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Hello, , I am an Arab young man. I will not bother you about the beauty of your eyes, like those of an Eastern man I am not an Arab ruler offering you gifts in exchange for a diplomatic visit Check it out by watching it closely I am a young Arab man exhausted by wars Slaughtered like a bird without feathers Crushed like a tree without branches Broken like a watch without hands Deserted like a church without monks I do not write to you while drinking coffee on the seashore I am writing to you from a deserted corner of the world From a patch removed from the map, from a homeland that cannot be remembered Except in mourning bulletins or in donor aid The moment a man among you in the West falls because of drinking alcohol or drugs Thousands of people are falling in my country because of missiles and bombs And at the moment when a young Western man celebrates his birthday Death in my country celebrates taking a thousand young men And the moment a Western girl blows out a candle on her birthday The war in my country extinguishes thousands of innocent girls from life The moment a Western woman cries because her lover breaks up with her In my country, thousands of women cry because of the death of their husbands and children due to bombing In the West, restaurants, cinemas and football stadiums flourish In my country, hospitals are thriving due to the number of people injured due to bombing The cemeteries flourish due to the number of people killed as a result of the bombing I am sorry that my message may contain some smell of gunpowder and bombing
No ladies’HIJAB found in the Quran (The word HIJAB is used in the Quran but NOT for ladies) It’s simple as per Quran verses 24.31 and 33.59 If you read directly from the words of the Quran (without adding words in brackets ) you will know that root of the word KHIMAR just means COVER And the Quran 24.31 says: “… Put forth COVERINGs over the JAYBs…” - The importance is about COVERING the JAYB And the rest is distraction in the name of explanations- which are away from the original concept revealed in the Quran But promoted by explanations of the F!rqa (sect) chiefs Just making a fuss of outer show and appearance- will not be helpful. It’s the deeds that are accounted in front of Allah on the judgment day
1. Surah An-Noor 24:31 says ' and tell the believing women'. 2. Surah Al Ahzaab 33:59 talks about wives, daughters and women of the believers. All your explanations are based to suit your narrative which is wrong! Who also instructed one that it's okay to have your covering on during salah? We can't misinterpret words of Allah( swt) to suit a particular narrative. Fear Allah!
@@_MuniraAli 1. Please show me the word Hijab used for Ladies in the Quran. 2. Read carefully Q24.31 without mixing additional words to fit beliefs drilled in by our favourite F!rqa (sect) promoters Please Check these Ayath/verses that they say have Hijab in them. (But not found) in Quran 24.31 - “… KHIMARs over the JAYBs..” In Quran 33.59 - “ … JILBABs over themselves…” Our Sect preachers have been declaring Halal/Haram with their tongues Refer this: //Quran 16.116 Do not falsely declare with your tongues, “This is HALAL, and that is HARAM ,” fabricating lies against Allah. Indeed, those who fabricate lies against Allah will never succeed.// They’ve been dividing the innocent followers, yet you want to be with them? //Quran 6.159 Indeed, those who have divided their religion and become sects - YOU ARE NOT WITH THEM in anything. Their affair is only to Allāh; then He will inform them about what they used to do.//
So are you trying to tell ladies not to cover simply because you have misinterpreted the word hijab? I've read all those ayats and that's why I have my hijab on. Alhamdulillah. Why do they cover during salah? You can't obey some rules and omit others to suit the narrative. I don't agree with you!
@@_MuniraAli I just pointed out what’s in the Quran, READ it and verify it within the Quran. if you are trying hard to explain it from outside the Quran then it cannot be the Foundation of Allah’s Deen, coz the foundational concepts are easy for guidance of anyone seeking guidance from all of mankind. Even the great scholars said if something does not match with the Quran then ignore it. I’m sure Imam Bukhari and Muslim Nishapuri also would have said that if their writings do not match then ignore it. Coz they were collecting Hadith - about 200 years after the Prophet (pbuh) from what people told them. And Quran is the Furqan (the Criteria) to judge between the right and the wrong.
Assalamu Alaikum my sister. Greetings from BANGLADESH. Sister, your hijab is so beautiful, and the way you wear it. I think the hijab makes women more beautiful and perfect.
Whence they cut u off, it's wholebunch, you dnt hv anyone except urself and ur creator Allah swt alhamdullilah, how suddenly you gonna get friends, to find love is like daydreaming at the moment, who gonna trust a broken personality????
I care before it but now being cut off is being freed find you own strength and keep going when they see you don't need them any they will come back. If the leave you let them go.
Thank you so much Rabab Alma for this advice. I'm currently going through this with the whole grandparents from my mums side and it's taking a toll on my health, any further advice would be appreciated.
