My mom neighbor husband married couple with two kids just got arrested for rapping his own child and when I see this be aware people come in all types just be aware
Put GOD first and be with someone the same. Have standards but I've seen men who really raised with both parents get with me and is expecting so much like I'm his mom. Ive seen men who where the opposite I can give different examples but being humble and aware saves lots of trouble.
Hey do you, but single mothers are disqualified on my book regardless of how they got to become a single mother. She better get back with her baby daddy, married uncle Sam, or married God, but I wouldn't let a single mother touched me.
So when a child free couple marries and have kids, he will still not be her no 1 priority. This is a negative way to view this topic and it's not true for all people who date a single parent.
I agree with you however I have a question. So my husband left our 7 year relationship for a 19 year old. I suggested couples therapy but he said. He said no and left. I did not have a choice in the matter. I was willing to stay together with someone who cheated on me multiple times for our special needs daughter. since he decided to leave, I then became a single mother of two children one with special needs. So yeah I made a poor choice!So due to this bad decision, I will not have men who will want to be with me. So should I go ahead and realize that I will be alone forever? Many men have seen this video and you were completely prejudice! A lot of what you said was pure ignorance! However, if men cannot allow anyone to come before him and it makes him feel so unloved…..then my FINE,LOVING,INTELLIGENT self will be alone forever. That’s just sad for everyone. Great advice to men. 🫣
If I’m being totally honest, I don’t think there is any particular spot you find good women these days. I’ve met girls everywhere, they are sh*t everywhere. I think all the good women are taken at this point. It’s rough out here.
Women kids will always come first even with the biological father being their man!! F outta here with the b.s!! That's why me and my kids FATHER BROKE UP
Even if you are the biological father of a child, too many mothers still believe the child belongs to the mother. The mother wants the authority, the father is just the utility and trapped into being the financial provider while the mother gets to live however she chooses. While you as the male will be working, no matter what. The situation is a huge legal trap!!
He hit it on the head with the money drain and the i sont fove a fk attitude about relationships.... they just want money and emotional tampon... conversation after the courting and honeymoon stage and after the great sex.....its about kids ans dogs and groceries and IF you're half ass important to them ehat nail color
Single mom here. Was in a long term relationship with a man who helped raise my kid. We broke up due to our own emotional incompatibility, but he and my kid are still close as he loves them like his own ❤ Many men love dating and marrying single mothers bc of the feminine energy they already bring as mothers. There’s already warmth and nurture and family-first mindset that provider men seek.
happens to me , specially point # 2, the kid departure hurted more than the mother's. My time of teachings, bonding, etc. Now she calls "dad" another man
two top worries in dating/marrying a single mom: 1) You are not the real daddy but you still the wallet, this means you have no authority or say but you still have to pay up for the kid 2) If you divorce/separate in a common law state you will be considered the adoptive parent and have to pay child support....no thank you!
With American women being little more than glorified prostitutes and brainless, irresponsible, bad decision makers, I’d say staying single is the way to go if you want to be happy and rich and sane! 😄
Stupid people make stupid decisions and face the consequences. They must stop expecting others to pay or underwrite their stupid decisions. You chose to go one way. Now deal with the situation. The world owes you nothing.
Juat finished dating a single mum for a year. Couldn't deal with issues. Had no capability of problem solving. Drank every night. Doesn't exercise. Was not great with her kid either and had a vile anger problem. Never again.
Women without kids must stay away from single dads . We women with no kids dont want men with kids 🤮. Tell all the freaking single dads stay away from us . We don’t want used parts. We want build our own family.
I’m female and no kids. There’s no way I would date single dads or men with children. All single fathers must look for single mothers . Imagine taking care children that’s are not yours . I want to build my own kingdom. Millions men/ women don’t have kids and why pick that already have ?? Don’t make sense
Absolutely 💯 correct. The mother will conspire against you to get your money 💰 and your house 🏡. You just get in a War. And the man Always Loses in the Court.
SMH what baffles me is neither single mothers and single fathers want to find people on their level no they want people who don’t have kids to be with them the audacity to think they should get anything higher than another person who can understand them cause they both the same
Something happen with me. I was dating a single mom with 4 kids and she was like 40 or some crap. That Slut was so dumb she left me with no closure and blocked me after 5 years of dating. I had to pay for everything and even help pay those kids shit. She got all different baby dads and didn’t even consider getting married or child support for them. She barley worked and heavy into drugs and alcohol. I was huge into the gym and work and she didn’t think I was loyal enough. She walked anyway . So my question is it worth running back to when I had lots of investment with her? She did have some good things tho like works, nice car, nice chemistry and etc. Now she’s dating a new dude even the new dude disrespected her kids, her culture and own family. On the other hand I respected them all. Any suggestions???
They used up emotionally and mentally they are are walking breathing burden . I refused my own child’s parent because they had kids that were not by me
Funny, I dated a man after having 3 kids. They were expected to show respect to ALL adults ALWAYS, no matter what and it was heavily enforced! If an adult was wrong, I HANDLED THAT ADULT, NEVER MY KIDS! I never, ever took my kids’ side just because they were “my kids”! The thing is, your children are going to grow up, move out and build lives of their own and get this, their partners will come before you do! AS THEY SHOULD! “LEAVE AND CLEAVE” when it became serious between the man above and I, and he disciplined them, even if I disagreed, in front of them, I supported him… then IN PRIVATE, I gave my views, letting him know I’d back his final say and I wouldn’t undo his hand by changing his given word. If there was going to be a change, after we talked, the kids had to hear it from him, preventing the kids from playing one against the other. We ended up marrying and having two more kids. Today my 5 kids are grown and I have 13 living grandkids. I sit back and watch my kids raise their kids the way they were raised. What an honor that is. But trust me, our kids have eaten their fair share of soap, written sentences til their hands hurt, and had a few welts on their butts! Today they laugh at it and my grandkids know if mama doesn’t get you, Nonna will! ❤ But the reward is in the kind of people they became and are raising!
as a single momma I’m not looking for a relationship but if there was someone who was Interested or I’d be interested in I’d want them to have experience in being a parent. Relationships don’t turn out the way they think we will sometimes & we have to take responsibility for things that don’t work out. I love my baby though he’s an angel. For what it’s worth if you truly truly fall in love with someone you will do anything for them. Love is mistaken sometimes for trying to fit in & a multitude of different things.
I don’t agree….this kinda sounds like someone who is emotionally insecure.🤷🏼♀️ You said to watch entire video before judging, yet turn around and put all single moms in a box.🫣 This video is like saying, I won’t date a man who is shorter or smaller than me because he ultimately can’t be a my “protector”since he’s smaller🤦🏼♀️ Authentic, true Love doesn’t come with limitations….perspective is everything❤️🔥 In conclusion, single moms that lack support from extended family, a village, and even the kids’ father are quite literally as resilient as the beautiful children we raise…We don’t need a man, we want love from a man…with emotional regulation✨🫶🏻✨
