Im back, but seriously i gotta say this, kotori is seriously underrated- she's doing alright but i think only few fans actually understoods her character. She's originally a sweet girl(white ribbon) and she should have grown up naturally but due to certain spirit's interference cause her to become a spirit eventually taking a huge responsibility as a child playing the role of a commander/leader of a big organization, that also causes her to have two personalities- the black ribbon one or commnder mode shows that she aint no fraud but a real deal who actually manages and deals with issues or stuffs as a commander, like she has to grind her way up to gain an understanding/awareness/knowledge and experience to be worthy being called a commander that everyone loves, that shows how serious she shoulders her responsibilities but she could also differentiate her job and herself shown in the end that even if they're trying to save that spirit- she will still need to pay for hurting kotori's beloved once like shido and other spirits even if kotori were to hurt that spirit. Overall this character is so relatable and selfless also capable of doing rational and logical things not to mention her nature and overall expression etc those factors really be driving me to love this character enough to be not comparable to anybody i know.
At least losing your money due to that awful gambling addiction something like this might cause at least it will be better than what she lost in episode 3.