Welcome to the anti-agony aunt podcast, So Wrong It’s Right - with presenter and documentary maker Olivia Attwood 🫶🏼
This podcast is all about tearing down walls of shame, embracing honesty, and confessing to those guilty pleasures we all secretly have 🫣 Liv and her guests chat about some of the most relatable moments of when they were so wrong, it felt right - as we get behind trends, tabloids and a whole load of WhatsApp messages ☕️
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Pretty much everyone I know fell out just before engagement 😅😅 I kicked off about where all his money had gone the night before he proposed, surprised he didn’t take it back haha
Love these two but the severe insecurities and lack of self confidence makes me feel sorry for them, Lauren not so much. But Ashleigh wanting a facelift in her 20s is wild. She would pay for anything if it made her believe she would be prettier, no matter how serious of a surgery it is. Also, for all 3 of them to be confused why people want to talk about their surgeries is naive and saying stuff like “started with a boob job, as we all do”. It’s not common or usual to get surgery. They just hang around with friends and acquaintances who are like them so assume it’s normal. I work in a corporate job and come from a rural area, I’ve only ever met 1 person who’s had a boob job and the odd person who’s had filler and botox. I remember at high school, a friend’s older sister got a nose job and it was the talk of the school for days as it was so fascinating. People want to ask them about their surgeries because they’re intrigued, not because they think it’s the most interesting thing about you. For anyone watching this podcast and others alike and feel inferior or out of place for not having any work done, don’t, because they’re in the minority no matter how normal they like to think of it. I think it’s so admirable for women to live in the bodies they have and work hard to embrace their insecurities and be confident regardless of any part or area they’re not fond of. I’m not against surgery but I’m against people who make it seem like it’s the only answer or solution to not feeling good about yourself. A cause for someone to get loads of surgery is that they were criticised a lot as a child and made to believe how they looked was they’re biggest worth then Ashleigh came out with the comment “like when my Mum used to tell me I should wash my hair just before leaving the door”. Instead of her Mum being like “have a good time love” she would sub-consciously insult her daughter’s appearance and made her think she shouldn’t go out in public without looking perfect….which has obviously created an adult who is chasing an imagery of perfection, wanting to look the way she thinks people will see as perfect. If she paid £40 a week for a therapist for around 6 weeks, she could work through her internal issues rather than throwing £40,000 at a surgeon and still coming out the other end unhappy with how she looks, she’s had eyelid surgery since this was filmed. She’s had her bum done, liposuction etc in the past and has already had her eyes done, she keeps getting the same surgeries over and over blaming surgeons for not doing things right instead of realising it’s her own psychological make-up thats preventing her from ever feeling good enough. The magazine was probably asking her what her husband’s opinion was for the same reason most of us want to know….has your husband enabled you to get surgery or is he ensuring you that you’re beautiful the way you are. Judging by her comments of him paying for the surgery, I guess it’s the former, hence that question triggered her and she refused to do the interview. No woman should be with a man that encourages them to feel like they need to look any different. It further concretes her Mother’s actions of making Ashleigh think her sole worth is based on how she looks. No wonder the poor girl has had numerous surgeries, throughout her life, she’s fooled into thinking her appearance isn’t good enough and if it was then maybe she will be loved properly. Now she’s on a never ending chase to look perfect which she never will, nobody is perfect. If anyone feels so insecure that they’re obsessed with nit-picking themselves and consider surgery as a solution, go to your GP and asked to be referred for therapy first, your issues could be solved that way. Botox and such isn’t as much as an issue, it smooths out your skin, but actual surgery to change the way you look where many people dislike the new them more than the old them is a huge risk. The risk of anaesthetic, the scarring, the side effects, the financial burden etc can outweigh the results. Listen to “Sisters in the city”, they have cried tears on their podcast because of the scars from their BBLs and wish they could turn back time and never have had it done, they even say they preferred their old bodies even if they hadn’t got the scars. Surgery is not a quick-fix, light hearted decision, it’s a life changing decision that will possibly make you feel worse. You are more beautiful than you think you are 🫶🏼.
Amazing episode! Full of experiences, laughs, and honest chat. Cheers, Olivia, for getting Ashley and Lauren on. They were brilliant guests. I like the dynamic of this interview. Hope you are well! 🩵✨️🎤🎧
My husband and I are Welsh expats living in Australia and he’s RED through and through he grew up with loving George Best Dennis Law and all the other greats from UTD
My husband watches a lot of U.K. soccer on his iPad and in particular Ella .When he’s watching England play I hear saying bring Ella on she makes the difference.
Really interesting thanks! :) Re the finger prick test kits - does that mean things like 'Zoe' that Steven Bartlett promotes are also a scam? They say 'We run the world’s largest in-depth nutrition study, and we’ve turned our research into a personalized program that gives you insights into how your body responds to food.'
Olivia you HAVEEEEE to get jay shetty wife on, Rahdi she has amazing knowledge and facts on so much to do with nutrition I've learnt probably the most from her...sometimes I play her stuff on repeat to take it all in and really understand it and remember it 😂 Get her on as she's incredibley positive interesting and just a all rounder.
😂😂 Liv you are such a breath of fresh air!! Thank god we still have some non politically correct people in the public eye 🙏 we have hope for free speech still 😂❤
This was brilliant and very informative. As someone that all about nutrition and wellbeing Rhinnon expertise was helpful. I learnt so much about gut health that I didn't know before. Thanks for this special episode, Olivia. Hope you are well! 🩵✨️🎤🎧
This was such a great episode & Saleena is so sweet & funny ❤ People need to remember everything starts from within. Alot of skin issues are due to poor diet & not having a very healthy gut. If you eat a well balanced diet, drink plenty of water & try to get enough rest & sleep, you will see a huge difference in your skin, hair & nails 💅🏽 ❤
please some advice!!! i don’t want kids at my wedding either but my fiancées sister is a single mum, 2 young children and doesn’t drink, she probably wouldn’t come if the children couldn’t be at the wedding, what do i do 🥺
Hmm I think it’s a bit harsh to ask your financee’s niece/nephews to not be there 😬 I think you will probably have to accept she is unlikely to attend.
What has your finance said? Do they know you don’t want their niece/nephew there? I think it’s fine saying no to friends bringing kids along but I can imagine banning kids that are family might cause some upset 😅
Brilliant, I always enjoy a solo episode! Cheers, Olivia, for truly being amazing, giving the latest life updates and honest opinion. Engagement is such a superb subject to have this Thursday afternoon as I sort out the laundry. Support always from Yorkshire 💜✨️🎤🎧
I think it depends if you drink. I loved weddings as a kid, both my brother and I were well behaved. With or without children, my parents wouldn't have been drinking and having kids with you it's an easy excuse to leave early if you don’t want to be around drunk people
