But you are talking about men from a specific era. From a specific time and western hemisphere where women grew already out of because of certain political circumstances. But I know too many men who already are able to understand women very very well and without treating them as a completely different species or like 3 year olds. I’m sorry but there is definitely a lot Not ok where we shouldn’t try to press ourselves in by believing that it is ok to have not a natural flow with each other that’s already ok and that is based on clear communication without victimizing each other. It’s so basic that it is not about men and women but a general thing where less pain is expected because of a deep connection. But when a love connection is the only connection where we feel deeply connected (platonically) then we yearn for that so deeply that we forget that we can communicate just relaxed without having the feeling of doing something wrong. That’s the true core of all there relationship gambles. If I try to say everything like you say I am not me. It won’t work. If both sides are open nothing can go wrong. That’s all. If I have to teach a person how to treat me then I am dealing with a very stupid person according to me and I will suffer because as your already mentioned, you can’t change a person. Especially not in their intellect. But I also want to appreciate the love and dedication you are spreading with your work.
Thank you for facilitating this wonderful conversation, Candice! Tears welled on multiple occasions and I know that's a sign that transformation is happening within the heart <3
Housewife can be a very knowledgeable and experienced in many fields because she doesn't need to spend her time to make money, but can use it to learn lots of useful and necessary knowledge and skills to create harmonious happy relationships, which create harmonious society. It's sad how people downplay a woman's role as a house wife.
What a pleasure to listen to these joyful, intelligent, radiant women. My god, where are women like you two hiding? I have been looking and waiting so long. lol. But feel so optimistic. If I go back to a dating app, how do I say Come be my Queen?
I was Catfished using your pictures, didn’t know who you were. You are the most beautiful woman on earth, as far as I have seen but you belittle the people who see you? And talk to you? I would, but I guess we are less
Thank you for this beautiful interview ! What about those men who beat, and rape, etc, though ? Each time she says « men love... », « men are... » i’m like ‘’wooow, so happy to learn that !! They’re actually so cute!!’’ But then my brain remembers those other men. Aren’t they men too ? Or maybe they’re ‘boys’ and not men? Or maybe this only applies to one type of men? If someone’s been raped by douzens of men in childhood for example, what does « men » mean here ? Or maybe, again, she doesn’t mention it but she is only talking about one « type » of men and not another? Thank you!
Alison’s courses literally changed my life. I wish every woman, regardless of age, would take her courses. It would truly change the world and open deep, loving connection between partners. I was also a chronic, unconscious frog farmer. At 66 I now have a spectacular King and our marriage is strong and joyful. He feels like the luckiest guy in the world. And I know I am a lucky woman. I kid you not--my girlfriends marvel at how strong and healthy our marriage is….and I owe it to Allison’s brilliant, insightful work.
Oh I won't! It saddens me how often I see women unwittingly hurt, judge and treat men like "misbehaving women" --as diplomatc and clear as I can I explain to them how/why that is the biggest mistake she makes -- and how she creates her own frustration b/c of it. I've had many friends comment on the happiness/strength they see in our marriage -- I always say "take Allison's courses and you will enjoy the same!!" (-:@@robintaylor1490
