I am not defending,but I used to instantly reply,or pick up call ..... but was never treated the same . Moreover I was taken graunted,and they thought I was available 24/7 for them . So ya some do it for the sake of selfRespect as well .
Exactly mera friend hai usko message aaya wo reply nhi kya, thori der baad message kya or call ko bhi 8 sec k baad pick krta hain, mein pucha aayesa kiu krta hain, wo bhi same reply kiya. Ijjat or usko lagega tere pass bohut time hain. Respect or so called bhaoo de rha hain usko. KITNA chutiyap ho gya hain. I.e mera kum friend hain 😂😂
Yeh baat bilkul shi h but aj kal ke time pr agr hum kisi ke liye available hojate h toh fir samne wala sochta h ki yeh toh free hai harr time . M jab mrji msg call kru utha hi lega ya legi ... But this is the most disappointing thought yr ...
The thought is great❤(agreed) But the society doesnt really deserve it. You know when you make yourself too available for others , they take you for granted. Even i do this but condition applied. I dont do it with people whom i know love me equallly and *would* do the same to me. What i mean to say is, i reply immediately to my parents, brother, close friends and (as a student) teachers. But with others , it depends. And if it is an emergercy, its quite visible because the other person will either call you or text a long or multiple message.. yk...anyways ,everybody is built different...this is my opinion