In the building where I live a couple who live downstairs “greet” me with smarminess and insincerity. They manage to make Hel. lo or How are You today sound like I am Ancient compared to them. The tone of their voice to me is insulting. But then the two of them frequently have shouting matches and times of her crying and storming out of the apartment building. So their lives must Not be all That perfect!!!
I've had feelings off and on for awhile that my family doesn't care about me. Well,my oldest sister anyway. We live in separate states and communicate most often by email. I live alone so I need to stay in touch often. My sister never initiates contact with me and a couple of times her replies to an email felt disrespectful. I sent a link to something I thought she'd find interesting but instead she replied saying she didn't open the link because she didn't believe it I sent all 3 of them an email for the last 3 days and have not gotten any responses. It depresses me and makes me hate my sister
I cant take it anymore, ive been called ugly 5 times in 1 day. I have big lips small eyes and i cant help it. I cant take it and i need to find a way to cope but im struggling and i fear if i dont soon it may not end well.
Sometimes people have been so burned that they no longer trust people which causes them to detach and be self reliant. Life has shown me that the only person who truly has my back is me. Thats not cold, that’s being smart and observant. I have always been a giver but unfortunately, some people exploit that and mistake it for stupidity. Their loss.
What made me break it off with the over-thinker I was with for 2 years was she never believed anything I said and would overthink 24/7 and would flip out when I in turn felt insecurities like she was
Please stop torturing yourself. God loves you so much. He created variety in the world and so everyone looks different. Just accept that He loves you no matter if you realize it or not. When you discover that He is ALL you really need you will walk in freedom.
I have been both beautiful and ugly. As bad as ugly feels, and as awful as people treat you, ugly is the better of the two hells. Everyone is always trying to trick you, rape you, use you , stalk you, and sell you, when you are pretty. It is a worse hell than being treated like shit and being bullied. They are both wrong, and neither should exist though. I definitely still choose ugly; I am happier this way.
to everyone saying "You're not ugly, and everyone is beautiful in there own way" let me rephrase. The way I look disgusts the majority of people I come in contact with. It is not pleasing to lots of eyes and therefore first impressions are ruined, mistreatment is welcomed, and disrespect is expected by loved ones, acquaintances, and strangers. See I didn't say ugly... but its funny that the term ugly is already despised. I like the term now. Its my truth and I don't think its bad at all. It just is what it is. As a woman unfortunately the way you look actually does matter in society which is why I am proud that against all odds I was still able to get a decent job and move out in a state that is considered one of the most expensive places to live. Ive worked my ass off so no one can tell me shit. That's how im living. Im over trying to be pretty just live life at this point to anyone reading this.
Just because youre pretty outside, doesn't mean you're happy. I'm wiser now that I'm older. I can look back and see how superficial people really were.
This video missed a lot of key points, and this is coming from someone who was objectively ugly who become more attractive with time. Yes, it happens. Your looks aren’t 100% set. Firstly, anybody watching this video from ages 11-19, you are going through the most change right now in your appearance. In a couple years time, you will inevitably look different. For everyone feeling ugly or hopeless that they’ll never find love, there are things you can do that will significantly boost how people see you. Self care is key, treat you body with respect and kindness and maybe you will stop being so hard on yourself. Stress, anxiety and depression can show on your face and it’s all I see when I look at past photos of myself. Cook for yourself, hot lunches and dinners full of nutrients that might tackle any deficiencies. Most people are deficient in something which can lead to bad skin, complexion, hair and mood. EVERYONE should be taking Vitamin D and probiotics, while most should be taking iron. Food is not as nutrient rich as it used to be, so supplements are key. Move you body. Anything. Go on a walk each day, do a workout in your room, hit the gym. Get in the routine of this and I promise, you will start feeling better. When you’re in shape, it shows and speaks volumes. Touch up on your hygiene and style, fcking invest in YOURSELF. There’s a reason it’s an investment. Most of those pretty people you see on the street put effort in. Yes, you have occasions where somebody is naturally beautiful, but in this day and age, if you have a phone then you also have access to so many resources that can enhance your looks. But tackling each thing one by one, you will slowly notice a change in yourself. It’s not hopeless, you just need the mindset to start.
I never really wanted to be in a relationship because I don't like anyone that much. I do have a lady friend, but our age gap makes me feel a little uncomfortable considering she is much older than me and she has asked me to marry her a couple of times and that really made me pull away as that is something I won't do with anyone.
24 year old. however I have had one girlfriend which was in primary school when I was around age 8. women in the uk are extremely rude nowadays especially my age
I dated someone for like 3 months only to be told that he didn’t find me attractive after taking all advantages he could take from me. Don’t lower your standards just because you don’t think you’re attractive. x
Hilarious ‘plan an outing and invite him’ Not appropriate for narcisstic sibmings.. Do not initiate with people who show you over and over they don’t respect you.
😂😂😂😂 y'all bogish 👀 I'm dat bitch regardless of how I look TALENTED GIFTED INTELLIGENT yup me being ugly not gone change that 🤷💅 IM THE GOAT!!! #naanaanaabooobooo 🤣🤣
