Akasha Chelle makes music videos, guided meditation and talks to help you grow in Self-Love, Self-Respect and Self-Honour. Heal from one-sided relationships, emotional neglect in childhood, and generational trauma, and create a life full of love and fulfilled, reciprocal relationships. Find out more at: www.akashalove.life
Yes - for the moment my community is for women only. I may in future open it up to men also but for now it’s a women’s community. Thanks for your interest! 🙏🏼
I don't think you have to hate,but know you want nothing to do with them, so yes there is a separation, energy wise,think.of what you do want and flow your energy towards that.
¡Pues es para gente como usted que he hecho este vídeo! A ver si se puede contestar a la pregunta de - si hay algo en ti que quiere salir que usted no deje salir? Gracias por tu comentario y tu presencia.
Bueno - si - este es un camino posible. Pero lo que yo hablo aquí es un otro camino. Un camino alternativo que ha funcionado para mi. Desde que yo estoy sacando más de mi arte ya no tengo estos ansias y estas ataques de pánico.
⚠❤Children are going to disappear around the world, then His adult TRUE believers. It is JESUS coming back to pick up His people! Make Him your Saviour! Do not stay for apocalypse!❤🥹 Jesus promised 2 000y ago that He will come back for everybody who accepted His payment ( His death for our sins)❤ He is about to remove His believers from this earth sobthey won’t stay for the Judgement. He loves you like crazy! He doesn't want you to stay for that! God's Grace is about to run out.❤🥹 What saves us is trust in what Jesus did on the cross: He died for our sins and then defeated the death by rising 3 days later! He made it very simple, He has done it all for us so don't add anything to it, just believe and trust Him! 🙌❤ Right before He comes to pick up His believers we will witness Russia attacking Germany. Missiles hitting USA , Fall of Freemason's Temple in Philadelphia, Alaska earthquakes back to back of magnitude 7.6 and 7.3. We will also see return of Yassir Arafat. This is all been revealed by Jesus's prophets right now.❤
Zit in een relatie met iemand met een ....... verleden Dit heeft gevolgen voor hoe in de relatie staat . En stoppen voelt ook als opgeven falen Het is moeilijk Bedankt voor je wijze woorden . Probeer ze in praktijk te brengen ❤
I just came across your videos, I am in therapy due to narc abuse and I am scapegoated, I am in the 5th minute of this video, but my feeling is that you have no idea what a narc abuse is and how deep it goes, especially when you have grown in such a family, because you never had other healthy role models and paradigms...it is all huge and painful dysfunction..I am starting to have a felling, you have never experienced that and you might be saying very superficial things about the narc-empath narrative..which could be very confusing and misleading for clients with PTSD and CPTSD...!!!!
Hi Jothriny, Thanks for your thoughts. 🙏🏼You are wrong that I don’t know about narcissistic abuse. I absolutely do. I have been in 3 relationships like this. And I also know about scapegoating in families. The point of this video is to give the viewer an alternative to the victim mindset. And like I also mentioned in the video - it’s ok to feel like a victim because you are - to some extent, but if you are an adult and you have got yourself into an abusive relationship, then the only way to really heal from this so that you don’t repeat the same mistake - is to empower yourself. The first step of self empowerment is recognising what is it in you that is attracted to this person / dynamic. Answering that question for yourself - and bringing all the focus onto yourself is the first step in healing yourself so that you can change your attachment pattern and your relationship blueprint. As I said - I made this video to give people a different perspective from the victim perspective and to bring the focus off the narcissistic person and back to yourself. I wish you well in your healing journey! It’s a warrior path we are all on who are healing from such relationships and from entrenched dysfunctional relating dynamics. If you disagree with me and think that staying in victim mode is ok / good / the right way to healing, then that’s fine. We are free to respectfully disagree, right? Because we are not narcissistic, we don’t need to insist we are right and the other person is wrong. 🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼
@@akashalove Thanks for sharing your thoughts! It's definitely common to struggle with authenticity in relationships from time to time. It's all part of the journey toward deeper connections and self-awareness. How about you? Have you found any strategies that help you stay authentic in your relationships?
