I have a question about loving people. My names Violet by the way I’m 22. This is my mom’s account lol So It’s never been hard for me to love all kinds of people unconditionally. I actually tend to befriend the singled out person. But lately I’ve been getting too close to people that do need friends but subtly take advantage of my niceness. At least that’s how I see it. I had to distance myself, and still I feel uncomfortable thinking g about the fact that I “left them”. How to I show Christlike love to them after breaking ties? Or Should I have kept the ties? If either of you have personal experiences that are similar love to hear ❤
you are so cool, guys. i feel so much pleasure and comfort listening to your podcast, to the experiences you are willing to share. i am especially grateful that you guys are sharing things about your faith and God! thank you so much
Any new chapter in your life brings excitement and challenges but you have the right mindset going into. Will traveling, sleep etc be different? Yep, but you won’t care cuz the reward will outweigh every challenge that comes about. When you were single was it easier to go and do things, yep cuz you didn’t have to think about the other person you just made decisions that best fit you. Would you go back to that now that you have met each other? Nope, even though it is tougher in some areas when you add a person in your life you value them so much that you don’t care about the struggles that arise from having them in your life. May the Lord give you peace and a healthy baby who enters the world gently ☺️
I will never again take a negative comment from another parent seriously. I was very unsure of whether or not I wanted children based on all the negative commentary. Infact, when I got pregnant with an IUD, my husband and I was unsure if we should carry on with the pregnancy. But because of a series of miraculous events, we decided to keep the baby, and I thank God everyday for our blessing now. We had a very rough start initially with a very colic-like baby, but man was I eventually surprised how quickly the difficult days went by. Now we have the sweetest toddler that is SO much fun. We regularly go out as a family to the coolest family friendly places, and I just LOVE seeing this little person play and learn about life and grow and I am happier than I ever could have imagined. The hard days of course still come around but they continue to mold and strenghten me and make me a better version of myself, and I wouldn't change it for the world. Being a parent is the best role Ive been blessed with and I just want to tell everyone I know that it is not this scary, negative experience people love to make it out to be. You guys are going to be great parents, enjoy every second of it ❤️❤️
Love you guys! Love the honesty. The humility. The sharing about your faith. May God bless you for it. Your body was created to give birth. I wish I had learned the Bradley method when I was going through childbearing years, but my doula/midwife support helped so much.. And the precious little face of your little one will erase any sadness about the other stuff that gets harder... travel, money, freedoms, etc. I might even bet you won't care at all! Exciting days ahead! You guys will be awesome!!!
I also expected to love being pregnant and my first pregnancy was awful-my second, i always say if all pregnancy’s were like my second I’d have a ton of children. Prayers for a healthy enjoyable rest of your pregnancy and bonding experience with your precious baby.
Finally I have access to my account and can comment. Thank you! Please don't stop, keep doing this podcast. Each video makes me smile. I love your tiktok, now I love your RU-vid. So happy you're growing🤗 Sending much love to the three of you 💗
So much respect for not have a victim mentality on something that most would, going to God in a hard time, such a great example and something I need to work on as well. People aren’t perfect, God is and I’m so glad he took away the hurt and anger for you!
once you have kids the date night become wondering how the kid is doing w a sitter and/or making her stop worrying about how the kid is doing with the sitter and/or going back home early bc you can't stop worrying how the kid is doing with the sitter LOL
you're still shedding skin even if you shower....and there's research showing that your microbiome is better if you don't shower every day. choice of soap is also key
Forgive God? About the time I think I've heard it all Satan throws another arrow. I have never heard that anywhere in the Bible.....OH it's NOT in the Bible, This woman is Satan inspired.
“God is just, but not always fair.” I love this and praise God that He isn’t fair. Grace isn’t fair. It’s not fair that Jesus took my place. But so grateful for that. 😭💛
Im sorry but forgiving someone or holding a grudge is not the same... you dont have to forgive the person that hurt you really bad... but you can learn to let go of the grudge and weight. Thats called healing..... you dont have to forgive.. this is the world's biggest lie brought by the Christian industry which is full of malice and pedophilia. this could be a very long debate.
I rarely ever, if ever comment on videos. I truly wish I could just talk to you both in person. Watching your podcast has become my new Tuesday night wind down after I lay my kids down for bed! I am trying to newly walk in God and this has helped me so much but I just wish I could have a coffee with yall and talk. I just hope you guys know you've touched/changed/helped someone and I'm thankful for that. ◡̈
I started following you from tictoc - I'm so excited to hear you sing AGAIN? PLEASE do more in the way you performed on tictoc, where you questioned if each of you would match your singing! You are so talented!!!!
I love the way you guys process life together ❤ Book note: Wouldn’t rec. Power of a Praying Wife… There’s some problematic teaching in there about relationships that is not biblical or something that counseling would support.
