Ephesians 6: 12 - we fight against spirits of the darkness NOT the flesh and blood. Demons make your husband moody and make him unable to express himself by making him prideful. Satan wants to hurt you. Satan is out to hurt all humans. He is here to destroy you & your marriage. Satan does it to everyone but fails to succeed in prayerful marriages because Christians understand what is happening and so they can resist being ugly to their partners. So what christians do is they rather follow Gods instructions about being kind to their partners even when they dont feel like it [Galatians 5: 22-23]. Kindness would resolve your problems in your marriage. Pray to Jehovah and in the name of Jesus christ with FAITH for assistance and keep preaching this truthful word of God to your husband so he also understands his behavior. I will also keep you and your marriage in prayers. Your husband loves you sisi. The devil is a liar!
Ingakho uma umuntu ezale ingane ekhaya uma ebe nenhlanhla wathola enye indoda yamshada ingane le ayithola kwenye indoda iye isale ekhaya kube ingane ka gogo awushadi nayo
Sometimes uyayi thatha I decision e wrong ngenxa yokuphathwa kakubi ngu mlingane wakho, ube sele uba ngu mntu ombi ebantwini, sorry cc ngako konke owahlangabezana nako, mna andiku jugde who am I to judge?
I can listen to you sthandwa for the whole day. You are a very good narrator, and so very down to earth and not trying to mix in with English words just to show off. Lots of respect to you.
Move away from alcohol, solve your problems with sober minded. The choice is yours and the decision from practicing your aunt's advice is yours. If you're able to live that life and you're strong to do it, do it. Wish you good luck.