Your video is top-notch, both in terms of content and production quality! It's evident that a lot of effort and attention to detail went into creating it. The visuals are crisp, the audio is clear, and the pacing keeps viewers engaged throughout. I have subscribed. Keep up the fantastic work!
Training to keep your authentic state, I can understand, even if it can beconfusing if your state is also in flow. Training to stay calm and not absorb the stress and frustration and the judgements and attacks. Ok. It is trainable. Understanding that it is a product of lack of love, also doable. Understanding that love is with you, also doable. Hard. But doable. Identifying what is based on love or based on lack of love is tricky, but still doable, if you feel like running it is porbably not driven by love, so not the place to be. The narcissism energy seems based to trick love itself, like a joker... They are traumatized in trusting in love. Judging love. A heart filled with control, based on fear. And not allowed orctrwined to feel. Feeling is the same as weakness and it stresses te be attacked again, so the attacks makes a safe distance. Only drugs and sex can be the only controlled safe areas ..the rest is manipulated... As an empath probably the same happened trying to find the love and approval within someone, not themselves. The pain of missing but still believing is depessing and confusing the empath... The attemps to go inside failed... For both... The pain left is not the loneliness, not the abandonement, but the consciousness and realtime feelings of awareness that when you increase your frequency of love has a price... It is the fear and not the trust you WILL lose some body... This inner conflicts with the collective loyality and what healers are sending and trying to teach us... The realisation that most of earthly society is incapable of understanding. So you pause yourself to figure it all out.. risking to lose your shine.. Praying and healing, meditating, but all based on fear... Or finally demonising when you tried it all.. So... this advice sounds compassionate, but very difficult. The empath has to work, as if it is the blamed one... Most evil and non believers and even professional help won't give the right supply to be on your journey .. Even religion can be contaminated.. To truly trust is not something of this earthly world, where we supposed to be... And also it is something you can't carry only by your earthly self ... You need the wholeness... Good to open the discussion, but it would be great to have communities, training schools, heavenly places to go to, freed from our earthly point of view of it which is hard in the yang western society. I would love to hear recommendations HOW to. Thank you ❤ So...
Hey Saskia - thanks for your thoughts! It is difficult, this work of empowerment in such relationships. But it's not so much about 'blaming' the empath, it's more about inviting them to look inside themselves and ask themselves why they were attracted to this person. So, not so much about blame, more about understanding. From understanding comes power, and comes change in the future. And yes, absolutely - communities, schools and special places that teach authentic relating skills are very much needed in our world. Where I live in Bali there are quite a few who are teaching 'Authentic Relating' and this teaching is spreading around the world, so that is great. But ideally relationship building skills should be taught in schools. Let's hope that this is happening. I have friends who have kids here in Bali and their kids go to the 'Empathy School' so it looks like this is already happening! :)
Of course you are correct. Love really is the only operational force in the cosmos. Plus, it is painful and stultifying to harbor rersentment towards another person, even if they did cause you serious mental and emotional harm. I really was abused very badly by a "narcissistic" girlfriend and it crippled me emotionally, professionally, spiritually. I sometimes would like to try to 'hate' her, but I can't. I'm wishing her the best, however, I did have to go dark on her, I did have to 'ghost' her because my health was suffering. She went bananas when I went silent. Lashed out in a smear campaign. Those of us who have been taken advantage of and abused do have a right to withdraw. Thank you for your enlightened interpretatation of this problem! As you point out, she was one of my most important instructors.
