Sorry, I refuse to listen to anyone who gives the kind of dating advice that advocates implicitly for wives to tolerate r-pe from their husbands. This quote is taken from their book called The Rules of Marriage by Ellen Fein and Sherrie Schneider. It basically tells women to suck it up, put out, and basically let their husbands r-pe them, because hey, you're married now! No boundaries for you.! This is a literal quote taken from Rule #29 of this book (the "excuses" part is particularly alarming and infuriating): "When it comes to sex in a marriage, husbands rule the roost. Whether you like it or not, or think it’s right or fair, your husband determines your sex life. Whether your husband wants it all the time or not that interested in sex, you will be happiest if you adjust yourself accordingly. So don’t turn your husband down repeatedly if he wants sex every night even if you’re a morning person, and don’t force sex on a man who wants to watch Larry King or read a book after dinner. Go with the flow, theater that is in your marriage. We have seen time and again that in this area, it is best for your husband to set the tone. For example Neither enjoyed a wild sex life before settling down with his wife, Maria. He expected more of the same as a married man, which his wife found exhausting. She constantly came up with excuses. She was either tired or had PMS or the kids were draining. Keith got angry every time. ‘You’re always tired…” [continue after p. 117 in the Rules of Marriage Book]. If you want to see a picture of the literal quote from the book, here it is: www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/mogrs3/one_of_the_most_disgusting_things_ive_ever_read/
Someone I know, recently I asked her, “who chased who?” and she said “I chased him actually!” And I thought for a split second oh wait…?! Then I was like wow and then I asked, “when did you get married?” (btw she had adult kids with this guy) and she was like “oh we just never did it…” ummmm… so he never proposed to her!!! It’s true
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48:22 hahahah... If I knew there was no future with this person. I'll have sex with you. Hey guys!!!! Pay attention. Make sure she thinks their is no future and you get sex! Stop being nice 😂😂😂
54:40 "im taking the rains into my own hands"... Lol. So a women would rather have a $10,000 bill and a semi invasive procedure vs walk up to a guy and "chase a man'. Fun. 😂
45:59 just in. Women are oppressed and held down by the patriarchy. Breaking news. Women are better than men and cant find men that are equal or better! So which is it? 😂
😮39:00 lol. men don't like older women. Next up.. water is wet! Stay tuned at 11 for the latest news! Haha its ageist now to have a preference. Hows the height-ist? Or education-ist? Or income-ist nature of women? Lol. When men have preference its wrong. When women do, its ok.
quality data is as credible as it's going to get in modern scientific research whether it's coming out of the mouth of a prepubescent or somebody in their 60s
Crazy to me that successful women make enough income to not care about money and then choose to care about money when dating. You are really setting yourself up for loneliness. Why not find someone who you are attracted to, find funny and engaging and who is kind? These qualities are literally priceless. If you make enough to support yourself and then some, why care what your partner makes? Can someone explain to me why this would even be a consideration?
The guy needs to at least earn enough to pay his way and not have to ask for money 😅 Also, don't think you can prioritise a guys looks if you earn more, generally guys won't care in the slightest that you earn a lot, so best to stick to someone on your own looks level.
1:05:40 "once you're in a relationship shell pour more into it later. So just cover the first two dates."... How about no? What the host lady fails to realize, is as a guy, you are NOT guaranteed a relationship just because you go on a date. . This means the men have all the costs and no return. A good approach for men might be, "hey if she isn't sending clear signals she's interested during the date. Decide then, to split. Don't invest money into a failing or lackluster startup."
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Yeah but they don’t care when you pull back and disappear. They just move on and find someone else. This doesn’t work on all men. Also, I swear I had a guy do The Rules on me and it messed with my head so much that I blew up, acted like a psycho and ruined what could have been a good thing.
Hahaha watching this now since you announced you're living together and the chemistry is smouldering, Harrison is completely smitten and Marin looks like she's taking mental notes of his answers to her questions. So cute, long live love x
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The reason why many girls who pretend to be a cool girl and act like it have cognitive dissonance because they are behaving against their evolutionary desire. Sorry to break it to you, but evolution hasn't adapted to new contraceptives. Our neural pathways still reflect long-standing reproductive strategies that provided evolutionary advantages. Sex, more for women, is ways to test out potential long-term partners whereas for men, from an evolutionary standpoint, it’s primarily an opportunity for mating. According to one study, negative feelings after sex, such as a lack of closeness, unwanted proximity, or concerns about reputation, are influenced by evolutionary and psychological factors. Women often feel more connected with their partner post-sex, while men feel less tied and see their partner as less attractive. These differences stem from varying reproductive strategies: women seek long-term partners for child-rearing, whereas men prioritize multiple partners to increase the genetic variety of the male offspring. This persists despite sexual liberalization and contraceptive use. Source: Fernandes, H. B. F., Kennair, L. E. O., Hutz, C. S., Natividade, J. C., & Kruger, D. J. (2016). Are negative postcoital emotions a product of evolutionary adaptation? Multinational relationships with sexual strategies, reputation, and mate quality. Evolutionary Behavioral Sciences, 10(4), 219-244.
Men tend to lose interest in sex with the same partner more than women due to the "Coolidge Effect," a biological phenomenon observed in mammals and rodents in which males gradually lose interest in mating with the same female, but have an increased sexual interest in new females. It's an evolutionary survival advantage to increase the genetic variety of the male offspring. ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-HveuOjlKn0I.htmlfeature=shared David Buss contends there is a fundamental difference in why men and women have affairs. He supports the mate switching hypothesis as a potential reason for women's infidelity; women use affairs as a means to leave their current partner and find a more desirable one, or to ease their transition back into the dating market, assuming they can find someone better. Women who are unhappy in their relationships, whether sexually or generally, are more likely to have affairs. For men, the primary driver is a strong desire for sexual variety. According to his research, there is no difference between men who say they are happy or unhappy in their relationships regarding why they have affairs. Even men married to beautiful women sometimes have affairs, driven by their higher sex drive and desire for diverse sexual experiences. ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-0nTEfx44pws.htmlfeature=shared&t=638
Verbal abuse behavior is a form of mate guarding that has been described as a cost-inflicting mate guarding strategy. David Buss hypothesized that it's used by a partner with a lower mate value to lower the self-esteem of the partner with a higher mate value in order to prevent them from leaving the abuser. As Macken said, I hope that knowledge of this strategy can educate people who are targets of this strategy so that they can make an informed decision.
