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I feel like my mom.has always been in competition with me. She says she wants the bea5 for me.but i dont believe it. Anyone.i date.....i cant bring them home to meet her .. i feel.she has been been preventing me from entering into marriage.
You can break any curse in the name of Jesus by praying and fasting. You have authority if you are in Christ and living in righteousness. Don't believe what this man is saying he's speaking from a place of ignorance regardless if it's from a parent you can break any parental curses in Jesus name!!!! Make new declarations and decrees over your life with the Word of God that is key! DO NOT BELIEVE WHAT HE IS SAYING IT'S A LIE FROM THE PITS OF HELL!!!
A causeless curse shall not stand. So, if he's just displaying his character flaws then that's his problem. But you're required to honour him, regardless. However, his curses don't have any hold on you if you did nothing.
I like the fact that you emphasised on "acknowledging there's a problem first" before anything else. Resolution fails without acknowledgement. A mad man becomes sane the moment he realises his insanity. 👏 👏 👏
My father used to say "You may never wash your clothes if you don't recognise that they're dirty". Even God expects us to acknowledge our sins before we can confess them and then be forgiven. Thanks for watching. Thank you
I think that scarcity mentality is the reality in Africa and even the black community in America. That is why we compete amongst ourselves instead of collaborating. That's why Africans have terrible leaders because the people worship money due to poverty. This is insightful
I was actually thinking of that last point today you know! There should be that hunger for one to reinvent themselves over time to avoid that lazy mentality.
A fixed mindset can sometimes give rise to laziness. Reinventing oneself would go a long way. But it's a mindset, our life tends to move in the direction of our minds. Some people can easily explain the "hunger" away because of their mindset. Remember Gideon in the Bible? He didn't feel like he was enough.
You guys just Dey criticise fear and this is something I am not so comfortable with. Fear is not a bad thing jare Fear is a control mechanism, like a rate limiting step, put by God to recognise your limits and reminds you of the consequences of taking more than you can chew. You can decide to ignore it, if you succeed we clap, if you fail we mouvvveeee
Hmmm. This is an interesting angle. But I think that the rate-limiting mechanism you're talking about can be better described as caution. It creates some sort of balance. However, in the context of this video is that belief or disposition that prevents you from even trying at all.
Another type of people to stay away from are sadists. They never see any reason to be happy or stay positive and this can affect one’s psyche if you’re always around such sadists.
@MINDSHIFT1 so you are holding men to a standard imposed by a god you assume all men must believe in, and at the same time, implies that there are no sense of masculinity beyond what "god said" that a man is supposed to be like. On the other hand, this idea that god said that the man is the "leader" has been historically used to deny women rights and to prevent them from positions of power. The union between a man and a woman, IN MY OPINION, is a partnership, where both parties contribute and both parties have a say in the decision making process. on the other hand, god wants a relationship where there is a leader and follower. Something that historically has only served the purpose of keeping women subjugated. And the defense is: the leader only lovely protects and provides Thats on paper, on theory. But on real life it never plays out like that. When only 1 party provides, that party can often feel too empowered and overlook the other party's rights. Its like socialists defending the communist dream, something that sounds good in theory, when applied to human nature, it always goes wrong.
Thanks for getting back to me. I also agree that the union between a man and a woman should be a partnership. However, even in partnerships, one person has to lead. Now, the style of leadership should then be a different matter entirely. I don't know any organisation that has two CEOs, even if it has two cofounders. Neither do I know any ship that has two captains. Whether the leadership position of man is determined by God or not is a matter of belief and faith. It's okay to believe in His existence or not. I would like to say that leadership is not a matter of superiority and should not be rather. It's a matter of capacity. Man, being the leader, does not confer superiority on him, but even in our biology and throughout history, evidence abounds to support why men are wired to lead. Of course, not every man leads right. Have men misused their privileges and mistreated women? And unfortunately, some still do, but that doesn't change the fact. I don't think the matter of women not being allowed positions of power still holds water, especially in these modern times. It did in the past, but not anymore. Who exactly is stopping women from hodling positions of power these days, and how exactly is this happening? There are more women than men in the world. How come men still have the most votes in any political contest? I like your submission that when only one party provides, it makes such a party more powerful. The question would be what's stopping the other party from providing as well? I completely understand your point. However, even without making reference to God, you can not disagree that men are expected to be strong and display courage and bravery. These expectations come from both males and females (which make up every society). The world needs masculinity to process. Look around you. There are proofs of these because most of the things that make for a progressive society are built by men. In times of wars, men are expected to go and fight, not women. This does not mean that men are superior or better than women . It simply means that we all have our roles cut out for us and our very biological makeup support that. A better home or society, in my opinion, is one in which men and women align themselves to play their very unique and distinct roles.
No god appointed men as a leader. Man did that. Man did everything. Man created these fake laws and beliefs solely to CONTROL people. Religion was made out of selfishness and lust for power. Every aspect of humanity is disgusting. No matter the topic, somewhere there is a group of extremely selfish people reaping all the benefits. Its just too bad that most humans are pathetically gullible and superstitious. Magic doesn't exist. Supernatural phenomena doesn't exist. Nothing incredible exists. What you see is all there is. You all try to squeeze magic out of life, but there's no magic. You're wasting your time. Just because millions of people believe in something, it doesn't mean they're believing in something that's real. It just means that those greedy people who lust for control won. They got what they wanted because people are dumb.
