I tend to talk about unstreotypical traits of each type so you might get confused if you are new to MBTI world. i like discovering the unknown as an INTP my channel may not be for the beginners. I have bachelor's degree in psychology and I don't work in this field because I don't have what it takes to be a counselor which is empathy. I'm not a sociopath but I may be autistic and i like sharing informations that I learned ;)
First time seeing INTP girl… As an INTP male I agree with most of the things u mentioned Plz share things u been busy on , ahah I kind of want to know what other INTP works on or even subjects that female INTP interested to Thx for the video Great video
@@intpvamp lol, I was doing similar stuff, I self learnt Python , trying to get in ai field , currently working in data analyzing, recently self learnt vba , but now trying to shift the direction into finance field What an amazing and logical brain / mind , u have 🤣
@@intpvamp I ve hear that there are 4 main functions for every MBTI, we are usually using the first 1,2 function, and if we wanna improve ourselves , we will have to work on developing 3rd and 4th function, For INTP , it would be , Fe, Si How do u see this? U think of any ways which help improving those area? (Eg: meeting ppl which are 1st , 2nd function in these area and learn fr them ??) I suddenly notice, ISFJ share the same 4th function with INTP, how do u see that and experience u interact with them?
I'm an INTJ 5wing4. My girlfriend is an INTP and my BFF is an ENTP. I love NTP's, they are my ideal partners. Though cognitive function MBTI is incomplete without considering enneagram and instinctive order. When you have Cognitive Function, Enneagram and Instinctive order, then you have a picture of the entire person. I do not put much faith in Socionics, seems to overcomplicate the issue. Most INTJ are either 5Wing6, or 5Wing4. We have a very different personality. I am a 5Wing4 and this makes me very dark and artistic, think "Wednesday Adam's". Most INTJ's are 5Wing6, think "Elon Musk". 5Wing4 INTJ are very intense and definitely NOT boring. 5Wing6 INTJ are incredibly bland if they are not embodying their technological creative potential. The 5Wing6 INTJ I have met are your typical boring CEO/Stock Trader types. I or any other 5Wing4 INTJ will be super weird, but you'll never get bored, I promise.
@@intpvamp just saw your video on 'yellow fever' Personally I dislike the term, I thought everybody was entitled to their own preferences 😭 To me Caucasian women are actually quite masculine looking. It probably also helps that Asian women tend to be smaller in stature. I'm pretty short myself, so some might say my options are limited here in Europe
@@UnimportantAcc I see. as english is my 2nd language sometimes I may not fully understand the nuance or connotation behind every words I use in my videos. since people also use the term 'Bieber fever' to describe Justin Bieber's popularity, thought it wasn't such a bad word? maybe I'm wrong lol. women normally find tall guys attractive but I find super tall guys kind of scary.
@@intpvamp no no! You are correct in using the term. I would say that it is used negatively in most contexts tho. To me it seems people can have their own dating preferences and nobody minds. But the moment a man has a preference for Asian women it gets called 'yellow fever" and he is ridiculed. I'm 170 which is short over here but abt average in many east Asian countries I think 🤔 Actually I think I read in Seoul and Tokyo the men are taller. So maybe I'll have to stick to the countryside haha
@@UnimportantAcc i'd say you are considered tall in Korea. I honestly never understood women's obsession with men's height tho. when media keeps on telling people that women like tall men, it feels really weird to me. it sounds like 'everyone has to buy this brand of tumbler because it's considered cool.' there was a time when I used to fantasize about dating a women with height around 150cm. i'm 163 btw
Having such skills and trying to show credibility with that is just so funny. I do think we are the tkind of type sthat want to master things we do. We want to be the best, but it does not give that impression like the INTJ types, which are far more pratical and lesss aimed on that Ti-ideal we are after. I think I am good at such artistics things like music, art and such, but I always feel I have to learn it all myself from scatch without any tutotrial or any theory, becuase otherwise I do not feel proud, a sit feels I've borrowed parts of my thoughts from others. It makes no sense in a practical manner, but in the end the only one's approval that I matters to me is my own. I started making music (maiking sogns) without ever having even played other songs than my own, and I epxect myself to understand the theory without reading anything about it and I have to have results that pass as professioanl, becuase that is the standard i set for myself. I tend to look at those who seem the best at such things and then try to be better than that. No one knows or cares about this, but I do. FOr me it's the challenge of learning something form scratch and figuring out how it works, so I would not easily get any certificate unless it's oficially needed for anything, as I expect that i should be able to learn it from scatch. Learning things from a book and then applying it does nto feel like actually "learning" to me , bur rather repeatning jus like how a kid learns to read..
