No. you're not. You proved that. Just anotherself entitled, narcisstic, oblvious Tik Tok disaster waiting to happen. I have sympathy for you child and husband though.
Also, those are not achievements. Having babies is just the beginning. Raising well adjusted children (not looking good here) is an achievement. Buying a house. Whoooooaaa. Paying off the house with MONEY YOU EARNED, would be an achievement, along with the maintenance and upkeep. As far as the most important thing of being a good person...arrogance, self aggrandizement, narccissism, elitism...not a good start. Two wars, a stint in law enforcement (careers which were a privilege to serve, not an entitlement) for me. I respect what I have done and have a certain pride in it. If I were to have a minute percentage of the self importance you have by living life and not really have accomplished much, yet...I would tarnish anything I have done. But you be you. Good luck.