I'm no expert but the first thing I do is to identify if I'm on the lighter or darker shade. I divide the shade ranges into two groups. Then, I compare the lightest and darkest shade of whichever group suit me, I eliminate the shade that's too far from my hand's shade, and then I keep comparing and eliminating until I'm down to 3 shades. I pick a lighter shade out of the 3 for better coverage.
I'm 25N Mocha in this video, but I've seen other reviews saying to go one shade lighter due to oxidation. So I'm between 24N Latte and 25N Mocha. Visit shop here: ph.shp.ee/RRsepm5
It's okay to take attention of other's wants but you should also take care of yourself. If this keeps up, you might also lose your inner voice and be unable to build a path for yourself just like what happened to me. I'm currently trying to change my pleasing attitude and started to say what I truly want. Though I sometimes still please people by instict, I managed to take note of what I truly want. Let's do this together, we can do this!
I feel you girl ❤❤ I literally can’t say no to anyone except if they are asking to do a favour for me then I say no bc I feel like they don’t want to do it even though they asked to do it but I’ve lost sooooooo many people and friends bc of me just being a people pleaser they called me a burden 😢😢❤❤
