This song hit deep, as an INFJ, I have so many moments when I feel as though no one in the world could understand my way of thinking and well, there were times when I became quiet after being ignored or undermined, to the point when my peers wonder if I'm isolating myself, but thats just my coping mechanism.
I just wanna say: there is nothing wrong with me...its just my personality 😢....why they dont understand me. This song's name is infj song by johnny fritts
Actually so you don’t worry about my comment.. I might of made things look drastic. I was that person in the song. But don’t really get we feel everyone’s feelings. Maybe we’re keen to others. And I have a fairly good life …. I don’t know but we’re friendly as can be. That’s for sure!!!!!! Maybe I can relate because I do fall in a loop when someone says things about me that don’t make sense and try my best to understand them..
I can relate to every day is a battle and I just want to get along. Most of the song. I don’t get that we feel everyone’s feelings. Like we don’t want to hurt anyone’s feelings. It’s possible that I can’t relate because I cut off my social circle and only see people when I have to now. I did that because of Covid and we must be very fun people because everyone likes to plan with us. Set us up to look bad…. All my after thoughts. Sorry the and part was because I decided to cut off people that throw me under the bus first crack they see.
I get what you mean. I actively aim to avoid groups, especially ones that aren't mine, because I've just had bad experiences with them. I think most people carry a perception of others and when someone deviates from that perception, that's when they get defensive and throw others under the bus. However, the people who still want to stick with you and love you even when you act "differently" are worth cherishing. If you haven't found that yet, you will. Just keep being yourself and understanding all the aspects that make you beautiful. And don't be fooled. You are beautiful.
That makes sense. Thanks. You wrapped that up for me. It kind of happened quick and I been watching some of these channels on INFJ’s and it’s so helpful In a lot of ways. It’s a stage we go through in one video I watched. We had to shake up our perceptions🥳 Did you write this song? I wrote lyrics through the tough times. I’m trying to remember a line right now of mine. I remember it but long story short, I’m glad I finally passed that stage. Felt like bootcamp. Thank you that was nice of you to say. ☺️ All my wishes:)
I was starting to get it after a bunch more versions came up. New to learning INFJ’s. It’s interesting how even we are rare and caterogized out of sixteen different types of characters- we’re at different stages and levels and can potentially be categorized again into 16 other categories or 50. But tough to really do that. One video asked if I was assertive INFJ or a thinker. Something like that. I’m assertive but some of the qualities that were listed were a mix match. That be funny if we all go around introducing ourselves I.e. I’m a mature, extrovert, assertive, INFJ 007 what are you?
@@jennifergraham5615 For real 😂. We can get so caught up in the labels, but we're just people. The MBTI gives us some clarity, but at the end of the day, we're still complex and capable of change. I'm an INFJ-T. The T stands for turbulent. It'd be cool for the MBTI to turn into a story like Divergent, where the types get categorized by their colors and learn how to cultivate their strengths. Have you seen Divergent?
i had a question.... I want to create a amv using this song on itachi specifically but i am unable to find footages for that can you tell me where i can find these clips/footages ?
Thanks brother good to know that there are some peoples who might be a very very little chance but maybe can understand me .I want to write more but i think you will understand why i am not going to write ,maybe . i would love to think you would. Which you probably will 😅
I was just venting in my bathroom about the frustrations of being an INFJ...You're not a curse. This takes me back to someone's shirt that once said, "It's not Me. It's You." We're for sure not perfect but we're definitely underappreciated. A big hug to you. Sorry for answering late. Just saw your message.
Perfect examples for this INFJ type! Thanks for sharing your ideas for my MBTI channel. I saw your video thumbnail through my RU-vid algorithm today, yay! 😊😊😊
This song made me cry. Every word. Sometimes, I myself wonder, how much confusing other people might feel when they look at an INFJ mentality. But whoever wrote this, understands me (probably another INFJ) I'm so glad I found this and I can come back here to this song to mourn everything.
