Sarah, i'm sure you're off doing better things than social media on RU-vid. I just want to say that WE MISS YOU 💖💖💖 With the oversaturation of millions of bloggers… You've remained my favorite over the years! You are a glam QUEEN!
My heart absolutely breaks for you, brought back my own story ....Sending you strength, I kept seeing 'if someone is not fighting for you or is okay to risk losing you...let them go', it is horrific to go through, I felt I lost my twenties to someone I thought was my person. Trust in the process, please know you are being freed for better. I met my true person a year later and now married twenty years together, blessed beyond words but I still remember this time in my life. You are not 'not good enough', you were just with the wrong one!! Sending love and strength, allow yourself time to grieve. Every day you awake a tiny bit stronger hang in there. Next time KNOW it is okay to go through tough times, AND if a proposal is important to you that is perfectly fine too. With the right person you should feel safe to say what you need. Write yourself a letter predate for a year from now. Do chord cutting with archangel Michaels strength when you are ready and be very gentle and kind to yourself xx
This is so hard and everything you feel is normal and part of being human. Speaking of experience, time is the only remedy. You will better well soon. The only real positive is that it is always good that it happens sooner rather than later. Don’t be harsh on yourself self and this life.
Sarah mou, i did not hear the video yet im on the first 5 min...i believe you will be back together..but you have to put limits when he will come back to you.. sending you lots of love and wish you happy birthday 🎂 (with little delay) ❤❤
I’ve been through the same thing at the same time. Same story exactly the same reason that I was broken up with. And I also have the same attitude and same thought as you as I never put pressure or force him to propose after we were together for 5 years I wanted to marry him I loved him just so much would have done anything in the entire world just to be with him but at the end he chose to walk away. Everyone around me kept asking that when we were getting married cause we were together for that long it made me embarrass sometimes. I also had business that related to his business and not I just lost relationship with him I also lost the relationship with all those clients that I do with him too. After all those years we were together and so close to each other at the end he said he wasn’t sure if he wanted to marry me and he didn’t me in his future. It’s been 3 months now since that break up and I still can’t get over it I still cry everyday but I am sure I will get better one day. We’ll get through this.
I’m so sorry. Thank you for talking about this and for being so vulnerable. We need more of it, esp from women. Apart from gorgeous, you seem like such a sweet kind nice person. You will find your person and realise he did you the biggest favour. You will also realise that a small part of your heart will always ache for what could have been, and that’s ok! And totally normal. I can’t wait to see where this journey takes you ❤
I really relate to this alot! I was dumped for the first time in my life Jan of this year, it came completely out the blue, after 2.5 years together (pratically living together), what's worse is it's made me feel stupid as she was like "I love you! I miss you" after 3 hours away being in work, then comes home with a face on, and was completely off with me, then it felt like she was trying her best to start an argument and when she kept lying "I'm fine" when I said what's up she says "I can't do this anymore"... it felt like, where is my gf right now? Clearly our exes are the type that move on while in relationships selfishly they can detach with comfort and when they're ready they dump you like garbage, it's a horrible feeling. I've split up with people before but the moment I feel something isn't right or something feels off, I communcate it, I TRY TO FIX IT, and if it can't be fixed, they're not totally blind sided when it's over. Some people you can love but never really know them, they wear a mask, my exes mask slipped the last day we was together and I have to give it to her she wore it well!! I'm doing massively better now! And I hope you are too!
wait dating 6 years?! oh honey nah this is where the redflag is :( you deserve someone that feels like there's not enough time on earth with you, feeling that big huge yes everywhere. Someone that loves you at that level will not wait 6 years to decide wether they want it or leave it (what the frick)
The Present & Future Is Unpredictable Day-By-Day Week-By-Week Year-By-Year Because People Are So Much Unreelable, yes loyalness and faithfulness.. Play's A Key Roll In Every Relationship/Marriage Long Term Relationships Can Be Hard need challenging & testing. i believe that only hope a relationship or engagement or marriage couple stand a change of making it everlasting love together is if a couple can upload & 3 Promises 1. Communication 2. loyalness and faithfulness 3. Stick It Out when the tough gets going, 2 never leave. Only point 2 lovers Should End if cheating takes Place.. I was Married Once 6 Years, My Ex-Wife Was 2 Blame. " I Am Honesty In My Words Good Or Bad, Its Who I Am" On The Other Hand My Ex Fiancée Zoe Who I Was With 8 Years She Was The Best! In All Ways! In Every. Way! Losing Zoe Was Fully My Fault Not Hers! I Am 2 Blame. I Know How You Feel Hang In There, A Man Will Come Your Way That Want Leave You... TRUST. We All Live A Life Of All Things Known 2 Mankind Good/Bad & A Mix Of Both. I Found Above All Is The First Thing About Life Is Communication Its The Foundation 2 Our Day-Day Well Being.... Nothing Can Work In Life WithOut Convo You Poured oUT yOUR hEART IT'S bEEN 2 mONTHS TIME 2 lET yOUR hAIR dOWN AS HE nOT COMING BK & HANG AROUND FAMILY AND FRIENDS 2 HELP MOVE ON.
