Saya ingin menjelaskan kenapa ini bisa terjadi, tapi saya mungkin akan memakai bahasa indonesia aja yaa karna saya tidak terlalu jago berbahasa inggris dengan baik, nanti yg ada malah jadi miskomunikasi. Saya sebagai cowok pun jujur pernah melakukan hal tersebut, tapi tidak sampai membuntuti atau mencari tau lebih hanya sebatas menggoda dan saya rasa itu hal yg sangat alamiah terjadi di semua negara, budaya dan tingkatan kelas ekonomi, saya banyak belajar ternyata utk mendapatkan wanita idaman yg saya inginkan bukan lah melakukan hal tersebut, ada cara lain agar wanita yg saya ingin itu melihat saya dan mau dengan saya. Ini juga sering terjadi ke laki2 tanpa wanita juga sadari, jadi hal tersebut tidak sebatas antara wanita dan pria, kaya dan miskin, muda dan tua, saya pernah menjadi pelaku dan pernah juga menjadi korban, bahkan saya pernah di lecehkan oleh seorang laki2, di belahan dunia barat juga kalau kita cari tau mereka pun melakukan hal yg serupa ada banyak video experiment di yt. Solusinya yah edukasi, beri contoh bagaimana jika anak wanita, istri atau pacar kalian di berlakukan seperti itu, beri mereka pemahaman karna pengetahuan seperti ini masih sangat sedikit yg orang tau. Dahulu hal2 seperti ini mungkin hal biasa tapi tidak dengan sekarang, karna dunia berputar. Makin kesini orang makin sibuk dengan dirinya sendiri dan gap ekonomi pun bisa menjadi salah satu penyebab, karna rendahnya pendidikan dan ilmu pengetahuan, mereka terjebak dalam bubblenya masing2. Sama halnya seperti permasalahan lgbtq yg mungkin juga sama meresahkannya bagi masyarakat normal. Saya selalu ingat quote dari marie curie, "Nothing in life is to be feared, it is only to be understood. Now is the time to understand more, so that we may fear less." Jadi kamu harus bisa lebih paham kenapa orang2 bisa seperti itu dan banyak belajar dari pengalaman bagaimana cara menghandle hal tersebut, sedikit saran dari saya kamu jangan merasa takut, karna apabila kamu takut orang itu akan tau dan mereka akan lebih berani utk melakukan hal tsb, coba lah utk berbasa basi, apalagi kalau kamu bisa berbahasa indonesia, bilang saja "maaf mas saya gak bisa ngasih nomor saya, saya sudah punya cowok" kadang berbohong itu tidak selalu buruk dan apabila sudah terlalu aggressive mungkin kamu bisa lapor penjaga kos atau pemilik kos, atau gak langsung saja lapor rt/rw biar langsung bisa di selesaikan, karna hal tsb tidak hanya terjadi sama pendatang, siapa pun bisa jadi korban. Semoga video dan komentar saya ini bisa jadi pembelajaran bersama dan kedepan semoga juga orang2 kita semua semakin rispek dan menghormati satu sama lain. Terima kasih, tetap berhati hati, kejahatan tidak hanya ada niat tapi juga karna ada kesempatan, waspadalah waspadalah.
Dari semenjak saya menonton film HER yg di perankan Joaquin Phoenix saya langsung berpikir, mungkin masa depan akan seperti itu cepat atau lambat karna technology, ai dan robot di ciptakan karna ketidak percayaannya kita terhadap sesama manusia, karna otak manusia itu rumit kita masing2 mempunyai visi dan misi yg liar, tidak ada kepentingan bersama yg ada hanyalah kepentingan pribadi, kita makhluk egois bahkan alam dan Tuhan pun kita berani lawan. Perubahan sudah terjadi dimana mana, data dari seluruh dunia sudah menunjukan angka kelahiran dan keluarga yg memilih child free pun terus berkembang. Hal2 seperti ini menjadikan kita sangat frustasi, apa yg salah dengan dunia ini?
Is it necessary to attest transcript and degree from ministry of foreign affairs? On their official website it is not mentioned. The only requirements is of scan images.
I am planning to apply for the scholarship program 2025, So is it mandatory that the recommendation letter from the employer and university should be dated 2025. Is it ok if it is 2024
hello kindly answer my question i want to apply for batchler in computer science so indonesian universities offers computer science degee through knb scholarship.
@@seaci dekhen ap computer engineering men han laken men computer science men apply krna chahta hon to ager han to btaen to men document prepare kron, ak our bat kiya ap help kr sakte han for motivation letter kiyon ka men jo program sellect krna chahta hon wo ap ka program se related ha please
Hello mansi, how are you? Can you tell me whuch universities in indonesia are best for research in chemistry? bcz i wanna come to indoesia for masters in chemistry. And tell me is there any compitition for getting scholarship for master degree?
Hi mansi..hope you are doing well... I just wanted to ask you that a lot of people say that it is not Worth it to study in Indonesia because it is not that popular and advanced country and education system is not that advanced and it is totally not worth it to study in Indonesia as their degree is not of much value. As you are studying there and practically seeing things by yourself. So do you think all these rumors are correct. I mean I have so much doubts and fear because of that. Can you please elloborate it for me . I will really be thankful
@@artlove-l3l well i get totally understand where you are coming from and when I told my family and relatives about me going to indoensia they said the same but for me my life has changed in a very positive way after coming here. I'll make a full video explaining this. Just give me some time coz there's a lot to explain and it's important I do it properly.
