Times of sorrow and perplexity,of fear and doubt,of danger and persecution may be ours but confidence in God's care in hours of special need safeguard us against despair. "A calm heart is the heritage of him who has God at his side."Psalm 16 is a great encouragement. God bless you with His peace.
Here are links to the songs that were meaningful to Miss Kathi: Chris Tomlin - Goodness, Love And Mercy - ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-kg7K0-Cd4i8.html "Drawn to You" by Audrey Assad: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-y6Yo_5KRQtI.html The God Who Sees: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-sz81dIfwf4Y.htmlfeature=shared
As you pointed out no-one gets to heaven by being a good person, the thief on the cross wasn't a good person, of course this doesn't mean you can continue to live in habitual sin after you become born again, if you love me you will obey my commands. Glory to God.