I think I am finally getting closer to setteling on my type thanks to your videos. I have taken an online course and read books (okay, book) and taken tests and so on. I even ventured into the tritype version of the enneagram - but you have really been the best to explain so far. I set your videos to +1,5 speed though but I do that with most videos. Thank you. 🙏
I used to identify as a 9, but now I stopped smoking weed and I get frequent flashes of rage and have begun to cope by making art and music. I care more about being real instead of fake, which I was before to keep the peace. Has my type change to something else, like a 4 maybe?
I am utterly disgusted with myself for not expressing my anger and not using it to overcome situation. Should I respond with chaos and anger? Hate is a strong word and I hate myself for it for feelings this way, withdrawing myself and avoid it just to avoid conflict.
For me, as a 4, I cry at any intense emotion. I'm very grateful that, lately, that emotion has been happiness and witnessing the kindness of others. But when someone trips that switch and I get angry, it's like heat. Not a flame, not a fire, not even an explosion. It's a forge. It melts everything around me. And when I give in and let that control me, it has destroyed more in my life than any tragedy ever has. It's self-destruction. And no one knows how to hurt me like me.
I think as a 5. Its about having that space to lease my anger. Like sometimes I think others dont allow me to express my anger in certain spaces. So i think for me its important to me to have the room to feel ok to be angry
I am afraid of being angry especially in places such as my workplace because it's like I become someone else, I lose complete control over myself, I say the most hateful and hurtful things and I don't care about the consequences in the moment. Afterwards, I feel regret and deep shame and I feel like I want to disappear or never see those people again. If it's my significant other, I apologize and try to explain myself and my actions afterwards. ---Type 4w5 self preservation
Thank youuu❤❤ ive been trying to find the simplest and easiest way to figure this out (im a 7 and i have a short attention span but I'm fixated on this☠️)
This took the pit out of my stomach as I listened and prepared to walk into work. This makes so much sense. I’m going to walk in there the energetic force that I am- I can’t even control it- I’ve tried, but it made me numb and angry and I’m going to pivot the path now. Thank you ❤️
M age 33 . Type 5. If I have been angered and it's to the point I have grounds to confront, the person will be completely obliterated. Regardless of my feelings towards them. I can probably count on both hands the times I've gotten truly angry in my entire life. If they are angry, they typically have very solid (LOGICAL ) grounds. That being said they will be so unemotional detached that It may be hard to get them to move past the facts . Typically resulting in them isolating for an extended period of time, whether that be physical or emotional. The emotional healing will take an extremely long time for them, although you may not even be aware of that as an outsider looking in.... just my thoughts/ experience . Good work
As an INFP enneagram 9w1 sp, I've suffered several trauma and bullying by many others, poverty, neglect, abandonment, and betrayal. I'm in trauma therapy right now trying to heal. I definitely need to be more assertive, express my anger more effectively and constructively, and practice emotional regulation.
❤😮 Why aren't we being met halfway? Repressing is not creating what we enjoy. We can be beautiful. Attracting what we enjoy. I even made a video about reconnecting to our intention, as a Enneagram 2! So awesome thanks for THIS video inspiration. ☆ kind regards, A sweet 2
I'm a 2w3! Perfect examples for this type 2 Enneagram! Thanks for sharing your ideas for my MBTI channel. I saw your video thumbnail through my RU-vid algorithm today, yay! 😊😊😊
What an amazing presentation and introduction to Enneagram.. sincerity, love, wisdom, presentation are all top notch.. You are a gifted person to the whole world
