Thank you for this series. It has helped me see all my games for what they really are. I’m trying to play so many all at the same time. Some of them contradictory. No wonder my life feels like chaos!
Crazy how I'm just finding out about this info today, June 20th, 2024. This interview was recorded 19 years before I was born lmao but hey, more relevant today than ever!!
I was about to get mad because I thought this video was a repost of the one I just watched. They're different but filmed at the same time, I guess: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-NBO38HqQTgI.html
Anyone here think we're on the cusp of building that third story he was talking about? With the stupidity that is Trump and the degradation of our politics down to the level of a bunch of kids insulting one another, it looks to me that as a nation we need to heal our inner-child! I've been watching a lot of John Bradshaw to learn about this. That's actually what brought me here lol
I think we have a way to go if we misunderstand what has become of are politics and calling actually very intelligent people “stupid” because it’s out of our scope of understanding (very rarely is a person actually stupid). It’s deeper than “everyone heal your inner child” it’s actually about choosing intimacy against those who refuse it. But the problem with it, is that there are motives that are beyond the human condition that make us fight for things we deem right in our own eyes. Ultimately it’s not an attachment issue as to more of people having other causes and beliefs that they’re willing to cheat and sacrifice everything at any cost. Lies and regurgitation are a whole other beast on their own that even the healthiest of individuals can still fall victim to it.
@@jojochara6352take a look at the latest Tucker Carlson interview with Mike Benz listen it’s high level “games”… then dive into how and what psychology has become’ what’s been introduced into their schooling. Years ago they knew that trauma therapy and transactional therapy were needed and instead they made a model based in a ton of pills so they could make money off of a person especially if they could prescribe for life
Wow! This is my parents' era. I love the way men wore suits and the accent was mild, speech was clear, manners were so good. I bet there were many fewer cars on the roads, as well.
Too simple to look at the parent as the superego, the adult as the ego and the child as the id? More recently, I guess we might apply the wise mind approach too as a comparable model.
Everybody’s a psychiatrist if you interact (transact) with people. But Eric Berne managed to make a living by not complicating it and so that everybody can see the psychiatrist in them and in others.
Why did rapunzel tell grandmother she was sleeping with a boy when she knew wouldn’t allow it? Sounds like she set it up herself. Yeah she did Berne confirms this. The girl says I’m tired of him and signals this to grandmother. So grandmother says I’ll get rid of him for you.
Berne talks about intimacy as meaning a game free relationship. He also talks about something called autonomy meaning doing what you want to do and not just what you are told to. He is of course talking about voices in your head from long ago. Today this has a negative connotation but as he say’s schizophrenia is more severe and everyone has some form of it whether they recognize it or not. The aware person can tell they have different personalities or egos while the schizophrenic has lost control of all his ego states I believe. He not only can’t recognize it but doesn’t know who should respond and when.
Therapy for patient or the Therapist. when we are dealing with faculty of individuals in the contract and the jump out of woods is an actuality of realisations of the selves.when the interviewer termed TA a schizophrenia, in truth it's implied to conceptual psychology of Freudian,jungian,or a Skinner,pigot, a differential sphere heading towards a coherent integral science of experiences.An advent shall be a modern day psychology of deeper,wider and broader one,fusioned with science and spirituality.Eric Bernie the One surfaced it in psychological spheres with TA and Gestalt.
Eric Berne was one of the first books I read on psychology before I went to University to study psychology... it was hands down the most comprehensive, profound and powerful information on psychology I ever read, nothing in all my years at Uni (4 years) came close to it...
Wow. I never heard of this man or this book. But now I'm all in and I completely understand why I also value Jordan Peterson's information. I love RU-vid. ❤
Doctor Eric Berne´s theory has a lot to do with meditation and the strengthening of the frontal lobe. The logical thinking and data processing is mostly done in the frontal lobe, and meditation can help this process to improve, even increasing the size of the frontal cortex. The Adult in Berne´s theory is very similar to this in function. I am reading his books now and it makes much more sense than freudian, jungian or lacanian ideas (with are very esoteric in nature).
I don’t think anyone has ever beaten their wife over a cigarette. Usually people go see a psychiatrist because someone else has a problem with them. And everybody smoked in the 60s. Even today some people still don’t have a problem with it and on some podcasts they say nicotine has brain boosting effects. I still wouldn’t touch the stuff because one of my grandmas died of lung cancer and cigarettes are relatively expensive so I’m told because of how government taxes them now.
Love Dr Eric's comment" The breast is not a part of me". But how about: The Penis is not a part of me either! :) Is our society ready for that statement? :) Love Dr Eric Burn's books. May he rest in peace.
8:44 - YES, THANK YOU!! One of my favorite parts of Berne’s theory is that he gets the difference between high-level hardware modes and subordinate software “roles” just about right.
I was going to make a comment disputing Berne’s point about anger, but upon reflection I wonder if there *are* people who just *can’t have* ego-syntonic anger. I can only very rarely have ego-syntonic acute fear, and it’s frustrating to talk to people for whom that’s a regular occurence, because their “trust your fear” advice seems so malicious [but it’s not! they’re just typical-minding!], and yet I’m pretty sure my *anger* helps me routinely. Anyway great theory
Thank you, Dear. It was great listening to Eric Berne and his talk on Games. it would be wonderful let him discuss Scripts, What Do you Say after you say Hello. it would be wonderful to listen even to Claude Stiner, and James joiner
