I have this same ring sling and I hate it! I've been trying for an hour to get it right and there is no stretch to it to pull it up between us.....grrr
Hi Rebecca, the sling is made of woven fabric, so it just has a little stretch, which is good to keep baby in its position. Please create a pouch to put your baby in, then lift he/she up when you are adjusting the fabric. Please feel free to contact us if you need more help.