Have you went through natural birth? I would like to know more details about recovery down there? I am on 7 and half months and waiting for Due date. a bit scare for cut/ rip and stitch things down there and no idea how should speedy recover.
Hi! Yes I had a natural birth and ended up with a third degree tear. Tbh if you are planning to have an epidural there’s nothing to be afraid of. I could feel the contractions but when I tore I didn’t feel a thing because of the epidural. The wound healing took about 3 weeks but if you do what they tell you and change the pads frequently it shouldn’t be too uncomfortable. I was walking and doing things a few hours after birth. The hardest part I think was to go poop for the first time but they will give you laxatives that should help.
@@yana-f. - Thank you so much for your prompt reply. Yes, i registered for epidural. May i ask one more question that did you ever use the Perineal bottle to release pain. Thank you for the advice the hardest part of to go poop as well. At least i have an idea what can happen on my body 🙏
You’re doing a great job! Everything you’re experiencing is common and I know I’ve experienced it with all three of my babies. The most important thing I’ve learned is to make sure I have help around at least in that first week postpartum if not longer! It’s too much to do everything yourself and you need support! This is one of the hardest things you’ll have to do and that’s when we need to call on others to be there for us ❤
I felt the same way about bodysuits with snaps! Much easier to check and change a tiny baby. Everyone said I’d prefer the zipper sleepers, but we barely used those.
Weaponized incompetence. Instead of saying "at least he does it" ask yourself why some men cant be bothered to just complete a basic household responsibility. Now the wife still has to wonder if she needs to check every time he changes a diaper so the wipes dont dry out. Start calling men out and stop enabling them.
Nope. Its ok to tell your partner your expectations and when you feel like they're taking advantage of your time and adding to your mental load. I'd hope the same standard for any other women in relationships. But, if my partner continued to disrespect me I would easily consider being single.
Nothing to be thankful for, it’s our kid, not just mine. That should be the norm. However, it’s just a joke😁 don’t take too seriously everything that’s posted online.
TMI? I agree the belly looked big, however it measured according to the dates so we didn’t do the measurements beforehand and 10lb was a big surprise lol 😆