Hi Kenneth 👋 Thanks for your thoughts! Sorry that you had to go through that ‘lesson’ but I’m glad you are also able to see her as your teacher. But you are absolutely right, we need to draw very clear boundaries when it becomes obvious that an ongoing connection / relationship will only cause us harm. And that’s also a part of the teaching, I guess. But yes, through my experiences in such relationships, I also realise that if I let myself ‘hate’ or maintain resentment towards this person, that’s of course only hurting me. Compassion with very clear boundaries is the way forward. As I see it, if we learn our lesson well we won’t have to meet another such “teacher”! 😊
Akasha that's right! I agree! My current goal is ( I hope this dosen't sound weird) to achieve a transcendant state of cosmic awareness, or unity, or connection - so that I (my irritating ego) dissolve into the universal plasma of what is and see everyone one else, including the animals and insects, as me, and me as everyone else. With concerted application, It's becoming to happen - when I walk down the street I already know everyone I see and this makes love simulataneous, ubiquitous, and automatic. A blessed release from the mundane tedium of saṃsāra@@akashalove
I understand your perspective and I agree but ONLY because GOD commands us to love each other. No fluff - it's simple. GOD commands this of us. I have just left my covert narcissistic husband of 28 years - I was scream crying inside as I eventually walked out and left behind everything I had known my whole life (this took years to get to this point - I was scared and making excuses) and I would probably have stayed if it wasn't effecting my teenage kids as badly as it was but I had to be a mother first and do what was right for my kids. - I miss good times every split second of my day - it's torment but my kids are happy and it's peaceful for them now. I'm clinging on to God and He will reveal his plans for me all I know is that I still have empathy for my husband because he didn't hurt us because of who WE are, instead he merely used coping mechanisms that over time have taught him how to feel superior because he needed that to feel normal. Some people overeat - Some people drink too much - Some people have affairs - etc We are all flawed. No fluff - LOVE EACH OTHER - WE ARE EQUAL.
Thanks Imdee 👋 That sounds extremely painful but yes, that’s awesome that finally you managed to get out. And you are right, if we can not take it personally - they behave this way because of them, not because of us, then it takes the sting out a little bit. And then we get to ask ourselves what is best for us going forward. Boundaried Love is the way. ❤🙏🏼❤️
8 of 10 women who are in long term relationships with a narcissist develop cancer. A high number of women choose suicide. You reckless fool, getting on RU-vid with your misguided “spiritual” advice. Narcissists kill people, far too many. It might be indirect but they know exactly what they doing while they do it. Choose a subject you actually know about.
You don’t understand narcissism and obviously have never experienced it. Your message is dangerous to empaths. Do your research, narcissists can’t be healed because they refuse to. Another person who moves to Bali and thinks they are spiritual. 🙄
Hi 👋 Thanks for your thoughts. I do understand narcissism as I have been in some relationships like this. I respect your opinion if you don’t agree with what I’m saying here. That’s ok 👌 We can disagree and be kind at the same time, right? But let’s stay respectful towards each other. There’s no need to be disrespectful towards me because I choose to live in Bali, since quite a few years now. Maybe come visit and you’ll see there’s all kinds of people living here. I personally am of the opinion that every single person is “spiritual” as I think we are all souls having a human experience. But again, it’s fine if you disagree with me. Also, if you watch the video again, you’ll see that nowhere did I say that “narcissists can be healed”. You’ll see that the whole emphasis here is on the other person in relationship with the narcissistic person. It’s all about the empathic person. This video is all about taking your power back. It’s not about worrying or thinking about the narcissistic person at all. The opposite. It’s about looking at what you can do for yourself if you are the empathic one. 😊🙏🏼
Love this ! I was thinking about this topic for some time now because I found myself in one of those relationships. But I also think these people are victims of whatever made them that way… upbringing, parents, environment etc
Hi Sam, Rufi did become a cat but then I had to travel to Australia so I left him in the care of the people at the guesthouse where I live and unfortunately he died. I felt terrible guilt over that. 🤨 But now I have a new car who has adopted me and looks just like Rufi. So he just May be a descendent! (Given the cats breed here very young).
Hi! From California. I didn't feel safe growing up with a controlling mother, but I learned on my own how to release my past and receive from relationships.
Well - I think it's gong to be different for everyone. So I can't say what your experience of this feeling is - I can only say what mine is. You will know whether for you it's an inner feeling of invisibility or whether it's dissociation from yourself / spiritual energy. Also I’m not sure what you mean by the ‘spiritual energies’?