@@seaci yeah sure... I will wait for your video... But knowing that your life changed in a positive way is really encouraging... I mean I can get the idea what are you trying to talk about ... For further detail, I will really be waiting for your video....
@@seaci And you are right... I am from Pakistan.. And mentality of Indian and Pakistani people is almost same .... They think the same... Our doubts and fears as students are almost same.... I was really worried about this issue... Fortunately, I found your channel and found that there is another girl like me out there but of course you are more brave than me as you are already there where you wanted to be and I am in processing phase... When I saw your first video and you told that you never travelled alone before even out of city.. you are just like me... So that's why I wanted to talk to you and I am really happy that despite of your busy schedule, you always reply to my comments.... I will wait for your video in which you will discuss about this issue
As a guy,I had this first hand experience. So i never had female interaction in school and 2 yrs of lockdown i was v shy guy and introverted so while clg addmision i decided i will try to get out of my zone and communicate with everyone. So this girl i talked with we had some same query in clg so i was sitting in clg campus and she came beside me so i talked abt what is ur query and all then i went to office and she was also their total stranger i got my job done first then i waited because i dont know what to do my first female convo she was like u dont have to wait atm i was like why would she do that but after analysing later on i found my mistake she was right about me to leave so this was first instance later i did find all fault but was never able to apologize for it but yea i get after lot of instances what to do and what to not later on and i would like to apologize for all this i ever did its just i never had no instance with girl totally newbie so i didnt know what is right what is wrong and made them uncomfortable in process... Sorry for that to you
@@thughunter4205 it's oke you realised your mistake. I am sure in future if u find a female friend you gonna be a good friend. Also somewhere it's the fault of our society as well, they don't normalise the opposite gender interacting, it's still considered a taboo.
you are really nice Mrs mansi, I'm so happy for this video, study abroad is my dream since childhood and thank God I got scholarship to study in bandung lumpug province Indonesia. Thank you so much Mrs mansi for this wonderful video, I was really scared to travel because I never travel anywhere i think that I cannot do this but I really learn a lot from you thank you.
Just want to know how we can help to ensure safety of you. Because we are genuinely concerned about women's safety, specifically in this country where corrupt political system pushes everything under the rug.
@@kalyanroy8712 on a personal level all we can do is educated and be self aware. The problem here is about the mindset and it's gonna take hella long to change it. So the best we can do is reflect on ourselves or the past actions and just correct the ones around us if there's something wrong with their behaviour.
@@seaci I agree to what you said but atleast we need to ensure that women's safety is ensured and stringent laws are implemented to punish the perpetrators.
@@lihas398 well sorry if u felt that way but if u watch the video carefully I've mentioned about having male friends and that they are the ones whom I rely on when such incidents happen. I don't mean to say this kind of behaviour is done by all the males but just wanted to educate those who are unaware of how their little jokes and behaviours that they feel are 'cool' might be traumatising for a girl.
Hello, i completed my bachelors degree from a university where programs are in English. i am planning to pursue my masters, So is it mandatory for me to have a language proficiency certificate inorder to apply for knb scholarship.
@@MUHAMMEDASLAMP.U u can ask you university to give you a letter that mentions that all your courses were conducted in English. But having ielts increases the chances of u being selected
@@seaci I completed my bachelor's degree in 2021 and am currently employed. Are there any additional requirements i should be aware of ? I intend to apply in 2025
I am a KNB Awardee 2024, My flight is from Mumbai to Jakarta via Kuala Lumpur. I don't have enough time for money exchange, so it will be helpful if you can guide me. I wanted to know, Can I exchange money at Mumbai Airport?
Do we have to apply for university and scholarship separately.....? Like first applying at uni and then apply for scholarship?or on the same portal or separate?
This problem is everywhere not in just India, sadly no one really cares bout this issue least they can do is talk bout it for sometime but then it happens again that too in Kolkata, the so called safest city for women in India You say that making and implementing tough laws isn't going to affect this is issue but it's not actually true, this would truly work but only if we don't have an evil and corrupt political parties like tmc which protects criminal more than citizens
I want to tell some things from boys side, because of some psychopaths , people start to judge every boy in society, parents sets rules for boys to not having girlin their friend circle and this makes the things even more worse , now i am at the stage where only for others i have to make a girl sister to become her friend but for me its once a sister always a sister and I also have my own sister too and you know once that tag of sister is attached to the girl then i can't share my personal things that i usually share to my friends, but i still having fun with everyone but why the girl and boy can't be just friends, why there is a boundary which have only two side (sister or something is cooking btw you stereotypes) why people don't understand that a boy and girl can be just friends of each others , in this society people around me thinks that girl having a boy friend is characterless and a boy having a girls friend will rap* his girl friend someday, guys do have respect for girls but this society see us only from one frame that is evil , literally from the day i introduced to this rules the innocence in friendship with any girl from both sides is destroyed now when i try to talk any of my girl friends I can't even look into there eyes , i always keep distance of 2 steps while talking, things changed overnight for me not because of this incident, just because of that stereotypes and rules for the boys which is applied to me since i was 10 years old , it totally destroyed my social life . Eventually talks turned into small talks and small talks turned into silence now the girls which were my best friends pass by me like strangers we both look each other we both wanted to discuss a lot of things but we can't, its very hurtful to your friends turning into strangers , . For all the i just wanted to learn to respect a girl to save our next generation's social life
plz always take red chili powder in a little trust me this is a little act that can even save you I saw this reddit. In these situations when you feel like something is wrong take it out and be prepared. I have felt this being followed by a person that's creepy trust me how my heart race rases that moment I was afraid to dying.
