I help Muslim women: - ditch burn out and embody their feminine and soft essence - learn how to love and take care of themselves by healing their past and setting boundaries - create a coaching business that gives them purpose and financial freedom
Instead of overthinking, but to converse with Allah swt as if your speaking to your best friend. I've learnt to slow down by colour for a few minutes, arabic calligraphy and quran tracing has been helpful as I'm always on my.phone
????what is the best for my past happening things i dont understand yet .AND FOR ME IS NOT FOR MY BEST ,I DONT KNOW WHY, YET...AND I WANT MORE THAT ALLAH EXPLAIN ME WHYYYY ....SO I DONT AGREE WHEN... WHAT HAPPEN IN LIFE IS FOR YOUR BEST..... YOU ARE BLESSED BY ALLAH. IM NOT BLESSED BY ALLAH BECAUSE I INTERUPT MY SALAH.READING QURAN ECT BECAUSE I WAS BORED WITH ALLAH FOR MY LIFE NOT BEAUTIFUL I KNOW IM WRONG BUT IN MY COUNTRY NO ONE DONT KNOW TO EXPLAIN MY ANSWER FOR FAITH.
I think that it's also important to fight some wrong ideas about men, as most of the time we enter in our masculine energy besause of tragic experiences with men (father, brother, husband) that lead us to consider them in a bad way, like unreliable, imperverted etc. And some of them are really like this. But not all of them. Allah created us , women and man equal in our role and importance in this world. We can enter in our good femminine energy when we admit and accept the existence of good masculine energy. As we, as woman, try to strive in way of Allah , there are men that do same. Let's forgive people that hurt us for the sake of Allah, and let's make dua so that Allah give us our energy and insha'Allah men that have their energy as well. Amin.
Exactly... All the points you described are absolutely amazing. I do practice الحمداللہ all of them. Although I'm not completely in them. But partially using these tips in my daily life also helps to heal. ان شاء الله I'll try to do them in a much better way. جزاک اللّہ خیر sister
Like many of us I've struggled to reclaim my femininity from the situations that put me in my masculine energy. I've had a lot of confusion about the difference between defensive masculine emotional patterns versus "masculine interests." Accepting that I can have a non-domestic interest and still become my best feminine self is my own version of how to balance independence and femininity. *Embracing vulnerability and accepting help is so powerful.* Hearing that I'm not alone in having to re-learn femininity is so reassuring, Jazakallah khair!
Wonderful video! I’m based on Dubai and do similar work for muslim women as well!!! My sessions are 1-1 though. May Allah swt reward you both for sharing ‘yourselves’ w the world.
Zikr is sooooo relaxing alhamdulillah. Be content with what you have and you will be able to thank allah and enjoy the blessings he gave you. Inshallah everything will be better for you. Love ❤😊
I learnt with teachers, not with books so I don't have recommendations for this but we have a bundle with webinars and workbooks all about feminine energy and women empowerment here: thehealedsister.mykajabi.com/offers/TimVFWtK
1. Dhikr 2. Meditation & mindfulness 3. Practicing self-compassion talk 4. Prioritizing self expression 5. Use the China that’s kept for special occasion… now! I love the last one. I actually have some cute teapots that I haven’t still used. Inshallah will do that soon 😊 Jazakallah khair ❤
I am your sister from Yemen, and by Allah I only spoke out of hunger and distress. My mother, my brothers, and I lessons and tears. We are in a situation that only God knows about. God is sufficient for us, and He is the best disposer of affairs for those who brought us to this situation. By Allah Almighty, I did not write this appeal out of distress and distress. Poverty, O world, they have felt it So, I hope for you. By Allah Almighty, Lord of the Great Throne, he ate what I had in the house. By Allah, my brothers, he is my brothers by sitting in the house. Who has no food? By God, we are in a very difficult situation. We have 4 people entering the house, and my father has died, and there is no one who can depend on us and who lives in it.We live in a rented house because we cannot pay the rent we owe. '''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''' ''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''' ''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''' ''''''''''''' My