Dawg you need to be posting videos every day don't miss there's a starving crowd for your services once you make tons of money, you can change your channel to self improvement and be proud to show it Wishing you the best brother!
@@alex.valmont I enjoyed your video about frame and power dynamics I’d love to see a video on how to maintain a strong frame if you live with a female But I’m not sure if it would get as many views as reacting to crazy TikTok videos about dating which might attract more attention Wishing you the best, bro!
Never underestimate the sheer force of the female ego. She could think you're the hottest dude on earth and there's still a chance she'll turn you down just so she can walk away and say, "I did that shit". The real truth is that women don't value aesthetics as much as men think they do. It helps a little, but if a guy doesn't make a woman FEEL attracted to him, he has no chance. How they feel is way more important than how you look. I've seen somw homely ass dudes pull a ton of girls, because they know how to make them feel comfortable and safe. Guys are stupid. They think they can just workout and shave their face and they can get any girl they want lol
16:03 in what setting is this done in? like in a public place out with friends or just you and the girl? cause you can easily come off as an asshole asking for a tray like that
Great question. Make note that you’re not asking. You’re commanding. And there’s a very fine line separating the asshole from the genuinely dominant (and attractive) man. And that line is ego. This is an incredibly deep conversation. Feel free to DM me if you want to have it and understand the nuance.
The whole text game prior to the end was pretty mediocre, she assumed you just wanted sex and you didn't do anything to show that wasn't the case, you asked her out more than once so I'm not really sure how that was supposed to be the knock out punch. At the end you demonstrated value and triggered jealousy, which is crazy strong with women, by saying you weren't alone, which was the thing that worked. Honestly up to that point there was nothing special about this interaction, she actually seemed quite interested and gave a number of indicators of interest and this still almost flopped.
Yes my texting is not epic here but I hope you were able to focus on the principles and take something away. Next time I have a really good example where there’s both good lessons and epic texting at the same time I’ll post that as well
Best of luck bro but this was not good.. you should be learning not trying to teach. The double text there at the end becuase you got in your own head and wanted to 'be more assertive'... yikes. Best of luck though but you got a long way to go.
@@alex.valmont at the end, double texting because you thought you "werent assertive enough"... you second guessed yourself... you got away with it but yea dont do that
Ok, I see what you mean. Here's what's important to understand: a question impacts the girl different than a statement. So much so, that even if you've already asked it in question form and double text the statement form, the impact still happens. It's as if someone says it to you in spoken word. Once you hear the second sentence and it's a statement, you'll give it more credit automatically. Now, I didn't second guess myself, I simply wanted to be more assertive and made sure that my tone is as I intend. On the off chance that I don't "sound" like I want the first time, I want to make sure that I stay on top of that. You should always pay attention to how precisely you communicate, if you want to have an impact and influence on others. And communicational precision is not easy, it's a skill that needs to be exercised. Let me know if you have any texting of yours that you'd like to post for us to see.
1+2 = 5 7-12 = 23 (155 x 10) / 14 = X^2 Okay guys? Really important you remember this. Oh wait, I didn’t show my work to prove it! Like this video… Cool thumbnail… 🙄😅
@@alex.valmont you’re not a girl. Logic matters Where did you show that this works on girls. You didn’t. Lots to remember - I didn’t watch your video: just you doing way more than this comment with no chicks. Boring
I think this ist great advice all in all. Especially the change between deep and superficial topics, letting her qualify and breaking rapport every now and then. After all, I think what comes first though is that you understand your own value and that you lose your scarcity mindset. Then you can be relaxed and authentic and add techniques. As soon as you realize some succes that will give you even more self esteem and make you more relaxed while you also become more familiar or even Natural with certain techniques. IT IS a simple AS that🤝
It’s not true. You learn how to understand people, instead of just wanting to be entertained by people. Of course there are going to be patterns. You shouldn’t want to entertain anybody who wants to leave the second it’s not about them. Stop this already.
Alright, but your communication doesn't flow. It's very broken up, like you hesitate as you speak, transmitting insecurity, like you don't really know what you're talking about so you have to keep reading a script or something. Thus you're not convincing since there's no congruency among your facial gestures, your tone of voice, and what you're saying.
thx for the feedback brosky. Yes all of this will get better with more time logged speaking on camera. For now focus on the advice and implement and test for yourself. Hope lifting is still gong well 👍🏼
Thanks dude. Let me know what I can do better and if you enjoyed this vid, you’ll love what you’ll find in the MCB, that’s where I break down everything in detail. Just hit the link in the description and take a look at the video. It’ll walk you through everything you get when you sign up.
secret is having that east european drugdealer accent, jokes aside if the sam ewomen has no problem running behind strange men for a job then the only reason she is showing attitude to u is bec she can thanks to simps
Literally just posted a video on how to avoid being creepy! And yes you are correct. This is because high value men already exhibit all the behaviors I talk about in this video unconsciously.
Great summary. It actually clicked me. I always attract the women that I don't like, because Im nice (fun), have some dominance over and give her validation. But the ones that I like, and I'm a complete idiot. I'm way too nice (want to impress her) give way to attention and etc. It is like a desperation I'll change it. Thanks
"Baby you might think that you are an expert in your own psychology, when in fact you have a mechanism in your brain that blocks you from seeing how you really operate" "You see, you are like a car" (is what i got from the powerpoint, and 2 minute of talk) im gonna open with that. Wish me luck!
I get your point. On the other side there are things that girls universally like and things they don’t like. And they have to do with how you show up as a man. I explain all of it and how attraction works in my course bundle, the Masculine Choice Blueprint.
@@alex.valmontfriendly advice… don’t respond this way… be glad you got the interaction… could have turned that commentor into a sub if you interacted openly. Made yourself look weak with that reply. Getting subs isint the objective, showing frame is. Good luck with your channel
