Hi! I'm Kim Wade. I teach building healthy habits as a daily way of life. I have taught yoga and mindset coaching for over 15 years. I am also the Mom to college aged twins and a union actress in stage, film and tv for over 30 years. My goal is to live my best life and to help you do the same. Thanks for reading. I'm glad you are here.
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All this video proves is that women are unwilling to admit other women can well be in the wrong. It is useful only in how it provides yet more evidence for that reality. Her answer for when the woman is at fault is to blame the guy for being annoyed or resentful. Blame the guy for being angry even if that anger is deserved. DOWN VOTE.
All women are horny when dating but there is a food that can decrease a woman's sex drive by 97% . It is called wedding cake! Once the animal is in the the trap there is no need for more bait.
Some years back, whilst still married, my ex could not get her own way on an issue (forget now what it was) but, what she said to me is seared into my brain - Ok, no sex til you change your mind. I said nothing, but thought, fine, this is petulant, childish and very selfish. For four days, she flaunted herself towards me was very provocative in teasing me, all in an effort to get me to cave in. On day four, she finally realised, she was missing out too and that her tactic was not working. She asked for nookie than morning, I said, ok, but later tonight, she then really turned on the allure, attempting to get nookie there and then - several times during the day. But I held out.That night I kept my word and the night was memorable! She never tried this tactic again. I realised much later, she was attempting to control me and that this was her way with previous partners. Long before her threat of no nookie, and soon after our wedding, my ex confided in me that her mother had said to her 'you wont be able to control this one' I took from this that her Mom understood her daughter very well. I have never wanted to control any woman I was with and expected the same from my woman. Life is too short to be controlled by any woman. Now that I know of such stupid behaviour from women, if this happened with a new partner, I would not say a word, but move out straight away as soon as the tactic was uttered, and not come back til she changed her mind. If no contact from her within 24 hours, I would probably stay gone. I would not want to live with a woman who was so stupid and selfish as to try such tactics.
This lady makes marriage seem too risky to get involved with. What I am hearing from her is don't get married, cos of the risk of choosing a woman who only thinks of herself and too neurotic to even go near. With those painted nails, she is possibly a goth.
You absolutely can and will change everyone you come in contact with during your lifetime. This could be for better or worse and it does not mean that you will change them into who you think they should be. The way this will be accomplished is through genuine honesty, self-acceptance then maturity and LOVE! Everyone is different than you and grasping this is the first sign of real maturity. If your partner is not ready for this, then you show respect and love them anyway. You say "Thank you for everything and I am glad we had the opportunity to learn the lessons we did". Respect, love and gratitude command the interaction with all of those that you love. When you consistently maintain these principles, life blesses and rewards you. Jeffrey Z. in SC
Everyone was sold the lie that romance novel fantasy dating and marriage was the solution. This maximizes procreation, replacement population. It’s to stimulate the FIAT economy or it would have failed already. It must always expand, drastically exacerbated by greed. We need to change our mindset and just leave women to themselves to run the world. They can do and men could get out of their way as they want. Everyone happy. Perpetual population decline, no financial or governments, civilization collapse, and men will thrive on their survival. Really fast, 2-3 generations from now.
I'm 70 and I can assure you a marriage based on having sex will not last for two reasons. One, their bodies are not nearly as sexy in older age and two, some men are medically dysfunctional either due to prostate removal (prostatectomy) or lack of testosterone. For people only interested in sex there is jobs in pornography and prostitution and men can always run a mansion full of concubines to have his pick of women at any time like Playboy Hugh Hefner. Marriage should only be based on love and companionship with sex being a bonus to have children. Vibrators work well for women who can't get satisfied. Works great on men too!
Well my wife arbitrary decided to end our sex life four years ago, without my input or knowledge. She lied repeatedly while I chased moving goalposts. I forced individual and marriage counseling, which she obsfucated and stonewalled through. I tried to leave no stone unturned to heal our marriage. I am almost done with preparation on my exit strategy. Just a few more things before I have her served with divorce papers. I tried to love and care for someone who is incapable of loving or receiving love.
Me, I would move out straight away, after giving her one chance to smarten up. Life is much too short to put up with this nonsense. I do understand you probably had to have certain legal processes in place to protect your assets and lawful interests, but this I would do right from the start such as put my assets into a family trust to which the partner was not a beneficiary. This would take place before any commitment to the new partner. Trouble is, us men are not told this mostly cos our own parents were not told this and did not know to advise us on such matters.
$€x is not a payment to a husband... It is something two people experience and enjoy together. In my view, if a partner has $€x as an obligation with no desire or attraction then that is transactional and might as well be a sugarbaby or a trophy wife...at least that arrangement allows a man to come and go as he pleases, have other hobbies he enjoys and not have to give them up because his wife says it's too dangerous, too childish, too expensive, takes up time you could spend with her etc.
Marriage is a sexual contract. No sex is grounds for a divorce. That is one of the main reasons I divorced my wife. With the way modern women are now I am MGTOW for life!
Marriage vows include -With my body I thee worship. That is a promise, a legal contract. If the bride makes this declaration, then renegs, this is fraudulent. She has broken one of the conditions of the contract.
mmmmm...let's see here...which person in the relationship is the gatekeeper of sex? (hint: it's not the man). Can a man withhold sex from his partner...certainly...but that's not the rule...only the exception...not trying to be snarky here...but this type of situation flows mostly one way. This doesn't mean that men are somehow more virtuous than women, but this particular type of situation tends to be tilted quite a bit. Thanks for posting.
i tell you what's not sexy is your foul language. you use terms like 'resentment' and 'blaming' and 'sex' and'marriage' and galaxy, 'and 'thoughts' are you a witch? hmm... 'resentful' hmm... you're really throwing that darkness on it aren't you. then you mention someone's grown daughter. i get the feeling you're completely trying to mislead me.
No sex no money and she has become a room mate that will be totally responsible for half the bills and I do whatever I please . Literally how I explained this to my 2nd wife. If a woman wants a husband she has to treat him like one. It’s a two way street.
I laughed when my mother in law pulled aside my sister in law, who she knew to be having marital trouble and asked her if she was making herself available to her son . Fortunately my wife must have subconsciously taken this on board and I can count on one finger the times I have been refused in nearly 40 years of marriage. To me if a spouse is withholding sex then they have to go because it will only get worse and more often .
Though never faced with a partner who was not interested in sex as much as I was, I have thought for some time, that if faced with such a prospect, I would give the lady one chance to smarten up, then leave like instantly - if she showed no interest or it was clear, it was a chore for her. Life is too short to be in such a relationship.