It makes my blood boil that just because Adele seems to be the only one showing "symptoms" she is labelled the freak/problem of the family. What child would choose dependance on the parents over independence? I feel like there must have been some unhealthy enmeshment going on (google "financial incest"), controlling and border-crossing behavior of the parents disguised as "love and care" long before Adele tried to break away and cheer herself up in this way (while being unable to leave because of the "enmeshment"). Hobby psychologist here :D It just really bothers me to see parents complaining about their adult daughter in this way when they have clearly made her like that. The fact ghat she hasn't moved out yet seems to prove this. What father would rather work overtime constantly to pay his daughter's accumulating debt rather than be tough with her? One for whom enabling someone also means control, keeping her close, being appreciated. He complains about her but really, the fact that he cannot be tough with himself is the major problem. How could Adele have learned discipline in such a household where money means affection but also "you can never leave, you depend on me and you owe me"
I feel like I'm looking at myself, I came from a mixed marriage. And I genuinely believed growing up my mom hated me and I was never good at anything all my accomplishments are garbage and I'm not beautiful to the point where I really believe I'm not worth loving. So I just drown my un happiness with clothing and plastic surgery
Advising someone to sell their house and rent to pay of debt is wild 😭 why not just buy a smaller house with a smaller mortgage. Mortgage is one of the only good types of debt
Tim’s got the aura of a man who will spend his final seconds on earth being stuffed into a sports hold-all by a group of loan sharks, while screaming out his PIN number
Her life growning was very rough not feel wanted love or good cinoared to her siblings. I understanding her compulsive and obsessive spending is away to escape her feeling of never having a supportivw and living childhood in Zimbabwe which has always been a very difficult oppresive and unsafe place especially for black indigenous people. Truma can affect your life in many ways. I really like rudo she such sweet strong and likeable who any one would be very privileged to have in their life.
He's in Finance but didn't think to transfer his high-rate debt to low-rate debt? I wonder what kind of Finance. Or if it's a different function (such as Marketing) but in the Finance/Banking indusrty.
Time her old man grew a pair and took a hike and let her get on with her spending her self into the poor house.. Get out mate while you have the chance.
'haha I financially abuse my husband and mother and think discount stores are beneath me 🤪' Girlies attitude is disgusting and she needs a reality check by her loved ones/bailiffs turning up at the house or else she's going to ruin those around her... Would love an update on where she is now
I mean if you gona be that much in debts, at least invest it in yourself, travel, educate yourself further, make yourself interesting! Stop behaving like a wanabe and a loser.
What a miserable existence living in London is ..sharing with no privacy and getting annoyed with other people's bad habits! No thanks. There are better places in the world.
Nice try trying to convince us that the Brits invented sparkling wine. They didn’t. The oldest recorded sparkling wine predates Dom Pérignon and Merret by over a century. It is the Benedictine monks of the abbey of Saint-Hilaire near Carcassone who have that distinction.
I live in the US and the UK may be different. But ordering Virgin Marys or Virgin Pina Coladas here doesn't save you any money, they charge the same. In some places they might take 50 cents off a drink (from 5 dollars up). I know having been sober 7 years and going to many different establishments w family and friends.
A 21 year old with a tiny salary, a massive amount of debt was still able to get a mortgage. It’s a dream today to be 21 and walk into a house. I’ve seen that she is doing well now and kept the house as a holiday house. I need to know how she managed to clear the debt???
