I love how INTP women are so sensual while cerebral. It’s fascinating how they read so feminine, mischievous, sweet, humble, but still, earthy. Sensual. I don’t get how people think them cold when none of these people read cold at all. Like at all. The way they emote and hold themselves is impartial, respectful, matter of fact, but they don’t say things in a detached manner. People probably go about it from a “You are what you do” approach except most people don’t think. INTPs put a lot of work into thinking and investing in putting consideration which most people don’t. Their thoughts and words ARE action, beautiful actions. They give life beauty by sharing their insight from their unique stance of deciding to respect life and the beings in it. TBH I think them the warmest of the types for they’re not about artifice, they’re peaceful and respectful. Considerate. Things most people think they have no time to be or think others worthy of such investment. INTP think life is worth that enough to show love to it that way. Humbly speaking, an ESTJ.
As an ENFJ, not only did i full on cackle but, also completely identified with the "arrogant but modest" part, that is the best way to describe us. Me, at least! I have never felt more understood!❤
Is this really Ni? I am doing this my whole life. Even in kindergarten when all the other kids were climbing and running and yelling, I asked myself WHY they are doing it, because it absolutely makes NO sense. It´s completely meaningless. Like imagine standing in front of God and saysing "I didn´t do anything important for the world, but hey look, I can do a handstand and breakdance!" Um, yeah, that´s really helpful...not. I always thought that was Ti, because I was analyzing and asking WHY and looking for the answer by deeply thinking about things (spoiler: I still haven´t found the answer to this nonsense behavior).
The first one is called Baader-Meinhof phenomenon. Nothing strange about it. I also had it a few times. Like I would read a word I have never herad before and then I turn on the radio and I hear a song about this word. It's also normal for us to think that we see a lot of angel numbers. However, we see regular numbers just as often, but we attach no significance to them, and thus they fade from our memory. Last year, I had the feeling that I was seeing many license plates with angel numbers, but when I searched for a rational explanation, I quickly concluded that it must be because angel numbers are visually more appealing and attract attention more than ordinary numbers do. Wearing a summer dress with sneakers in the city in the middle of summer is nothing unusual. If you had looked around, you would have seen dozens of women in summer dresses with sneakers; it's a completely normal summer outfit. This will make a lot of people mistype as Ni doms. It´s completely normal, but some people interpret too much into it. We usually choose friends who are similar to us or share the same values and beliefs, so it's completely normal for these people to behave, dress, pose, and so on in similar ways as we do. Instead of always looking for a deeper meaning, we should first try to explain everything rationally. Otherwise, it can quickly veer into conspiracy theories or “la-la land" behavior. Personally, I can’t take that seriously, and people who believe such things lose all credibility with me.
But why does this sound so much like Fi dom? Biggest goal being your authentic self...writing or creating something when you feel deep emotions...finding people stupid who don't know what they want...having strong own values... ???
Oh my God, you just perfectly described me. I was even typed as ENFJ twice, but I rejected it because I am not a giver. II am way too focused on improving myself and the fucked up world to waste my time on other individuals who are just a distraction from my greater goal/vision. And I´ve been called as bold and selfish. But what is selfish about wanting the world to eb a better place?
15:50 She doesn´t strike me as an INFP at all. She forbids herself to feel certain feelings (like anger) and she even apologizes for talking so long. That´s not Fi, that´s Fe. Se blind like an INFP might actually forget about taking care of your body, but she puts a lot of effort into her look. She reads from a script!!! WTF?
I think I am an INXP and I hate social gatherings because every time I try to be "normal" but people look at me like I am a weirdo. Even the way I stand or sit must look weird to others, but I try so hard to stand or sit like a "normal" person.
Are there any other types that can be like that? I behave just like him when I am stressed. If you don’t do EXACTLY what I say, I will give you a lecture on how the world should function properly. But for me, it is in a moral kind of way. It´s not necessarily about things or systems, but how people should behave so everything works fine and nobody´s inner peace gets disrupted.
I think it is caused by other people. Like my mom. Gets frustrated thanks to unhealthy sister and brothers. I also get slap on my face. The only way is let her calm down and slowly come back. I give her water. Mom can't say no. That's her problem. So destructive. Imagine with entp dad. Omg. My house is on fire. I always hiding. The good thing is only mom who still apologize later. She just tired and stress. I wish mom can say no and stop priorities brothers. -infp
Whut??? 😳 Why I feel related all of the sudden. I also do this. More widrawn and self doubts. Going back to my dad's photo frame. So. Estj is like infp on the inside. Hope estjs doing fine. God bless you all.
As infp, i also dislike this women behavior. I mean to all introverts who enjoys read books and refuse to get invaded. It's annoying. Even when i talk to you, it is pointless. Just leave and let me enjoy reading. Women.
Imo, INFJ and INTJ can go crazy mode aka toxic behavior. I have infj sister and she did terrible things. She almost get pregnant or losing virginity to strange man. It's stupid. Now she choose to be single for a reason. She is crazy asf. Idk if she is estp or infj. When she is under stress, she will lash out and throw stuffs at me when I have nothing to do or know anything. If I get angry, usually tend to self isolation. My enfp brother is also crazy. So if both siblings gets crazy from their job/school, it is chaotic. I can not sleep. It's too loud. Omg. My sister will turn kpop songs like maniac from hell. She will dance and sing so loud. No one say something but i am tired. if I got mad bcs obviously it's midnight, my isfj mom tend to defend my infj sister. I get slap on my face. It hurts being the eldest. My enfp brother gets to destroys stuffs and mocking others. Imagine i was force to get into bathroom and he pour cold water on me. I was a sleep and get that for no reason. This is crazy. You think infp is crazy? Who make infp crazy? The environment cause infp gets crazy. If you want to destroy yourself just go away far and not do it to me. I just want to sleep.
The thing I identify the most with about this scene is the final absolute regret. I might have been keeping things inside for a long time, have a clear understanding of what's wrong and is hurting me and sincerely mean the pain... But the moment I explode and I'm honest I can't help but regret it, feel guilty and selfish and apologise...
I went to a dangerously toxic school and lived in the grip for years. This looks very familiar. The teachers said I was so good because I was quiet. I get quiet and cleanliness obsessed when I get scared. Naturally, I'm a pretty open book, and I love to share ideas with people.
This is an unhealthy infj who has been probably takin advantage of unaware that not every professional has your well being in mind. If a head doctor prescribed medication for mental or chemical issues and has not given a CAT or MRI Scan or no blood test . I would before taking meds do my due diligence. Because it's my personal responsible no one else's.