brother, my first words are: I swear to God that I will not lie to you or deceive you. I am a Yemeni girl displaced from the war. My family and I live in a rented house in Al-Shahrab 20,000 Yemenis among us, and now we owe 60,000 for 3 months. The owner of the house is one of the people who does not have mercy, by God, my brother. He comes every day, insulting us, talking about us, and moving from the house to the street because we were unable to pay him the rent. The neighbors saw us crying and came back.They came back to talk to the neighbors and we were given the weekend. So we made him swear by God. He will take us out into the street. Have mercy on him and us. Our country is due to this war and we do not find food for our day, and my brothers and I live in a difficult life. Our father died, may God have mercy on him, and we have no one in this world who was with us in these harsh circumstances. My younger brothers went out into the street and saw...The neighbors eat and stand at their door in order to give them bread even if they break it. By God, to whom belongs the dominion of the heavens and the earth, they closed the door and expelled them and came back crying. They are dying of hunger. No one has mercy on them and a holiday is returned. I have made a living, and now if one of us helps us with a kilo of flour, I swear to God, I am dying of hunger. My brother, I am an alien to God. Then, I ask you to help me for the sake of God. I ask you, by God, to love goodness and to help me, even if you can, by messaging me on WhatsApp.On this number 00967716649494 and ask for the name of my card and send it and do not be late and may God reward you with all the best, my brothers Sagar, see how they are and help us and save us before they throw us out in the street, you will be lost or we will die of hunger. My family and I ask you, by God, if you are able to help us, do not be late and may God reward you well..`/--~««,”Π|,”Π|,”Π|,”Π|,”Π|,”Π|,”Π|,”Π|,”Π|,”Π|,”Π|,”Π|,”Π|,”Π|~:~¡~¡~¡~;I.i.i.i.i.i. i.I.|-◖*°°😢😢
فَإِنَّ مَعَ ٱلْعُسْرِ يُسْرًا surely with hardship comes ease. إِنَّ مَعَ ٱلْعُسْرِ يُسْرًۭا Surely with ˹that˺ hardship comes ˹more˺ ease. Quran 94: 5-6.
Standards are good, and self-sufficiency is good. I will always prefer to remain single than to be in an unhappy marriage.. because in unhappy marriages there is bound to be oppression somewhere, and you have a lot more to answer for than just yourself, on top of feeling unhappy and resentful. And it’s sobering to realise that a primary factor of women having to do it all and become “masculine”, is because of having to overcompensate for irresponsible males who don’t pull their weight or are absent without accountability altogether, whether that male is a spouse, parent or sibling. And if our non-Muslim womenfolk are starting to wake up from this and choosing celibacy over engaging with men (like the 4B movement in South Korea due to high rates of SA, abuse, femicide, etc), what more us Muslimahs? If we are contributing to the Ummah of Prophet Muhammad (salallahu alayhi wasalam), it’s best we women gatekeep and only continue the lineage of genuinely good, responsible men. Because it does not feel good when the Prophet himself described our ummah as the foam of the sea (plentiful, yet without substance) - Sunan Abu Dawud. May Allah make it easy for us, ameen. 🤲
Assalamu alaikum I’m guessing you only cater for females in regards to doing your course (the thriving coach) to become a life coach? Or can makes do it too?
For the Feminine question, many of us grown up with immigrant families or absent/unreliable fathers had to step up and be hyper independent as a survival response. If we don't feel safe we won't be authentic/feminine. It's about changing our relationships with people. If we have friends or romantic partners who are reliable and proactive -- it allows us to build trust and safety enough to allow us to get out of survival mode. Of course, this requires self work/self care as well
In Islam religion it’s true that when we choose a spouse we look to his behavior and Islamic values but i understand the sister who mentioned that she is confused about accepting for spouse someone who is shorter than her , she could feel embarrassed and frustrated. However something I am sure about it, being secure with a man doesn’t have any relation with his height