Tantum vemus quantum scimus (a person can only see as much as they know). some of my skills are not so undervalued as you think. for example, there are very few cake desginers who can pipe those edible flowers and the classes are very expensive. beginner course would cost around $500 and there are only few designers who can teach them that when there is a class, bakers have to book a plane ticket. and they have to pay extra to pay for the certificates as well. and those jazz stages where I was paid to perform did not allow just anyone to perform there. A lot of people who had degree from music school had to wait in line to be able to perform on those stages for more than 6months. and I did not even go to music school and later I was able to to perform in one of the TV show as well. and most of my certificates require months of studying and practicing to aquire them. and my intention was to make other intp feel proud of themselves.
In the conversation you tlak about intps and matching their levels of energy. I can see this sort of level of energy in a lot of NE types if they talk about subjects they are interted in. However, I am curious why it seems you assume you can not match that energy back? Do you have less of this passionate Ne than other intps, or is it more that you do not have that energy or interested in the particular thing they are interested in ? (or something else,of course)
oh it's just that some people try to talk to me every single day in long long paragraphs and I have school life to catch up on. and I also want to talk to them only 1-2 times a week so i can miss them and have the feeling to want to talk to them genuinely.
@@intpvamp thanks for answering, but I wonder, how does she know it's love? if I were to compliment her based on her appearance, would she accept it? in Italy I believe this would be perfectly fine, if you do it in austria/germany you would be ghosted immediately :D
@@smilesmile1237 hahaha i think in all Asian countries the compliment would be accepted. I never knew about Austria and Germany. why would they be ghosted for giving compliments?
@@intpvamp If you would say "you have beautiful eyes" she would think bad about you and be like "sorry i dont talk to this kind of guys". instead you would have to say something like "you wear nice earrings, very beautiful". not sure how it is handeled in south korea.😂
@@smilesmile1237 that's ridiculous. 'you have beautiful eyes' or 'you are beautiful' would be appreciated in south korea. if a guy said 'you wear nice earrings' korean women might think he's too shy to compliment on her beauty directly. have u lived in Germany or Austria?
@@intpvamp not sure, maybe date her? jk^^ I believe showing her the site was a good decision. What I would do different probably was the first part: I would not just talk to someone then decide we now live together. :D But I also feel like sensor ppl often undervalue the intuitives. I believe they don't do it on purpose but they just can't look far enough into the future to notice the value of an idea.
hahahahaha that's funny. it's almost been 10years since this all happened. i was so young and dumb. i never thought girls would be this crazy honestly.
guessin am one thousand one hundredth right now, to watch the vid lol. RU-vid didn't recommend me this channel before so I guess that's justified. I agree with the points, speaking from a white guy's perspective, it is not okay to create stereotypes or judge asian women saying they are submissive or dumb or smart or whatever else, individuals are individuals. For me I always found asian girls more attractive, but face to face i do not really even say this - i would not like to make anyone feel uncomfortable with me, and am slightly scared of being perceived as someone with "a yellow fever" who sees asians as nothing else but objects to satisfy somebody. Probably because I do not feel this way, me having a preference does not imply I think asian girls are merely objects, I see them as the same human as I am or a white girl is. They just look a bt different, and that's what attracts me in practice, not any stereotypes that "they are obedient" or they are always submissive, nobody should be forced to. Thanks for the video, your perspective is sane and you understand the issue very well
I can only guess here, but if a person has only known white people it is found odd that black people have white inner hands and bottom of their feet. Perhaps, possibly, theat person could be thinking along those lines? Where I grew up we didn't know a single racist person, so i tend to always give the benefit of the doubt. If it isn't that, then I can't think of another innocent reason. But without knowing context and the people involved, i would rather think it was just a stupid attempt at humor rather than being deliberately offensive. Hopefully I'm right, or at least close.
