I'm Xander. Honestly this is pretty much just a channel documenting my progression as far as trans stuff goes. I'm FTM transgender. My main type of social media for this whole shindig is apptrans.tumblr.com. If anyone has any questions or would like me to make a video about a certain topic, I am always up for suggestions. :)
@@sylvestercrowley I wish I could laugh react to this. I can talk deeper if I really want to, but I just choose not to most of the time. Also I have heard plenty of variety on how “grown men” talk. If you’re talking about the really deep and gruff voice that some men talk in, that also can be a front that men decide to put on because they don’t think they’ll be viewed as masculine without it
Hi, nice to meet you and learn from your experiences. 7th yr here with meds, started way older, top done, married 28 yrs to same woman, and it's going well, although sometimes odd, especially during the vid, when I really was beginning to gain confidence. Nice to see you're going into SW; our community needs that help! Doesn't seem like it would be, but New England is crying for mental health professionals. I hope you're somewhere near, but won't ask where. I can be answered on my channel if you'd like. You gained a sub and hopefully and ally. It's quiet these days on the trans community pages, and I can understand why. Be well, Sir. Congrats on your successes!
@@viconpc9531 I appreciate it! Really trying to get to the point where I can make more videos consistently again. Work in progress, but for once, I think we’re getting there!
I love that you spoke so openly and specifically about this topic!! Each trans person is different but I think when we can talk specifics we help each other, and the people who want to have sex with us, with a more grounded sense of how sex might look for us.
I wish I didnt feel this way, but whenever I hear of people having casual sex or sexual explorations, I feel they are lacking empathy and are heartless. I have an image of them ignoring the disabled or others for their relief and drive. I feel wronged. Is this linked to my gender dysphoria as a trans woman who has not transitioned and not been intimate yet at 25? Even hearing someone I like discuss past sexual encounters briefly feels like an insult to me deeply. I feel hurt and worthless and left out and disrespected and its crippling.
As someone who is close to getting their master's in social work, this has me thinking more so about how you grew up and how you were taught about sex. A lot of people are taught about it in a lens of shame/disgust and that can be very harmful and difficult to work through. This can certainly be related to dysphoria if you're having a lot of anxiety around sex when it comes to your dysphoria, but I also would say there are a lot of other factors as to why you're thinking in this way. That said, it is completely valid to think this way and I would also only say you would need to change it if this mindset causes distress for you
Hii, anways nice, all straight to the point. But 1 thing I didn't understand, sorry May I ask your transformation is? Is that from Male to Female or Female to Male transformation?
Thank you for sharing your experiences. It would be wonderful if all of us could be more honest with each other and "make love" regardless of parts. There are a lot of men I would love to hug and kiss and hold hands with if they were interested in these same affections with me. I feel like I am starving emotionally and pretending I'm doing fine whenever anyone asks me, "How are you doing?" I want to immediately hug the guy asking and hang onto him for awhile. Anyway, thank you for sharing your story. Each of us are trying to find our way. :-)
Thank you for this , im a cis man and had sex with a man trans and it was so goos on my side and i guess he likes it too cuz the second time was just so good, but i keep thinking if he liked it, we had sex twicr and i want more but wer really close friends and i just feel strange and scared on losing our friendship cuz he might think i want to be friends with him just cuz he has a vagina
You should do a magic show and turn yourself back into a girl. Get a good mental health doctor, and live a normal life. You are consumed with sex, because the Devil is is using you to spread evil. Get help, become the woman God made you to be.
I was born biologically female, I just happened to have an Adam's apple before I even started transitioning. While Adam's apples are most common with cis men, anyone can have one
It is one of the changes that happens on HRT (hormone replacement therapy). If you start HRT when you’re older then sometimes the vocal cords are stiffer and less able to change, otherwise it’s literally the same effect as when as teenage boy goes through adolescence.
So I actually had an Adam's apple before I started transitioning. I hadn't even started hormones or living as male yet. Adam's apples are typically more common with cis men, but technically anyone can have one. It has to do with a lot of different factors including how the body distributes fat
Wow! I just learnt more about trans sex in this … what? 7 minute video? That I had ever before. It’s amazing the level of possibilities of exploring sexual experiences with others, especially when you are not open to have sex with people from of any sex. Sometimes I wish that was also me. But nope. As a gay man, I honestly don’t feel any attraction at all to a vagina. Not one in a woman’s body anyway. But I have frequently asked myself what would I do if I ever ran into a handsome trans guy like you here? And I always come up with the same answer: I would not be absolutely against exploring the situation. Would I go all the way to vaginal penetration if it is a handsome lad like you here? This part I sincerely don’t know. Thanks for your candid talk. Very educational.
Im a gay guy and i was catfished by a trans guy. We hooked up for a whole year and he wouldnt let me touch him and he only wanted to give me oral. He was so hot and I thought he was a closeted straight guy who wanted to know what its like to perform oral on guys. So at the end of the year I asked him if we could have sex and be more intimate like kiss and do it in bed (we always did it in his car) and he flat out told me "you know im trans right"? And I was so shocked but I still wanted to hook up and he came over and we had the most awkward sex ever in the dark and he wouldnt let me eat his 😿 because of his euphoria i guess. Since then Ive watched trans man porn and its so hot lol and Ive even been with women and I love eating their 😺 Its like with a girl Im having sex with an effeminate twink and with trans guys it feels like Im having sex with straight guys.
