At birth there is around a million potential eggs but it declines, around puberty it can be around 300.000 but only one egg gets released every month, some cases 2 eggs at once(twins for example).
I knew my husband was the one for me in high school, but we didn't date until we were 24. He took a little longer to get there, lol, but we were really good friends first. I call him my soulmate because he is not just my husband but also my best friend! We have a lot of interests in common, but we also have things we love separately, and I think that is super important in a relationship. Like, we don't resent when we do things apart. We say "have fun with that thing you're off to go do!" But we also really enjoy spending time together. All of that said, we've been married for twenty years. Love does not expire, but it does change over time. As you grow older together, you definitely get more comfortable, but also closer. The things you go through together either will bring you closer, or could become something that drives you further apart. It's important to learn to let things go when things are negative, and hold on to the things that are positive. We had arguments in our early years of marriage, but rarely do now. We talk things out. We have conversations. Communication is so important. And, to be super real: the physical is SUPER important, especially to men. Women biologically don't have the same sex drive at every age. And it's important to understand that men do, and to make an effort in your relationship to keep that aspect. You guys talked about lust expiring. That first-in-love lust does mellow, but you can make an effort together even when things are comfortable, and there is added intimacy the closer you are. I think what happens is people often let "life" get in the way. Relationships are effort. They are work. But at the end of the day they are worth it. My father-in-law (married for 60 years) gave us advice when we got married: in life, you have good days and bad days. In marriage, you might have good years and bad years. Work through the bad together, enjoy the good together, let the bad go, and remember the good. I think about that often, and it's definitely been true.
I'm one of a fan that you mentioned, oppa 😭 your songs have been my lullaby and my study buddy since I was still wearing my high school uniform and now I am a wife and a mother. I'm still here to support TVXQ and always proud to be a Cassiopeia ❤️
