Because they make us feel bad all the iffing time by being so chivalrous and knightly. we INTJs aspire to be ISFJs all the time because isfj is our super ego. The relationship between intj and isfj can be extremely intense and it doesn’t last because the isfj think we are evil
My coworker said to me: “yeah we didn’t really hit it off at the beginning” and I said “no, we didn’t. I was a raging bitch because I was being micromanaged at my previous job and I get shitty when I feel other people doing that now, but I think we’ve settled our differences and all know our place now since” guess which one is the INTJ and the ISFJ…