Sup, guys! It's Kai! I'm just a random guy here to talk about all things related to the pursuit of happiness. And by that I mean I'm going to be sharing my "Gender Journey" with you all! I made this channel so that I can see myself transition over time and also to help out people who have questions regarding transgender-related issues. Watching videos helped me, so I hope to pass along the knowledge I have gained through experience.
I'm also a cosplayer, so feel free to check out my work on the channel KonekoCosplay.
He/him - I am a BOY. Anyone who fails to grasp that concept will be blocked, sorry.
I am a Leo. Look up any definition of the horoscope and it will describe me. Promise.
Dogs = life.
I'm super open to conversation, so please don't hesitate to ask questions - can't learn if you don't ask!
I'm watching this video(just a little bit in late lol) and I'm so happy for you.I hope you'll post some new videos :) CIAO from ITALY🇮🇹 (ps:sorry for grammatical errors)
Congratulations on your name change!! I'm sure you're helping a lot of people with these videos. :) I think I spy a Sekaiichi Hatsukoi pillow in the background! Lol
Ah Kai; I still remeber when you posted a picture on Instagram saying you are on T now. Back then I didn't even know what it was but you have changed so much and it makes me so happy seeing you happy and I'm really looking forward to see how you will change with time and get more mascular and manly in general, I mean to me you definetely look and sound like a guy ! So I'm happy for you and also happy to see you more often here on youtube; just please don't just drop the channel. Xx :)
Thank you Kai, this channel and your matt cosplay vids saved my life. i am transitioning ftm but i'm not allowed T because british doctors dont want me on T yet. it really sucks because i know im a guy in a girls body. please keep making more videos because i absolutely love them and you deserve more likes and subs than you're getting. Your very grateful fan, Ellie -> Elliott
Also Kai can you make a video about how to deal with people who make fun of you for who you are? Because it would help me a lot. You bring up good points and your good at telling people stuff. Thanks and just so you know you are perfect I love that your doing what you want! ☺️
How the hell did you get your hair so beautiful. You could make a video on how you deal with people who generally disregard you (like still use female pronouns) its probably not a problem now because you can just whip out your ID like "fuck you look at this gender marker" but how did you handle it before then???
I wish I could like this more than once. I cannot say this enough. I love and support everything that you're doing. You look and sound amazing Kai. Your strength is so inspiring. You are up there as one of my heroes. I wish I could be more open about myself and who I am like you. You're amazing!
I think you are so brave for making this channel and putting yourself out there like this. I know I'd never have the guts to talk about my own identification and sexuality journey on RU-vid. I admire you so much. Just wanted to say that.
congratulations Kai! loved the video, lots of information to absorb but easy to keep in mind because the explanations you gave were easy to follow and well detailed.
This is like really off topic but Kai, your hair is FUCKING MAJESTIC!! It's beautiful and every style and color looks good on you and just YOUR HAIR… but besides your handsome hair, congrats on getting your name legally changed!!
Can't say this enough, very happy and proud of you, Kai! You're now legally Kai as well which is very liberating I'm sure. I've known people who've gone through name changes, even my dad so I was familiar with it but likes hearing your story.
ohh I'm so happy for you Kai! I love you! I was wondering if you could make a video explaining how K.T. reacted when you've started with T. It's just curiosity, you don't have to do it if you don't want. (Sorry if my English is a mess) lol ♥
+Lujan Gomez YES! This is definitely something I want to talk about! And I'm excited to include KT! I don't know if it will happen for the next few videos, but it will happen! Thank you very much for the suggestion!
I'm super happy for you, Kai! I'm happy you can be who you want to be, where as some of us may have to wait a bit longer. So, if you could answer (obviously, you don't have to) how did you get the name Kai? What drew you to it? If you've addressed this already, I'm sorry for asking...
+Grace Webster Ah! No! I would love to address this though! Picking a name can be really hard and this is a very good topic, so thanks for the suggestion!
I'm really happy for you! I think this might have helped some people too! It might be different depending on where I am but now I can get an idea for how it works without feeling awkward for asking. Thanks Kai!
+carol ann and rachel Never feel awkward about asking! I called like 10 different places and was shot down saying they "can't give me legal advice" but I eventually figured it out!
so Kai what is your name like full name now?? I'm not trying to be rude or too personal I was just curious you don't have to answer if it's to personal and now I'm just rambling sorry
+Brenna Turkington My full name is now Finnegan Kai [legal last name]. So Kai is actually my middle name xP I will probably make a video about picking a name and mention it more in detail then!
im happy for you kai and if im honest when I first came across your and Kt's cosplay channel I always saw you as male even before I found out that you were born female. My friend Paris is about to start T and I say your Tip videos are going to be really helpful for him through the changes. He still gets misgendered and people keep using his dead name which makes him really sad because when someone hears it they think it is okay for them to use it and not call him Paris. He also gets annoyed that people keep using her/she instead of him/he which makes him unhappy and then makes me go on a massive rant at the person/people misgendering him. Anyway what I wanted to say is your an awesome guy and I feel you have helped so many people including myself. Watching your cosplay videos helped me get the courage to actually cosplay myself with my friend and not care what other people think. I also feel that you and Kt having being yourselves no matter what other people may feel helped me come out as Bisexual to my friends and parents even though I knew that my parents especially would not be supportive... what im trying to say is thank you for helping so many people be comfortable with themselves and have the courage to be themselves no matter how people react -Amy
Wow great changes Happening on you, indeed! It´s like going through puberty again, isn´t it? You definitely look even better than before and your voice sounds good. Well, I think your voice before wasn´t so awful as you described it, really. Good idea to show us pictures from your time before to compare with your look now. That plush neko is soooo cute!
I'm really proud of you and just want to say that I noticed you or K.T like Merlin and would just like to express how awesome I think it is that you like it as well.
Yeah I did, I had to pause the video for a minute to remember what I recognized it from but at least analyzing all detail in drama lessons has paid off.
I'm so happy for you. And I just wanted to say that I've always loved your hair, like in every video I've seen you in without a wig I love your hair and I plan to get my hair restyled and you were a part of me choosing to do that. Also I'm in the middle of my matt cosplay now which you also inspired me to do. xxx Really proud!
+Emily Crawford Glad I could inspire you! Hair is one of those things that you can change and it will just grow back, so I love messing with it! And a haircut can easily be styled different ways, which is also fun to experiment with! And good luck with the cosplay! I'm sure it'll be great!
What a handsome boy! I'm so proud of you! I like to see you happy ! You deserve it! I can't wait to your new videos! I love you! my sweet prince (? xoxox
