Uh people are evolved and most have kids over 35 nowadays. All the ones I know who had kids in their 20s regret not focusing on their careers and freedom. You don't have to have a kid. You are free. you are in your prime in your 30s. Gynecologist here. What I learned in life is that miserably people gossip and hate. Happy fulfilled people who get their dosage of sex, abundance happiness are too busy with their lives and have a humane intelligence which does not judge. So to all the dirt trash cans who judge other people, may you all face a hard period of your life, have as much judgements as possible until you end up on meds for depression and then maybe if intelligence is present you will understand how to be humane and that pain does not discriminate. All you ugly soccer moms out there gossiping no wonder your men sleep with more interesting women.
Why do only women see such gentlemen and feel like these people are giving unrealistic expectations to them.. I mean why can't men learn from them too...