If a man pays a bride price and the marriage crashes, there shouldn’t be a refund of the bride price, because the man can’t give the woman her virginity back. He can’t restore her womb back to what it was before she had children, & he can’t restore her breasts back to their youth before breast feeding. So in essence unless he can restore & make her whole before marriage he shouldn’t be entitled to a refund of the bride price!
But women keep putting pressure for this bride price to be paid ... If you don't pay this bride price , they even get annoyed and they will want to go back to their parents ... women consider themselves as commodities that carry price
May these women get the dignity they deserve. Culture and societal norms need careful examination. Women have been so much exposed to abuse. This dowry system needs to be abolished and respect human rights. Women cannot be treated as property.
The two brothers...the one brother said he wants more wives so he can have more children. How the hell is he going to have more children if he can't pay for the wives he has?? I can't believe I actually wrote this...I can't wrap my head around this concept at all 😅
What is wrong with her husband? Something is wrong with that man. What is the purpose? What is the point? She's not even being a smartass or asshole. He was just straight up going gorilla with no provocation...
Am Rose Aboth obbo former student mifumi primary school. I start schooling in 2001-2009 then I join mulanda parents ss am form four leaver from there I start staying home with my parents i can't blame them bco even them they were not working no where to money I will be grateful the day mifumi ss will be open up.long live mifumi project ,long live mifumi my village ♥,long live Uganda
Am Rose aboth obbo former student mifumi primary school i start schooling in 2001-2009 then I went to mulanda parents ss am form leaver I didn't continue with my studies I can't blame my parents bco if ever them they they were not working no where to get money
I came here because i met a lady on a dating site in Kenya, i talked about it to friends, got some input, people have been very concerned that i met a lady from across the world. I like her a lot, watching this made me cry, made me disgusted, i want to talk to her about her family about not paying a brides price, i don't mind the thought of helping out their family, but to pay a price for someone who will be my equal, ( honestly she will be held above me) with that being said no woman in the world should be treated like what I saw here.
Lol, I understand you but bride price isn't buying a woman thou. It's supposed to symbolize a union between the two families. These men are just abusive.
One word I described these man in these raised is nothing but DUSTS! And so much so to the parents who sells or trade daughters for bunch of Cows and Goats are...Why don't you just eat your Young because its what the WILD ANIMALS DOES TO THEIR YOUNG!!!! They should be kept in their village and not given freedom on outside world!!!....."WOMAN MEANT TO BE LOVE...NOT TO BE BEATEN"!!!!! BLACK SOUL at its FINEST
Wow my heart really go out to these young women, my understanding is , that you marry because you love someone, you don't beat what you love that's crazy
In 2016, a ruling was passed in the court of Uganda banning refund of Bride price, this was after MIFUMI's petition. However in communities that do not have information around this, refund of bride price still happens. Thank you
The woman in pink has it right. Bride price needs ro be abandoned. So should any kind of effusive "gift" giving b/c it is too easily construed as a bride price. If the groom wants to give a small gift to each parent on the day of the wedding, fine, but it needs to be capped so low that it can't possibly be confused with, or construe as a bride price. The other problem is alcohol consumption. The men who are prone to mistreating and beating their wives usually have a very strong relationship with alcohol. This feature needs to be recognized and appropriately dealt with to get a secure handle on things.
I pray for all these precious women who are suffering and who have suffered. Your beautiful and strong, highly blessed and favored by God. Strength to all you my sisters, your voices are heard and pain is felt.🙏💪💯