1:36 "I let you process emotions at the expense of myself To the point where my body breaks down And then I start loosing my health So I go stealth and hide for days at a time" Last night, my friend cried on my shoulder after having a fight with her boyfriend. She had injured herself. I absorbed her pain in me. I know, that person is the absolute worst person for her and he keeps hurting her so brutally each time, he's the most toxic boyfriend I've ever seen. She harmed herself and she was bleeding, for him. I am so depressed right now, because of her. She just loves him so much, he's harming her all the time yet she has decided to be with him, ignoring all my advices. She just doesn't understand. I was concerned for her severely at first. But then I started being concerned for myself and my mental health. This often happens, she shares with me everything and leaves me burned out. She doesn't even listen to me. Only if I could tell her how painfully bad the future I'm seeing is gonna be like for her with that guy. She just at the end of the day, laughs it off. Forgiving him. And me, I here destroyed my inner peace and mentality for her suffering. Its not like I'm only like concerned for her, but I feel like a story of pain was told to me, and I can't even do anything to make it okay and the person who has gone through all this is not even concerned for themself. And its more of a feeling of resentment towards her, his boyfriend and the whole society. Maybe humanity. I cant even describe. I don't know. I just always feel burned out after something like this especially when the person I'm concerned about don't even care about themselves. And I don't even sometimes know why I get so burned out. Its almost like she shifted all the negative vibes to me and got rid of them herself. And now she's laughing off with that same person for whom she's gonna put cuts on herself in the future, yet I'm here feeling so dysfunctional.
I just want you to know that your feelings are valid and you deserve so much love for what you go through for the people you love. Often we can become like sponges absorbing so much that others intentionally or unintentionally pour onto us. There comes a time when we have to establish boundaries to preserve our own mental health and well-being. You've been there for your friend time and time again, and I'm sure that one day everything you've been telling them will sink in. Sadly, people have to come to their own realizations about things that just might seem so obvious to us. That's one of the hardest things. Like a small child that wants to jump off a swing, our instinct is to protect them from hurting themselves in the first place, but if we let them take the leap (as long as we know it's a safe distance and won't in fact kill themselves) then if the fall hurts, then the child will decide for themselves that they don't want to do it again. I used to bite myself out of anxiety and frustration. It got to the point I also cut myself when I got pushed too far. There's no way I would've ever done that in front of anyone I loved, much less tell them about it. Your friend must trust you with that side of them. Biting and cutting become habits -- coping mechanisms that are unhealthy but feel necessary. The last thing I wanted was to be fixed. Just having someone there, not saying anything, and holding my hand telling me it'd be okay was enough. Perhaps that's what your friend wants too. But you also have to think of yourself and how it makes You feel. You have the right to be tired and upset and scared and even angry. Talk it out and let them know how you feel, then follow through with your actions. You got this. You're so strong ❤️
...its beautiful and im speechless its true its hard we all want to know what is our purpose im an infj i try to be an extrovert but i realize its not worth it i feel that its ironic we felt pain that people cause us think of us as weird but when someone is in need we are the first ones to comfort this song identifies the hardships of an infj and im grateful that their are people like me and understand each other
You're so right. It's frustrating and hard. Can people give us peace when they're often the ones sucking it out of us? That's a tricky one. Staying okay and relatively at peace among the chaos is something I'm still working on. I've considered that maybe if I became deaf, or blind, or maybe even less compassionate, or if I just didn't exist at all then maybe everything would finally be okay. When I try to care less, they call me cold. If I'm more extroverted, I get more attention than I can handle. Maybe the real key is just understanding your strengths and limitations, accepting them, and realizing that it's okay to be different. After all, it's our differences that make us special. But anyways, stay strong out there! Like you said, you're not alone 🤗
Never put yourself into any of these new aged categories , just be thyself and fuck all this bull shit ! The INFJ psychology is just based off human beings that have a conscience , everybody has these traits but deny them , either it's a ego issue , which is the most common base of dis function and self denial , many are trapped in self delusion , many think they know life they lack basic principalities of true self , it's not a fault of their own , just poor education and a indoctrinated mind programmed by the system , monkey see monkey do mentality , like sheep that follow through the gate unconsciously . The true awakening of ones mind is to be self aware and to observe with close detail , to analyse all scenario , to question , why ? what ? and where? The average psychi and intelligence of the majority is at a record low through out human history, the truth will always hurt and cuts deep , Capitalisim referring to the system has a lot to answer for , creating a mind of consumerism , selfishness , greed a lack of empathy as everybody is pushing and shoving , stabbing one another in the back to what modernism calls success , The look at me syndrome , the narcacistic mind of falseness , To put on a mask everyday you walk out your door , after sometime the mask cannot be lifted as the personality has been altered unaware and the programming has been downloaded , once the downloading aka mind control has taken control over many years it's very rarely the mask can be removed , one is stuck into their belief which not of their own . Walk in light , find thyself and recognise the world you live in , peace to all ! The awakened .
Human psychology isn't so shallow that it can be described in just 4 words. That is why I reject the MBTI but accept the 8 cognitive functions. Which is a complete version of the Jungian analytical psychology and the most credible so far.
Yeah 😂, that was basically my reaction when I first found the song. I usually just sit back, let RU-vid Autoplay do its thing in the background while I do homework... this song turned on, and I was like "Oh!" Read the title, then thought "ohhh," before storing it in my mental library for later
