stayed celibate and had children via a sperm donor wouldn’t she technically be leading by example?
Just wanted to share a little bit about a story: I used to be trusting of men, men that I didn't know. I use to be naive and thought no one would hurt me or give me a disease, get me pregnant etc. I lived a fast lifestyle, because I felt that I had to. I felt I didn't have a choice. Now I'm 30 and I've learned lessons that I felt was necessary to learn at an early age. Trauma is connected to intimacy most definitely. I will never be intimate with a man or woman because I can't trust people with my body. Two things I don't play about is my body and my money. I am more confident today as a woman and I stopped the casual sex cycle.
I need an online support group or zoom group with other women who have to deal with an emotionally abusive mother. I feel exhausted every time I am talking to her or in her presence.
A sexless marriage in the case when the wife denies it over and over means that it's going to be a long sad life of "me time" for the husband unless he decides to divorce and regain his self respect
Amen! I love that response, thank you. Invite God in and give him thanks for those urges. Sex is a good thing, God designed as such. It’s the world that corrupts it
Getting into his mind by expertly knocking down his psychological walls and making him tingle with feelings of pleasure, means you're doing it right. There are many so called "canned phrases" to make it happen, for example go’ogling something like Celestine Dessike's Words of Desire was the perfect formula for me
Like you said Majority of men have higher sex drives. Mines is way higher than my wifes and there are no answers or fixes to it i just have to suffer through it amd still expected to be faithful
By all means, know the why of the situation. But if the reason is some nonsense like, I don't feel like I, I don't want to, or just no, you have some decisions to make. They are in open rebellion to God, 1 Corinthians 7:5 : "Do not deprive each other [of marital rights], except perhaps by mutual consent for a time, so that you may devote yourselves [unhindered] to prayer, but come together again so that Satan will not tempt you [to sin] because of your lack of self-control." They have abandoned the marriage and you have to decide how long you are going to tolerate it.
As a trained Art Therapist (back when I was in the new age) we need to let our Christian families know most art therapists will use altered states and that is where some demonic or shamanic journey is happening. Staying strong in the Word and have a strong core would help the client to first call on God and Jesus for protection and prayer. God Bless
Last time about 15 years ago" hurry up "really angry, Gave up asking shortly after that. Her reply at 45 , "to old for that ." Just noticed we haven't touched each other for years, except and arm around me for the projected image of a group Photo after church. I am still there even after kids left home Paul says be content with the wife of your youth, problem is I am not content with the no intimacy, power struggle, hording, credit card maxing marriage. Holding on for a miracle though.
If it's already been 15 years you've probably tried this. But can you touch without any sexual stuff. Like give her massages, cuddling, slow dancing, etc. Does she not even like when you just touch her and make it just for her?
@@celiasleigh2805 some times I get to scratch her back or I sneak a hug from behind, like if she is cooking something in the kitchen and not watching me, but no affection is reciprocated or ever initiated from her now, except if she wants to spend my money or for me to do something, but then it is more a jab or a prod accompaning a demand. But I am at the stage now, I mostly can't be bothered trying, because I get shrugged off and there is no way I want to do anything physically that she dosn't want. I guess we have grown into flat mates only, But that is not my wish or decision. May be it is now unforgiveness on my part because of rejection. I need to repent from that. And keep trying and keep praying and try to commuicate with out fighting and blaming.
@@celiasleigh2805 Yes I try and sneak a hug from behind some times or she wants her backed scratched, But affection is not reciprocated or ever initiated from her, unless she wants something from me like money, or for me to do something, then it is usually a demand and I get a prod form her to get my attention.. Now we have grown into flat mates, who use the same bed to sleep in. For me I don't like to initiate anything physically affection wise.( Any discussion on the matter I am met with the excuse "that's only for young ones we are to old for that." ) for two reasons, 1)rejection hurts me, since I still hope pray, love her etc. 2) I don't want to impose on her any thing physically that she does not want. What gets me is she is social has lots of close girl friends and she always greets them with a hug and kiss etc European style as opposed to reserved English/Kiwi like me...Who never had the confidence to be like that. (strictly an hand shake only)
@@celiasleigh2805I do that, but my wife doesn't really make any time for that. Touching generally occurs with a prod when she wants something done or wants to spend my money(she earns more than me.) by working 3 days a week, But still hoards junk and maxes credit cards. I have gone separate money now, (not my first choice). But there has never been shared financial goals. She will otherwise never initiates any touching, for me I do not want to impose myself on her. but now I am hitting her up for half the bills.
This man has absolutely no communication skills. He sounds like a politician evading a cogent answer to a specific question. If this guys charges by a 45:00 session the people will have been dead 10 years before getting a useful answer.
That is not helpful at all. There were no good action steps on how to approach those conversations in the relationship. People sometimes are isolated or don’t have a good friend to talk to. Not everyone can afford to go to a counselor.
i was a virgin girl until 24 i waited patiently on the Lord to send me a godly man to marry but I was tired of waiting and my body was punishing me every month with excruciating physical pain and emotional pain so i gave in and I did it before marriage with my boyfriend. Unfortunately the relationship didn’t end in marriage but at least my body calmed down and i didn’t have as much pain as i did as a virgin.
This sounds great, however my autistic spouse has no empathy, hes emotionally abusive and he can't handle any conflict. He has no friends. I have gone to Christ on my knees because it's so painful. How can my husband be a Christian and act this way? It's so hard. Thanks for posting ladies.
