Certified Dating Coach who offers dating and communicating tips to single women that are sick of dead-end dating. She also assists individuals who are going through a break-up. Communication is the name of the game, that is exactly why she teaches single mom's, working mom's, boss babes and single sisters such as yourself the tools of communicating effectively so you can attract and KEEP your quality man.
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Because he's not interested. After getting the number and litte talk, he realized the fox isn't worth the chase. Don't take it personal. It happens. Better adivce is find someone who's interested in you as you are into them.
Tbh, I think most of the men I encountered are either DL, see ambitious women as competition and not a partner, outright don't like women, or a mix-match of the 3 😮
Then I think I got "lucky" with my last ex as he was at least honest with me in a lot of ways when he was leaving.. 🙂 even though things didn't end up working.
This is true. No sex before a commitment. Always watch his actions when dating. Red flags are there. We must pay close attention. It's all a learning process. Dating the wrong men can teach you how to attract the right man.
Myast strung me along for years while still mistreating me. Never wanted anything addressed, threw a mantrum when I suggested we part. Childish and sinister.
Thank you for sharing this video a lot of great information. I just want to add a few things though,how you really know when your relationship is over or your dating relationship is over. One he sometimes will if you are living together physically ;Sometimes the man will distant himself. So you're not spending as much time together. And there will be lack of emotions meaning there will be lack of feelings between you 2. He will start to distance himself with his feelings. He may not say he loves you very much if he's ever said that to you, you might not have date nights, you might not go out anymore and if you do, it's on a very rare occasion . Intimacy will not be there,Or there will be very little intimacy. He will start to explore other options. He will start to look to move out. He will be less helpful around the house and he might start to stop helping with bills and providing. He may even start to cheat if he hasn't already.
What in the world?! I literally say this to myself daily...alert, alive, aware at the start of my rideshare side hustle journey every single day. So random. What are the odds it would apply here too?! Wow!
@@CoachBWiley I am in this same position right and at he and I grown age the lease we could do is be honest with one another. But for some reason he chooses to LIE!!!
Great way to stay single, uncommitted and bitter forever. The answer is be direct, feminine, committed and purpose driven towards service to the man. Read the Bible and learn what is a good wife. Advice should come from a man or a successfully married wife only.
My ex tried that with me. He spent 1 week without text and call. I didn't even ask anything. I disappeared and change my number. He's out looking for me everywhere😂😂😂😂. He texted me on my bank app to beg me😂😂😂😂😂😂. It's been 4 months now with no contact.
@CoachBWiley do you teach your daughters marry before carry since you're not in a successful relationship nor successful marriage with a bm? Just curious...
Sir, I don't have daughters or children. All of your comments instantly let me know you don't listen to comprehend when it comes to the videos you comment on. Your comments also let me know you're triggered and, therefore, must PROJECT and make assumptions based on illogical thinking to prove a biased and bitter point. I'm not your enemy, sir. Oh, side note, if what you say is true about me and how I teach and lead my imaginary daughters, then just don't even watch my videos. Why listen to a WOMAN who isn't in a successful relationship or marriage? Which is odd because I don't even talk about marriage and when I speak on relationships, it's typically in response to someone asking ME for my PROFESSIONAL advice. I literally speak on dating and communicating. Continue to go off though...
American men don’t want to commit to American women anymore. You are not feminine. You do not serve as helpmeets. You are not committed to anything. This is why American men have left away from American feminists. Learn to serve and support. That’s where your value is for men.
I also want to say, I dated a man who checked on me daily without crowding my space, took me on dates 1-2 a week, asked if I needed anything and always made me feel special….but he was married. lol so keep an eye out for that too
@@KevonnieElaine he had me too 🤣 5 star restaurants, concerts, deep conversations, he was one of the best so that was shocking when I he later told me he had a wife, would that be a problem 😩
When I say ya'll come on this here channel and say ANYTHING to spark a debate, smh. Your comment is beyond random, and yet, I'm a still let you have it, sir. Please, continue...🙉
This happens and is common. Don't dwell on that just decide that you will do better. "It will benefit me more in the future when dating if..." You fill in the blank and keep making better choices along the way! 🥰
And I tried addressing the issues. He would deny any issues and would insist things were fine, even though I could feel something was wrong. It was exhausting
Girl, it's what sorry guys like that do. Deny, act dumb and deflect. Anytime you find yourself exhausted, that's a direct sign that it's time to head out.
@@CoachBWiley He was going through stuff last year and got distant. He told me when he’s going through stuff he just stays to himself but he didn’t want me to get distant too. I even told him when he first said he wanted to be official with me I told him I wanted to make sure I pour into him and vice versa and to tell me if problems come up / I do something that he doesn’t like, etc. so I can fix it. I thought I was laying a good foundation for us especially since we were in a ldr.
