You're better off being homeless than begging your parents for money. Money equals control.. which is all your parents want. It's understandable, but new generations must be their own.
yoo my parents won't let me go out of the house for no reason I don't drink I don't have a girlfriend just a simple life broo they have a fucking problem with me whenever I go out I am a fucking 21 yo
This is me as I'm getting older I'm getting weaker and I'm 27 when I think about hell I don't think of the devil I think it's a punishment where you are born back on earth as a soul that nobody can hear or see you.
Its like me back in the days when I always rely on my emotions on making my decisions because I love my parents I do what they want sometimes their are the one whos making my decision for myself, people take advantage of me because Im too nice and to good to them, they always giving me advice, being gaslighted always and im turn into depressed freak mamas boy, regret and blaming myself, compare my self to others... Till one day there was an unknown force come to me like waking me up, in my long time sleep telling me, he boy you should stand for yourself and make your own decisions in life in order to make you happy.
My case is weird because all my life I’ve been told how great I am and I know I’m great but idk. I just never really strived for anything in particular. I never set my mind up for one ultimate goal I just lived life doing what I enjoy doing. But it’s like I’m not living toward anything. I’m at the point in my life where I’m not doing great at all, I’m numb to it all I really feel as if I’m just going with the flow letting life take me wherever.. I’m 21 rn, and hopefully I can find that drive. I sit and watch all of these videos but in the end it’s all about trying to obtain this stuff in real life. So I can apply it. For anyone whose out there feeling lost as well, I pray for you and as long as you are alive there is a way. Just wake up every morning with growth on your mind. I don’t care how long it takes one day it’ll all come together
29 and I’ve been feeling the same. 3 years ago and now again. Going with the the flow gives short term solutions but at a certain point i’m like: where am I going? Am I living life or life is living me. I def want to live my authentic life to the fullest so that’s why im here
That statement you are what you think people think you are is false. Like the tree on the hill or the ant on the ground. You just are what you are even though you may never realize what that is. It doesn't matter and won't change the fact. Simply do or do not. There is nothing more.
I never wanted to become a Doctor. I wasnt passionate enough. But my parents wanted me to. So i studied hard and struggled for 5.5 years to get that Degree😶. Now they are forcing me to get a postgraduate seat which iam not interested in😑. They dont care about what I want. They just need that Respect from the society by saying ‘ My child is a doctor ‘ . Its very hard . Like he said , I dont wanna be a doctor i wanna be a hospital owner.
I have a doubt while reading 'The 5 am club'. In this book, author asks us to do intense workout for 20 mins after waking up at 5 O' clk... it seems like we have to start doing exercise as soon as getting out of our bed... my qn is should we do those exercise without pooping or we should take time to clean up our stomach and start to do exercise?? Plzz sumone clarify!!
Why and how does this not have over a million views this is RAW talk at its FINEST! And yea I searched this cus everyone keeps telling me I should start a RU-vid channel for example cus I love food but I keep doubting myself and I wonder why I wanna try so many things yet don’t do it like wtf is wrong with me?
i want to go to public school. but my parents say "the devil walks those halls" i want her to understand how lonely i feel at home all day. i wanna rebel and put my foot down, but she might ground me and im scared
Right now you have no other option. Try to study well and get to a good collage. That would be a lot of fun. Because I was also like you and i decided to study well and like getting into a better collage which is very long from home so that i can be in hostel. Yes it's done and I'm kinda living my best days
awesome , thankyou for being open and brave and showing everyone even such successful people as you guys still go through this and have still managed to achieve all that you have .....
I always wanted to be a professional footballer but due to the fact that my parents who always disapprove me to become one just because they think that malays who often play football in my country will have bad influence on me if I mixed with them and also because football isn't really a lucrative career in my country. Literally after hearing it, I was so flabbergasted like not only that's so racist but also very demoralizing. Unfortunately, I had no choice but to accept my fate and I don't think I have much chance to purse my dream anymore as I'm already 20 this year and about to enlist into army in about 1 month time
I want to be a singer and dancer when I grow up. My dad believes in me but my mom thinks it’s a waste time and says I should be realistic and it drives me insane.
takes me 90 minutes i dunno. need help. wake up relax and wash face n tooth 10mins. train 20mins. come back for shower, 20 mins isn't enough for both meditation and journaling for me.
I want to be a professional footballer one day, at first my dad was giggling and then he found out about the improvements, My mom still isn’t supportive, she wants me to be a doctor or an engineer. Im not into that kind of stuff because I like sports more, and Football is a world sport. For a whole 2-3 months I’ve been playing football a lot, I was one of the worst in my class, after a month, Im the best in the class, a few more months and Im better than people that are older/more experienced than me. But I can see my mom slowly getting more and more supportive, In a few months I’ll have tryouts, Send prayers!
I love my parents but I'll tell you this much touch I've gotten to wear some of the things they want me to do in one year and out together together because quite frankly I have come to realized over the years that I am different from the rest of my family and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that