if everyone admires this behavior so much and dislikes how it is today, start by changing yourself. stand up to foul language and behavior. if you care enough, you can change anything. Also remember this is highly idealized.
A husband should be prepared 😊, buy a couple gifts and hide them, so if your anniversary comes up a you forgot,( while eating burnt eggs and toast 😊) you can quickly get a gift and say ,see i never forgot, 😊, be prepared men, have a good day...
Howard was like a mouse peering out from behind the fridge , what a Pearl he married. And poor Barry being a Big Gormless Gob walking beside the coffin in his best suit .