@Adrianna002 you did EXACTLY what you should have imo. Growing distant on top of having distance in a relationship is a sure way to cause unnecessary issues in any relationship. It's bs and a quality man who is going through his own battles understands that he still must engage in an appropriate way. Like, literally keep you in the loop day to day vs going silent. Men do operate different in distress for sure, however that doesn't make it right or healthy for a relationship. Did you download your freebie? My gift to you can assist you in dating and all the things that come with it. I also wrote a book on the silent treatment too. Download whatever you like: stan.store/coachbwiley?fbclid=PAAaYOo8noWz7JgdgNwPaBwa-wJUaMGCfBuxXb9VsIAs04UPounXWoCDau9cQ
Experienced this. Gave him space but when he dropped the busy with work comment. I told him "K, hope your very happy together "😂 I am relieved that I guts to confront him and get my closure.
It's so important for us to simply face the facts of the matter when guys use certain keywords like 'busy.' Saves so much time and energy on the back end. Good for you sis!
I think this also goes for guys who say they are interested in persuing a woman and ask for her number but dont call her that much. I have had guys who say they want to take me on dates but they are inconsistent with conversations. I'm the type who likes to have multiple communications and see if the guy is worth going on a date.and i also do this for safety reasons. i usually let it be knowing that i like consistency and these guys usually be inconsistent anyway. I usually block if their is inconsistency. because i feel like if he cant be consistent now he wont be consistent in the future if we are in a relationship. I cant understand why do these immature grown boys because that's what they are. would express interest but refuse to be consistent
I genuinely believe guys who do what you described have a girlfriend, wife, or a woman they are really interested in and are dating. However, he still wants to make sure he has a potential backup plan if things hit the fan or if he wants to have a little fun. I also believe these type of guys play this game to feed their egos. They don't want you, me, she or her, but they just shoot their shot anyway to see if it lands. A bunch of bs if you ask me. Keep your block hand strong sis!
Ask only once and see how he behaves. If he still continues the behavior, match his energy and move on. Distract yourself and start to meet other ppl without calling or texting him.
@@CoachBWiley you're welcome..I'm sorry you are going through so much bullcrap with the men.i don't particularly see many men commenting here on RU-vid on your videos so I assume you are having issues with them and your content on maybe Instagram or other social media platforms 🤔.you know this is social media in general as well as people personally feel they are in a gender war.people can feel a way personally and feel they have to stick up for their side/gender.theres no excuse and I'm not trying to make one.however,I must say to you please continue to do your thing and stay focused.dont let the negativity from the fellas distract u.i kind of figured at some point you would get a lot of male flack.i agree with u that is indeed pointless to acknowledge them or go back and forth.keep handling your business, helping women and men and creating good conversation and thought pieces for people to improve themselves in their lives.let me know if I can help or assist you in any way/helping you keep the foul dudes away.i do feel men should have something positive to add to a conversation and if there are any real discrepancies that men can address men.im always up for that. ✌️ And blessings as always 🙏
The two videos that took these dudes over the top are how women lose when dating and my other video about naive women. I quit posting on Instagram, probably about a year or so ago, because no one engages with me on there, and they just follow me, which doesn't even make sense. So now I only put my energy into tiktok and RU-vid. The thing is, I be trying to understand the man's perspective specifically if he's going out of his way to comment on my video. However, all these dudes want to do is argue and debate. It's literally like they're not even watching my video at all. They're just creating this fictitious narrative that's allegedly coming from what they watch, but in reality, it's literally something that they're making up and projecting upon me. So I don't go back and forth with anybody in real life and I'm definitely not going to do it on social media period but what I wanted to do seeing as I specialize in communication is actually engage. One guy even commented and said how I wasn't professional and how he didn't like the title of my video and when I went to ask him what was his perspective and why he made that comment he said he didn't want to tell me because he knew I would get mad. Like, wtf?! I get it now, dudes don't want to engage they want to fuss fight and call names and argue. Smh. Thank you for your comments and watching my videos I appreciate that support. Nonetheless it's all good I'm not emotionally invested in strangers so I just let them talk. They a bunch of Talking Heads at this point. Be mad, sir, keep the party going, but as long as you are watching, I'm winning. 🤗
you are my godmother.everything you said fits into my life till today exactly the way it was sadly. but never again . i will take notes from you from now.
Thank you so much! 🥰 It is my honor. Please let me know if I can address a dating or communication issue for you in a video. Download your FREEBIE & anything else you want in my bookstore. stan.store/coachbwiley?fbclid=PAAaYOo8noWz7JgdgNwPaBwa-wJUaMGCfBuxXb9VsIAs04UPounXWoCDau9cQ
And he’s not dumb either. Leave if he doesn’t care and doesn’t change especially after communicating it to him. Just leave. He’s playing you and he hates you after all that.
One word texts not even sentence girls .. urgently‼️ let me tell U in a relationship there’s a pattern in relationships in the stage of flirting texting or casual dates there’s always a pattern …. If the pattern breaks for a short period he could be going threw something but if things don’t click back and it’s more distance more distance kick back he won’t even realize ur gone . U know we always kno
Your video is so clear cut and yet the men in the comments are so dumb. What you’re saying applies to anyone and everyone. They mad women refuse to settle for subpar behavior.
Thank you so much! Some dudes like to argue, name call, tear down, discredit, be bitter, and downright be angry at WOMEN with good sense. One would think that all I do on this channel is talk crazy and bash men. When, in fact, if they would just listen to understand vs. react from their ego, we would get better results. I tried to reason with these fools, but I'm done engaging.
