Attempting to give it up won't make our history disappear. Our history lives within us, is a part of our body. Our body remembers, always, and is afraid. A huge problem is the fear of it. The problem is that we're not integrating our past with the now, reconciling with it, understanding why it happened, letting go of the fear of it, letting go of the need to be justified within it. Life can be unfair, and that's okay, because our power lies within us. The people who hurt us could not, ultimately, control us. Perhaps it's the same thing reworded, even so, it's important to understand the same thing in different ways, and I do put importance in the logical understanding just as much as Dyer's more emotional one.

Psychedelics are just an exceptional mental health breakthrough. It's quite fascinating how effective they are against depression and anxiety. Saved my life.

The now is living in bed in severe pain taking opioids.

Things from WD always pop up when I need them. I loved this talk. I have been thinking of not wanting to say I am an alcoholic because I stopped drinking alcohol. It is not abut shame it is about calming that character in me that I have given over to God. I will have to listen to this again. I was lucky to see WD in person twice. He is a gift from GOD.

R.I.P. Wayne. You’re still great !!

I know all of those things. I came to the conclusion some month ago, dont have a fixed mindset of reality instead learn what reality is. As he quoted in this vide( re-write your reality ) Something I have learned about myself is that I am aware, which makes me happy because sometimes i doubt my mind and thinking progress but I often hear other deep thinkers think in same manner

Hello Wayne! What took u so long to get on U TUBE!❤❤❤❤

Love this video so much! This spring was pretty discouraging for me… I will practice changing my thoughts to more empowering ones. I hope everyone reading this lives a beautiful, content life ❤

Yes yes an yes learned so much thanks Dr

Your history is just like ashes around the bonnfire. If you really want to know who you are, you have to look into the fire!

05:03... OK, but anger, hatred and bitterness in a relationship probably point to you being with the wrong person. There's no point struggling daily to see things in a more positive light. Just follow your gut and move on.

Emerson was wrong. We don’t “recognise our own rejected thoughts in every work of genius.” We don’t even know every work of genius. When we hear a symphony that is great we marvel at it because we could never have even imagined such a thing. Emerson was also wrong to say we are all geniuses. Some of us have low IQ, others have mental illnesses. Some people won’t even be able to tie their own shoe lace because it’s too complicated.emerson was a narcissist who encouraged others to be narcissistic. He destroyed lives by giving people delusions of grandeur and making people feel entitled.

Thank you 🙏 guruji

I love Dr Wayne Dyers teachings. He was very wise and his books are an excellent read. ♥️ If one can master living in the present and drop the sorrows of the past , it’s the only way to find peace.

Well...that's gonna be a tough one for us poets & writers! :)

Love fixes everything

I'm sorry but this man is exactly why I do not trust psychologist for psychiatrists this was a bunch of pseudoscience dabble you didn't say anything of any True Value you didn't offer any actual help to anyone who may be suffering from this kind of thing Let It Go let it fucking go that's all you got to say is Let It Go fuck you

Real

Sorry but I love my personal history.

There is only today

If I could talk to the boy of 5 I would say look inside for love and look for the light to guide you. cut the lines and sail away from this tragedy.

Release yourself from trauma bonds

Outdated boomer advice.

Brilliant

Lot of recovery stuff in this. I dig it

I may give it up for people. But I hang on to it myself. I give my history up when I die. My mind is solid as iron.

I'm a bit taken aback by the oversimplification of "giving up your personal history" with no real explanations about the mechanics of doing so. I am personally working with a therapist toward that end, but people with complex traumas & abusive & neglectful histories have a harder time of it.

If you don’t have a story, . You don’t have to live up to it. That sounds amazing in so many different ways.

It depends on each life story. When you had good family moments and memories, it is the opposite, these past moments are the rock to hold on and bring you peace and joy in challenging circumstances and in eld.

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Thank you Mr Dyer

Thank you so much, Dr. Wayne Dyer!

I went through an abrupt kundalini awakening not long ago and one of the stages I got to was the giving up of my past and my identity. It was and still is extremely difficult. Because what happened is every time I let go of it I was given a HUGE amount of mental and emotional space and freedom but at the same time my mind went into automatic panic and fear mode as if I didn't pick it back up again I would lose a huge piece of myself and never get it back again. So after a little while I could not resist but pick it back up. This has gone on now for months, a constant backward and forward of attaching myself to my past and feeling like it is the right thing to do, and then when I get to the gates to let it all go and start telling a new story the fear of losing something inside of me prevents me from fully letting go. I am hoping that soon I can once and for all fully detach from all of it and find my way back to eternal peace. The ego is such a cunning trickster that the last place it has to hide is within your spiritual journey and practices, so when you get to the stage where you awaken and ascend it can feel like the part of yourself that is protecting you from the next step is trustworthy. It's for that reason that it can get very confusing on what and who to trust.

Seems like what my narcissist ex does. Hurt and forget. No past. Narcissists are masters. What a bliss.

The best analogy that I can use to sum up what this speech means is to be more like a cat 🐈. If you watch a cat they a complete don’t give a crap attitude towards life. I watched my kids two cats get into a slapping fight then 5 minutes later they are sleeping next to each other. They forget the past and live completely in the moment. So if you want to live a better life, live like a cat. 🐈

Indeed

Gratitude and love to all as I write this and look at the challenges that we face daily, rest in the knowledge you are not alone, we are spirits living in a physical body, our experiences, losses, failures, struggles and defeats initiate and cleanse us of this ungodly worldly chaos, let go of the madness. We are all going home one day soon to be with our holy father.

Thank you 🙏

My history is what got me to where I Am. I love it.... People must correct atrocities before trying to give it up. You see....we reap what we sow....so to bypass that law and not DEAL with it is like saying it's ok to have anxiety...😊....To toss what should be corrected is like trying to give people an illusion that to hurt and steal lothers is ok....I always question this Motive....teach making CORRECTIONS...it is so healing😊😊😊😊... Treating people wrong is not an illusion....but it is one to correct and apoligize😊....

Gibberish word salad.

Cast a cold eye on life , On death . Horseman pass by . WB yeats .

I would agree in circumstances where the 'other person' doesn't have power over your life, but you have to take into consideration how someone might eff up your life if they form an unfavourable opinion of you. The reality is that one shouldn't internalise other people's negative views about you, but you have to have some understanding of how interpersonal relationships work and the value of reputation in human societies, or you'll suffer as a consequence.

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I expect everyone to be assholes and I'm never disappointed.

Yes

Wow! That was profoundly deep! Just what I needed ❤

I don't believe that's true about people, I live in a small city. The next biggest city is boston. I have a client that moved to Boston from Arkansas and he said the people are so miserable that he moved to the small City next door and he said there is a huge difference in the stress level and how people treat you. He said he is so glad he left Boston and so much happier raising his daughter in the smaller City

❤ Loved this video. Thank you.

Not sure how I needed up here but at 47 and starting over in many ways, I needed this. I’m a man of faith and this helped cement that characteristic…

This man is not a good person to take life advice from, he is so outside the ability to face reality. You don't get to erase your past. Just ask any innocent man/woman with a bogus criminal record who has had their name tarnished by a corrupt Justice System. It's not like you can go to your own private island & make a fresh start in order to survive. This clown world picks and chooses it's winners & losers. Make no mistake about it.