I have a problem. I only get approached by cocky good looking rich men. The men that are 'average looking' millionaires/billionaires wont approach me they just stare at me. I dont know if i should date the cocky ones as they're the only men comfortable enough to approach me. I've tried to tone down my looks/personality and dressed more classy but that didn't change anything. Plus with the cocky men I can tell they want a serious relationship with me but their personality turns me off. What should I do?
Sometimes you have to give them strong eye contact and a smile.. that invites them over as they could be nervous or unsure on how to approach you. Keep VETTING men until you find one that you want to deal with, eventually something will give. Try to have fun with it and focus most of your energy towards yourself, you’ll find that you become a magnet to exactly what you want 💜be patient and try your best to enjoy the process
I’m little shy to go to hotel bar .. do they check if you are staying in the hotel or do they not care and you just walk in like you’d walk into any bar? Please help 😅❤❤❤
Hey, they don’t care if you are actually staying over at the hotel or not 😊 Look good and walk in confidently. Also ask the waiter or waitress you’re by yourself and would like to get a table. Good luck ❤
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As an actual kept wife who has dated very well in my single years, I feel like a lot of context is missing here. First off, you have to be the kind of woman that only attracts high status men. Those kind of men don’t need to be coached or trained. Most women are not carrying themselves and presenting themselves in the right light to get men like that. Get super fit, hire a pro to teach you how to do your makeup, keep your nails done in a classy way. Run in the right circles too. Y’all playing the short game here.
Do you have any recommendations on accessing the right circles other than golf or tennis? I live near NYC. Are there any suggestions to enter the right circles there?
Sheras advice: wealthiest side of town: morning/daytime hobby stores like golf, tennis etc, markets, lunch bar, happy hr bar, walking in parks (guys walking dogs). And you shouldn’t be in these areas if you don;t fit in/know how to dress for it. No heavy makeup, all your skin showing etc. Her advice works if you are consistent (as she says). You really have to clock in 4hrs every mon-fri for two weeks and check the results. I always win when Im consistent. Like Jacqueline says, best thing: is to vibrate high within yourself and attract, the man must always speak & approach first🎉
Get pushy about money 🤷🏾♀️ .. usually I try to drag and string them along for as long as possible but if it stops working I drop them.. don’t let anybody pressure u.
Have you ever been to Romania? I'm objectively gorgeous, yet I can't get a man to buy me even a 2$ cookie and I can't even express in words how much this frustrates me, being 26 and never having been asked out on an actual date. Do you know anyone from here? :(
What she has not told you is that you will end up in trauma after years of chasing wealthy men. Your looks are short term. The money is short term. The mental & spiritual trauma can last a life time.
@@CupsOfConsciousness Use whatever word salad you wish to use. This demonic activity is doing real damage to young women. You do what you want with your life but keep it to yourself. Don't be telling other women to be doing this s**t. They will end up single, lonely and angry with men. You behave cheap, men will treat you cheap. You become disposable & forgettable.
I listened to Shera as well as Mina Irfan, and I have ended up married. It took nearly 5 years to meet him because I never became a sugar baby. I was looking to be a wife. He's much older and pays the rent and bills but I still work part-time so I will have my own if something happens but as far as the marriage goes...so far, so good.
I’ve tried free styling the past 5 months during happy hours and have only met one wealthy man from there. Definitely going to switch it up and use your tips!
So, you meet a wealthy guy at a hotel bar, he buys you a couple of drinks and you leave with him to go where? He hasn’t spent enough money on you yet to give up the goods. You are very young and naive but these men just think you’re there as a prostitute. You don’t know them well enough to leave with them yet. They need to get your number, set up a proper date, and bring you gifts on your date. You need to get to know each other in the beginning to figure out your strategy, and if this guy is even worth fleecing. Don’t, if he is a lawyer or works in law enforcement, the FBI, or the IRS. You will regret ever getting together with these types when things start to go south. I promise.
No body said that’s what’s happening 😂😂 I personally have not met mine that way but it’s a suggestion.. if you’re not in the life u won’t understand.. If you go home with them that’s ur choice but it’s meeting them to further a connection
what time would you say go to the 4 seasons? evening? and I always assumed since we want the business man we should go early in the week cause the weekend is for family time for them?
I’m in Toronto as well, I have had success freestyling but at events. So upscale jazz bars when people are more relaxed and looking to be social. I haven’t tried hotel bars yet.
Hello i love your videos full of wisdom, but i have tried freestyle happy hours but i have not attracted any man yet watching from Uganda and single and searching. Advice please.
Hey love try going to a 5 star hotels bar or lounge. Go to wealthy neighbourhoods and run errands there, sign up for conferences and events business minded people go to network ❤️
Does it matter what other people do? If you want marriage, these tips can be used to attract a provider husband. If you don't want a big age gap, set your own age limits.
Girl yes, I've been going out during happy hour and have yet to get a return on my investment lol. I've gotten lucky getting my drinks and food paid and a date here and there but I want more. Like being put on automatic deposit more lol. I will definitely add hotel bars to my list and see how it goes 🤞🏾. Thank you! Edit: I also recently met an auntie in the wild who highly recommended I check out a golf resort as a single woman lol... Not sure if anyone has tried this but I thought I'd share.
Find you local Chamber of Commerce and see what after hours events they have going on for the month (most networking events are free for non-members), grab you some business cards and perfume and start networking. I work close to the university so there is a lot of alumni, lawyers, sport doctors and executives around that area.
No jjudgment AT all but are men giving you money without you sleeping with them ?! In Toronto ??? Toronto men are soooo cheap so I’m genuinely wondering where ur meeting men and how ur asking for money and if it’s after or before sex
No jjudgment AT all but are men giving you money without you sleeping with them ?! In Toronto ??? Toronto men are soooo cheap so I’m genuinely wondering where ur meeting men and how ur asking for money and if it’s after or before sex
How do you get over looks? Lol I want to like a surgeon ect. but the ones that like me are not good looking lol they notice I am not attracted to them on dates and I never know how to get over it.
Lol you gotta find the little things you like about the man and focus on that rather than how he looks, taking a few shots also helps.. and focusing on the life you want. If you can’t do it then this lifestyle may not be for you 😭
I found some success in nice (sit-down) cafes in the mornings 8:30- 10am, all days of the week. Some older people go there to socialize, and have a tendancy to have already made enough money in life not to be clocked in. Also, Eataly has a very quality yet open & social concept.
I appreciate you sharing, especially from Toronto, quite different from the demographics, relationships, and economics of the southern US. For example, in our generation, somebody in Toronto who is not a multimillionaire cannot even do something like buy a small house in the city. There is also a lot of pushed gender ideology (stemming from Canada government incentives) which adds uncertainty to standard male-female roles. Still, I have personally found her advice beneficial as compared to not using it.
My dentist suggested joining a high-end gym and emphasized the importance of marrying someone who can provide. It reinforced my existing mindset, and hearing it from a man felt validating.🩷