I knew the INFJ would say "I'd make a realistic decision", they are very calculating actually, this is relatable :D Also regarding the community service topic: I have also thought about this in the past and came to the conclusion, that NF and NT types just have a different way to tackle problems. INTJ/INTP seem to have in common that they would fix your problem by actually fixing your problem, whereas INFJ would more try to fix the problem on the emotional side by saying "dont be sad" etc. I believe both could be important, especially if finding a solution is not possible.
ahahaha wow you have watched this thoroughly. yes they're attractive cuz they're differnt from me but then it also becomes the problem that we speak different language.
I have to follow the order of the game so I can't just choose which type I want to date. next one is already recorded and next date is an INFJ. my emotional side is not on all the time. i had to turn it on before getting into these dates lol
@@intpvamp ok I see, my guess INFJ kind of feels relatable? for ENFJ however you probably will need all emotions you might have, would be the final boss of the game if I made this 😄
@@intpvamp btw how did you know to put on the ears for the INTJ? 😄 I have to admit, the simulation kind of paints a picture which could be too positive. While I also one time drove to a place to check it before going there tomorrow, I believe, most INTJs are not so familiar with social rules and dress code etc. ofc I'm working on myself lately, so I even got a watch and a jacket in a more brighter color.
@@smilesmile1237 watch and a jacket on INTJ sounds hot . if that's so i should really consider putting those ears on if i ever go on a date with an intj. thanks for the advice. 😆
I'm a bit confused. I thought that you were going over what someone else said about the differences in Asian women. Then you were going to comment on what they said. So is this how you see the differences? If so, then OK, great. I just misunderstood.
intps are too stubborn. and you can't rely on them. most at least. unless you make them feel understood, but bro for that you would have to learn how to speak first yuk also: dress better, maintain your body and DON'T ZONE OUT DURING SEX! Try to keep the emotional connection alive, or else you'll be swapped for an xxFJ
Hi, I'm INTJ and I'm having a hard time with my INTP. I know every INTP comes with a manual, but there were just so many knobs, I think I pressed the wrong one, now a LED is blinking. It's not a good sign probably, my INTP is now changing subjects at a rate far exceeding the maximum speed mentioned in its datasheet. Since communication is not possible and soldering out its internal flash memory would be too risky, are there any other options? Please help, I just want my INTP back to normal again.^^
@@intpvamp thanks but sorry I was just kidding, I unfortunately don't know any INTP in real life^^ i still enjoyed your video even if i would never try to control an INTP obviously :D
Watching this makes me realize Japanese women are a good fit for me but the sexy style of Korean women is hard to resist. I go to Seoul often and it's hard for me to go back to the US. Tokyo is great too. As for Chinese women, there are some hidden beauties in the mainland. Dalian, Harbin, Qingdao, and Chengdu are on my bucket list.
As an INFJ, I noticed most of my male friends are INTPs. So I can spot male INTPs but female INTPs are a challenge. As for women, I noticed I attract INFPs, INFJs, and ENFJs the most.
INTP females would be harder to find in real life as they rarely go out lol. it's hard for me to find INFJ males as they are so rare. I tend to attract INFPs, ENFJs, INTJs mostly.
When infj doormslams is forever and hurtful!!!! I saw an infj hurting an infp who was nice to her that infj doorslamed her and infp doesnt know why and infj doesnt talk to her!!!!
It might be just me but it feels like you are still having a hard time moving on from your past relationships. like you are indirectly asking those people,' what reason did you have to do this to me?' but ignore my opinion i just read too much inbetween lines
i am still moving on yes. but i decided to use this period to motivate myself to make more videos. it's like how some artists make music when they're going through depression or pain.
@intpvamp that's nice. Best wishes to you for your journey to self-healing and prospering. Your recent videos which I watched felt a little fixated on these experiences so I felt that was the case. If you want to share your thoughts you're most welcome.
@@lonerwolf19 it's not that i'm sad about failed relationships anymore. i just wanted to make videos as detailed instruction for people to understand me better to prevent misunderstandings in the future. thank you for your kind words tho. I appreciate it
Japan has one of the lowest female labor force participation rates among developed countries. you can copy this and do research you will see a lot of sources.