His loss babe, you deserve to be chosen wholeheartedly and loved the way you love others. It will take time to feel like yourself again but trust me the next chapter is going to be amazing 💛
thank you so much for sharing! i was blindsided after 5 1/2 years, we were talking marriage, buying property (just a few weeks before) and then suddenly, he decided he didn't love me anymore. insanity
I was with my ex for nearly 4 years, throughout the years, he always says things like when we get married we will do blah blah blah etc...we were looking at house to move in together for our next chapter etc. Then one day, boom - he said the exact the same sentence: you are the person I want to be married. I left him immediately. I felt so betrayed and heart broken, all the hardwork I did for this relationship. My mum hated him so much and I always stood by his side. I suffered a lot of mental stress because of the family conflict...then 3 months later, he started dating my colleague, now they are married. I really don't hate him anymore, I am with a wonderful man now, every part of him is so much better than my ex and I love him so much, the way that I have never loved any men in my life. So, don't take it as a depreciation of your self value, it's nothing about you. If I was with my ex now I probably would be very unhappy or already divorced. I would never have met my current boyfriend, remember: when god closes a door for you, that means he is opening another door for you soon. sending you so much strength and hugs. Wish you find the next man/love of you life very soon.
I was with an amazing guy for 10 years. We grew up together and both loved each other very much. It was actually me who started to realise it wasn’t what I wanted. Love isn’t always enough, he treated me so well and so finally making the decision brought so much guilt but at the end of the day it wasn’t fair on either of us to stay when I began to feel is wasn’t right and we didn’t work as well as we once did. It’s not that you’re not good enough, it’s not that he didn’t love You, sometimes the feeling just fades and you’re left with a shitty choice to make.
People who walk away from good people baffle me. The same will fade with the next one, especially after a decade. It’s what you choose to do with the relationships (the phases) that keeps it alive or not
That’s true someone who’s meant to be in your life will never leave you! But sometimes they don’t want to take the responsibility for the breakup by forcing you to walk away. They might abandon you in silence like my ex GF when i asked her questions about her cheating. If she was angry attack me in my sleep. In some respects through abuse they already have abandoned you.
Im 32 & Ive been going through your exact situation since April too and I'm still completely lost and cry every single day. Ive moved back into my Mums with our fur baby and don't know where to begin to pick up all the pieces to start over again. <3
OMG! They stayed together for 8 years. Why on earth would anyone wait that long. You wasted your time, a precious commodity that you'll never get back. Watch him get married to the next girl he meets within 2 years. It never fails. On the bright side, at least you didn't marry and have kids - and then get a divorce.
I am not a fan of this channel or a subscriber. I clicked on this video just on a whim. I was expecting another vapid internet chick to spew some bullshit. I instead watched the entire thing start to finish . I have to say I am very impressed with the honesty of the young woman who is the creator of this channel. She wears her heart on her sleeve and having been in this exact situation myself, I know that making this video took serious guts. She seems to be handling it way better than I did and gives great advice. Kudos to you Ms Ashcroft. One of the best videos I have seen all year. I think it will help whoever watches it.
The biggest mistake that woman makes is moving in with a boyfriend and then expect the boyfriend to marry her. If a man have you in his bed every night why would he marry you? Giving a boyfriend a benefit of husband is the biggest mistake woman makes.
Sarah.. You should be ..just be.. whatever that is for you until you feel better in yourself.. I think your a beautiful soul, vulnerability is a super power.. You are wise beyond your years..and that will stand to you in life..❤ I'm not ancient but I am 49 and resonate with your story....
