This man was insanely lucky, to be honest. Only people with his base of support can get sober. I mean…. He was “almost homeless” but could afford a flight and time for rehab? Fishy.
@jonathanfieldsmedia I have been a regular listener to your podcast "The Good Life Project" for a long time, but this is the first time I am listening to this. SO good! Can't wait to listen to you more here in addition to your podcast.
To be this educated and self accomplished and knowledgeable, I find it ridiculous that Richard roll believes that alcoholism is a disease. There is mental illness there is emotional instability. There are all kinds of things that are part of our biology, but we were not born with alcohol in our bodies. Disease is a breakdown of something internal.
7:45 Working with Helen Shore /. HOT Divorce / ie still fighting - couldn't make sense of ?why? this happened.. poor distress regulation.9:00 -10mm Like being on FIRE at the same time / he then read Gottman and added attachment to pair bonding. I2:30 When threat comes on line... it's automatic. and we resort to "THREAT" actions and re-actions. <mostly based on mis-Understanding> 16:00 PPL can "Snap" 18:40 Primary attachment.. how to be... dependent - interdependence /. how the past show's up in present time ... when I need to depend on you ( like cop partner's need to depend) 22:30. The Goal is - "Secure Functioning"/human pair bonding(social contract-justice-fairness - sensitivity) 25:15 The Individual exists in the 'created relationship' we serve the relationship - based on our agreements for safety and security. 30- how to learn the other... to enliven the relationship. the DO ing.. the demonstrating ... the LOVE. / - Safety ( some ppl use the threat of danger.. to spark the attention in relationship - Low complexity ) there are other way's to maintain with out the danger <of say jealousy - thou shalt not mess with the attachment> 38:30 - new creation - between the two of you. Unique co-created agreements. 42:30 misleading ideas ( Bullshit ). we learn out side in .. then with another. the actual learning ... comes with in the relationship.
45:37 build safe container of the relationship - 3kinds of love . 1)Exciting Love Infatuation. /amplify 2 sides of coin- eye to eye 2) Quite Love …. Hold on - let go. ?? Didn't get the #3 ?? Leverage the distress 59:07 1:00:34 1:01:00 serenity pact prayer 1:02:58 blessings.
Milton Glaser is one of my heroes! He was my biggest inspiration for going into graphic design in my 20s. I am so happy to have studied with him at the School of Visual Arts in NYC in the 80s! His words and wisdom ring just as true for me today. RIP Milton!
"is this is the work so powerful that . ..it's the work I can't not do, and it must get out" -Jonathan Fields (12:42). . . "a CEO, and she or he..." (23:50) - thank you Jonathan Fields for demonstrating your support of women through conscious speech choices! loved this interview; thank you both so much for 'showing up' and 'daring greatly'!
Summary: Define Your Goal: Decide what specific skill you want to learn and set a clear target performance level. This helps you focus on a specific outcome. Deconstruct the Skill: Break down the skill into smaller, manageable sub-skills. Prioritize the most important sub-skills that will have the greatest impact on your goal. Research Efficiently: Conduct enough research to understand the sub-skills and their essentials, but avoid excessive information overload that can hinder your progress. Remove Barriers to Practice: Create an environment conducive to practicing your chosen skill. Eliminate distractions and set up your surroundings to make it easier to engage in focused practice. Pre-commit to 20 Hours: Make a commitment to practice your chosen skill for at least 20 hours. This commitment ensures you invest enough time to push through initial challenges and begin seeing significant improvement.
Your narration of the condition is so similar to the symptoms of SickleCell disease......the jaundice / billuribim ,the blood transfusion.....the Bone marrow / stem cells treatment....
Ohhhh my.....your story so resonates with my Spirit My last born Priceless Precious Princess had SickleCell anaemia.....this is where the red blood cells are deformed and disabled......she went through blood transfusions ,had to take medication everyday and sometimes had to be on antibiotics and other complicated meds for prophylactic reasons.....we did well with the condition ,unfortunately ,SCD also presents with major crisis of pain episodes which were excruciatingly painful......unfortunately we lost her due to one of these crisis.....18th Dec 2022 at 13 years old.
I don’t know why algorithm never suggested these kind of contents….. sometimes I feel like Internet is full of all those shitty contents and these kind of contents are like gem
Jonathan, you're one of the most underrated visionaries on RU-vid. It's literally insane. that you don't have 8 million subscribers. If you hang in there, I'm sure it's gonna happen. You have such a vital, exquisite message. I'll do my part to spread. The word.
Omg, my life right now looks just like her melt down story. One disaster after another, at some point I though it is a curse. Four people in the family died from different causes for just two years - cancer, covid, thrombosis. And I find myself a widow, with a kid, crazy with responsibilities and expectations towards me, and then I got a severe neuralgia to drive me desparate beyond my limits. But I still stand up and hold on.
