Had a painful 3rd degree episiotomy that i was recovering from (that i later had to fight to get seen by doctors who didnt believe my pain and turned out was infected) along with dealing with newborn and recovering from the trauma and could barely sit up to feed baby but yet baby daddy slept peacefully through the night and would finally take over around 5 or 6am to give me rest and would expect me to take back over no later than 10am....and he was also off work for baby bonding😑 but if you ask he insists he helped me so much
Women really have to do everything all the work and communicating the same shit over and over again like the other person is a fussy toddler. I understand the message but how much communicating do y’all need nobody should have to tell you what to do in your own house your own family just do it like a decent human being. It’s astonishing bc men should be doing more when women are the ones carrying the child and giving birth. Yet they need their mothers to stay cause the husband can’t cook or take care of the wife and child or the house while she’s out of the hospital or in the hospital mid push. But a women would have done it all. It’s exhausting the whole communication agenda is exhausting there’s nothing to say anymore women have given up on men centuries ago. Bad behavior has been way too normalized in men women don’t need to communicate with men. Men need to communicate with each other do better.
Only if we let it. This is still a choice as it stands, and it’s encouraging to see younger people beginning to reject technology. We might have a situation where our grandkids are trying to pry us away from the phone, ipad and games console, not the other way around.
It does not always have to be 50/50. When one can only give 40 the other should give 60. When one can only give 10 one day, the other should give 90. You should work together and know how to communicate to each other about how you feel
The 50/50 is good However,I heard that sometimes it's not always about 50/50 There might be times in which someone will be able to give 30%,and the other part is willing to give the other 70% until the other is being able to give again the 50% It's about helping each other and what it really means to be a team This is also counted as giving 100/100 in my opinion Showing that you care,showing that you are willing to help,showing and proving that you're there and not abandoning the ship
So true.. after the birth of my twin babies they were suffering from CMPA.. I was overwhelmed with their treatment.. I am a doctor but had to leave it to look after my children.. My husband-an engineer, who had previously been keen on being a father, stopped communicating or helping out at all and instead STARTED BELIEVING EVERYTHING WAS DUE TO BLACK MAGIC😅.. I was forced out of my place and moved in with my parents.. It has been a year since.. He doesn't even wants to know about me or his sons..
I absolutely agree. My husband and I have our separate jobs and responsibilities, but we always work as a team at home. There are some days where he carries the 80%, because I’m at 20%, and there’s times where I carry the 80%, because he’s worn out, but most times, it’s 110/110 on both sides. It’s about learning to work together, and realizing that sometimes we all need support, and break, and if it’s mutual on both sides; time for a vacation!
