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@@LiveWellWithElle_ it's funny that you should post this topic today. I was just reading on healthforlife One of the main goals of the covert narcissist is to manipulate to ensure that their demands are prioritized often at the expense of others needs.
Then welcome too being a cat lady or wine aunt sad angry and depressed but hey at least that makes me feel better now I know someone else is suffering like me
it isnt just narcs that are soooooo busy, its everyone. my favorite for a couple yrs now has been the old "im busy" crock of sh it. busy is the new, nice way, to ignore others, and the new, nicer, equivalent of, f off. its also very good way for lil people, w lil egos, w very small wieners, to make themselves feel sooooooo important, when your not, and will most likely never be. so go busy on that a while. its a dam shame we have stooped to the act of ignoring, treat others badly, to give ourselves value. this is our new, narcissistic world, in action, welcome to it.
In the beginning she ALWAYs had time , than ( too busy or too tired or she forgot) but strangely never too busy or tired or forget to do Everything she wanted and with others ,just Me 🤔... When I asked as I did for 3 years...all I got were lame bogus unbelievable excuses. 17 months now ,since I ended her Emotionally abusing me...treating me like a dog ,but her words said ( I love you very much ,I have only one BF ) it was all BS CONTROL N MANIPULATION... finally I said no more...good bye ( covert Narcissist passive aggressive whore ) I told her off n Turned n left her to enjoy her many other BFs and flying Monkeys for future BFs...I don't care anymore...Evil PREDATOR...I'm free...I escaped...I'm indifferent toward her 🥳
Why is no narcissist ever worth it ???? It would make this less embarrassing.... like they really do look that good and women just can't resist them instead of the reality of throwing themselves at anything that will give them attention
This is advice I can relate to. The worse thing you can do is to "move on" without processing and learning the lessons or you're bound to repeat history.
This is advice I can relate to. The worse thing you can do is to "move on" without processing and learning the lessons or you're bound to repeat history.
Why are you doing this? I don’t mean the message, I mean what do you get out of this? You’re giving advice while in full makeup. Dyed hair and filters. You are pleasant enough to look at. Do it more sincerely.
This is what I look like actually. I take good care of myself. People are always astonished and tell me I’m beautiful in real life. And Im always grateful and always appreciate the compliment. So idk what the point of your comment is really.
Hey Elle! Thanks!! Need this rn... I hate the fact that I let her get me so far out of character. Because then it's just supplying more ammunition for her narrative. As you say necessary headaches. necessary pain.🤬🤦🤷💪
Wasted 10 years and being the best mom to my youngest. Trying to overcome the guilt and building a life after losing everything, though it was all a lie I’m tired and it’s been almost 4 yrs. Getting better But still hard to make decisions 😞 🙏
@@ambertrufley6594 trust your gut. Your instincts are there for your best interest. Do some chakra clearing and learn to listen and trust your heart. ❤️
It's a process you need to go through to heal. Becoming Indifferent, regardless of your memories of that COVERT NARCISSIST, will happen,in its time. 3 months or 3 years... I suspect ( 6 - 18 months is the average process time ) ✌️
I’m going to guess that your love language is words of affirmation because it comes naturally to you. And for the record, I’m right almost fifty percent of the time 😂
Mhmm, I asked a diagnosed narcissist in her AMA if this was actually true. She said yes, 100%. Keep no contact with them. They don't need to see your glow up and you don't need to see their downfall.