I broke up with a friend whom we've been together from the university, served together, worked in the same organisation, went for Masters together. The day I made up my mind on the friendship, I just wrote the chat, showed my wife and another mutual friend with the reasons, he tried to say he'd fix things, I told him I was done. That was it. I occasionally say hello, but I make sure not to reach out on special days because I'm not his friend anymore.
I don't like to have a serious conversation. I usually try to avoid the conversation in its entirety. I don't think a friendship requires a conversation for starting or ending it though.
Do you people realize how hurtful it is to have a person tell you they don't want to be friends anymore? For one in a romantic relationship there is an official ask but for a friendship there is no official ask so why does there need to be an official break up. I think it is better to withdraw to be honest. Many times people take a hint
I also don't think I can have the conversation of ending a friendship. It's awkward. I don't feel awkward about talking about sex. With a partner. Or friends. Not shy at all. I don't think there's a lot I can't talk about with someone I care about.
Building on what FK and her friend discussed: I'm a confident gurrlll. I'm an independent woman. I'm 32. I don't feel less fulfilled. I'm living my life as full as I can. I often get lonely. It comes and go but I acknowledge it. I relate with what FK's friend was saying. It's a real thing. We can't 'self love' our way into not being lonely.
Having that conversation to end a friendship is very awkward and the fear of being the bad person regardless of your valid reason. I did avoid having the conversation and now I know better to have had the real conversation instead of disguising it.
I feel having a conversation if you’re tired of a friendship is better than just changing your behavior towards them without a warning.😅 Loved the episode as usual and I hope (not trust) you’re well❤ An aside: y’all have the best ads, like it’s engaging and funny, and I don’t feel the need to skip😂✨
Real talk, I say it often but it can never be overstated; FK and Jola are beautiful young women and I pray they know/believe that within themselves 🙏🏽 Love the episode as usual 🖤💚💛
12:49 on what fk is saying. It's the way you'll look around when something is misquoted or misinterpreted and you'll see everyone nodding head in church. It's so shocking like eyin o kin ka bible yin ni
I don't know what you guys did but it feels like old times again, thank God because your pod was going downhill. Keep it up, I totally enjoyed this episode.
@@ore.kaykay1698 pls if they or you can't take criticism then you are not ready for greatness. The fact that I keep coming back to their podcast obviously means I believe they are doing a good job, stop trying to make a mountain out of a mole hill.
😂😂 Nah FK is on to something with the glasses. I feel like my glasses cut off part of your vision when I take them off it’s like I’m able to see the fuller picture.
I have listened to the entire 3hr plus podcast version twice.. Came here to watch their physical gesticulations.. This episode is 👌❤.. Please bring Harmonie again😂😂
@@bisolaadekunle5327 From what I've seen online, he's not afraid to answer such soul-searching questions and the kind of questions that really shake the foundations of Nigeria's kind of church going and religious practice. I don't attend his church btw but I like his real-ness.
Haven't watched this, my heart really goes out to my girls FK and Jola. I really wish they'd listen to Pst. Nkechi Ene or Pst. Mildred Kingsley-Okonkwo. When they do, they'll see why I'm saying this.
FK would fit in perfectly in a Yoruba movie since music is not forthcoming as the path with her gesticulations. Jola please consider being a talk show host, the way you made everyone confess their deepest and truest selves and your guest was the absolute best, a non-judgemental great conversationalist. 😊❤
This was a very good episode. I love how honestly the reviews were addressed. Harmony was the best guest so far this season, his vibes were on point!!!