@@intpvamp Only when old people are factored in, due to retired old age in aged society. For general working aged under age 64, South Korea has one of the lowest female labor force participation rate for developed countries. Even lower than Japan. Japan is actually higher than some European countries. Japan also has much higher rate of dual-income households than South Korea. Also, you are getting the stereotypes wrong. Japanese women are perceived as earnest and kindhearted. Korean women are perceived as prone to hysteria. Chinese women are seen as more traditional.
@@user-yq3hj6wq1g Japan has higher income because overall income of the entire country is higher than Korea. you need to do some research. there are literally graphs and data out there comparing japanese and korean wives working hours after marriage. stop writing novel
@@intpvamp South Korea has higher average income. Japan has higher women's labor force participation for working aged under 64. Japan has a higher percentage of married women that are employed than South Korea. This is in accordance with publicly available OECD data.
@@user-yq3hj6wq1g according to international labour organization Japan has one of the biggest working time gap btw men and women. and korea has one of the biggest gender gap pay.
Isn't what you're saying true for women in general? But I noticed you said you view the guy as incompetent if he talks about past trauma without mentioning how he overcame it or what he learned from it. I guess that is the difference. Other women would think he is weak.
some feeler women are attracted to traumatized men as they want to heal them. I'm just saying it takes me a long time to feel empathy for a person. i don't feel empathy for any strangers. the person has to be in a close circle for a long time for me to be able to feel empathy for them. i was just talking about the first impression. also telling people they just met about their traumatic events to manipulate others is a trait of a sociopath.
2:04 wow that was deep! You are an amazing person! ❤ Also, this video is blindsiding me. I admit you are right in everything you are saying, any INFJ who says otherwise is likely suffering from Si amnesia, but with Te trickster I do not know what people think of me so I'm finding this video incredibly refreshing in its critique. Thank you very much for this video. You are equally funny while also enlightening. (edit) Great advice section also for both INTPs and INFJs. burn burn burn lol sheesh we do do that. This whole video is making me laugh with the call outs because I can't deny it. I'm in court with no alibi I can only laugh. sheesh this is one to grow with. Thank you for this video. You are too kind to us. I hope you are doing well...I'll shut up now lol. peace
INTPs don't love freedom, they love independence. Nothing stronger than saying, I control me, not you. SPs are the freedom lovers. "I'm going to get an F if you don't help!" 😄 Not my problem. -INTP
@intpvamp calling a mature INTP a liar?! I told you I have watched it x 2. Second time was worse. You are still very young and immature.....and it shows.
You did not just put "How to Control INTP video" out there on the Internet did you?! O.O not that I as INFJ-T would ever need this...... thou Thank You 😀 Much appreciate this Video, Excellent Work! *Claps hands. Amazing! INTP says ~I have never met Someone more gifted and Talented then I~ Me ~Intreging! Gifted/ Blessed?! are You Sure about that door? hmmm. Sees Licenses and Certificates + Pictures of Talent *My Face = O.O Ok... I Believe You, Sweet 👌 Amazing! Wonderful! Again thank you for your Hard Work and Time spent making this video ✌ Have a Good Evening!, Bless, Heal and Prosper! 😀 Hmmm thinking about it...... What is wrong with wanting to have Minions? ;-P XD
@@robertlonn6128 hey Robert. hahaha glad you find this video helpful. yes i find that a lot of people in my life have hard time understanding me that I decided to put up videos for people to deal with intps properly :)
Boring vid. I thought you were going to elaborate on the physical differences between the 3. Even going by behaviors, your description of Korean women is too flattering and a downright lie. Korean women are feminists to the core, luv to trash talk and even Korean men avoid them to date other races lol.
I think a lot of the feminists in academia are jealous that other people might be able to find love, and so they say anything they can to keep other people as miserable as they are. One way is to call people 'creepy'. Another way is to throw around the word 'narcissist'. I think narcissist is just a pretentious replacement for "low-budget psychopath" or "selfish jerk-face". It's pretentious because it pretends to be highbrow and educated, but really it is lowbrow and indoctrinated.
"yellow fever = short sighted way to simplify an attraction, while it's basically the same as if you ask a white guy 'do you prefer brunettes or blondes'. Then why is that not blonde-fever and brunette-fever? Do straight people have gender-fever? You could say that about anything. Do women that like handsome men have 'handsome men fever'? Just becuase something is related ot race, all the logical arguments go overboard and the most negative assumptions are made.
