Sometimes the answer is not to be rude to others for no reason. I was that kind of person in the past who wanted to be left alone and i will say it, this girl made a mistake. You see, no one has anything to do with your dark past, so don't be rude like that to someone who just wants to get to know you better. Now if the girl wasn't rude and provoked others with these rude replies (which is even ironic, since wanting to be left alone is the opposite of provoking others with ignorance.) and even so started to suffer this bullying for no reason, then yes I would defend her attitude.
Y'know, this girl was being a little rude when rejecting her classmates invitations to socialize, but bullying her is an overreaction. Maybe she needs time to come out of her shell, or feels overwhelmed by the attention of being new. In the unlikely scenario she does think she's better than anyone you just move on with your life. I never understood why someone would go out of their way to harass others
Yeah. Her punching her also went too far. And her response to her classmates wasn’t nice, esp since most ppl would love to be welcomed like that since it’s very rare. However, she wasn’t hurting anyone until they went and instigated her. People are too comfortable talking crap without worry of getting their face caved in.
Idk how anything she did was rude? So if she didn't want to go with the boys to the cafe she is forced to go or else she's rude? Or with the girls in order not to be rude then she would have to force herself to eat more than what she is comfortable with even if it could possibly upset her stomach from over eating? She never raises her voice or insults any of them just states that she wants to be left alone and that she is done eating. It is just frustrating as someone who has autism and exhibited similar behavior to anzu growing up, how many people especially my parents would call me rude just for being blunt about things or my needs. I would have to act in ways that were very unnatural to me in order to appease everyone else around me and not be a pariah but I couldn't keep it up for long so it never worked. I was ostracized and seen in a bad light/rude all the same. it was mentally exhausting to the point I gained depression from it. Yet neurotypicals will never give any concessions or benefit of the doubt to neurodivergent people. They take things way too personally and assume that neurodivergent people are being insulting to them when that isn't even our intention at all. Also neurotypicals oftentimes can talk behind others backs or just mess with people like the bully in the vid and no one bats an eye. It's all so tiresome for me.
@@praisehircine6125 With the lunch and the cafe I think she was being politely firm, that's why I said "a little rude" instead of outright rude. The only part I'd consider rude was when she said "Does this have anything to do with you?" bc she's treating them like antagonists when they're trying to get to know her (which in her case is still justified). Even then she isn't being super mean to anyone, the bully was taking things super personally for no reason. Tbh I get where you're coming from with the mistreatment from being neurodivergent bc I have ADHD and social cues escape me sometimes. Especially in the south where old ppl think not smiling is "rude". I'm sorry you've experienced bullying for things that don't make sense. I hope you meet more people who can appreciate you and also hate dumb social rules
@@praisehircine6125Finally some people who shared my sentiments, yeah I don't understand why people are saying she's being rude... She just wanted to be left alone.
In all fairness, she's not better than the bully. Her classmates tried to befriend her but she's rude to them. I haven't watched the anime but I still disagree with her behavior. Must be one effed up trauma she has to've made her that way.
Im pissed like.. when the bullying is happening, they just stand there and didnt call the teacher. They have to wait till someone got punched in the face 🤦♂️
I love this scene. She only escalates when absolutely necessary - first, she ignores the bully, then when the bully constantly provokes her and steals her book, she asks for it back. The bully drops the book, and she asks if this is to provoke a fight. When she gets her confirmation, only then does she strike back with a punch - and what a punch that is! She stands up immediately (using her back to throw her chair so she can get up faster) and then winds back and throws her whole body into it. And after that is settled, she doesn't continue to beat up the bully, she's done.
