You shouldn't use so much hair product because shampooing your hair everyday isn't good. I'd say for your hair length you should wait two to three days before washing again. Plus what you're doing wastes product anyway, the jbco is supposed to help with hair growth so you should let it seep into the hair to work it's magic. The grease is supposed to seal in that moisture so you don't have to moisturize very often.
It's actually true, practically every male around me cares about their hair, even if its just making sure they get a haircut weekly or getting it permed right. Boys have hair too!
Nice job with your first. I make vlogs daily and the reception I've gotten from other You Tubers has been great. I hope you receive the same! Just wanted to show some support and wish you success with your channel! :)