Something people need to keep in mind: Apps are designed to keep you swiping, and keep you 'engaged'. They are NOT designed to help you find a suitable and decent partner. The apps lose money if you find a partner and date them, because you would likely stop using them.
Mooi verhaal dat goed illustreert wat het leven eigenlijk is. Leren, en jezelf steeds weer opnieuw (uit-)vinden... Beautiful story that nicely illustrates what life really is about. Learning, and (re-)inventing yourself over and over again...
Damn you have so pretty eyes, I envy you. Ayway good vid. I personally think it's just the excess of options, especially on women's side which raises the bar unreasonably and funnels them to fuckboys who are not really willing to settle. Boys would do the same in their possition tho. Then there is thousands ofpeople who profit from lonely guys like Tate and so on.
Paying high taxes is actually probably the most important reason , expecially if those taxes are used to improve citizens life and make it easier , please don’t be an American , don’t repeat that Nonsense from TikTok
You are naive to believe the situation is 'fixable.' The attitudes, behaviour and 'entitlement' of western women makes them unbearable. Very few women have anything to men- women want marriage, but they don't want to be WIVES. The divorce rates across the west are obscene 50%+ and 80% of divorces are instigated by women. Most men now understand female nature, and how they choose a partner- they are obsessed with resources, and they are hypergamous. They are fickle and cannot be relied upon to stay the course in a marriage. Men are refusing to marry for very sound reasons- the laws associated with marriage, divorce and family laws are gynocentric and the game is rigged against men. *WE ALL KNOW IT!* Most men are *DONE* with dating, and they do *NOT* have any desire to marry and have a family- they know women today cannot be relied to stay the course. You say women want masculine men- but for the past 50+ years, women collectively have denigrated, belittled and disrespected masculinity. The result is, many men have simply abandoned dating. Marriage is DONE. Dating is DONE. Men are *NOT* going to return and adhere to the female agenda anymore- they now value their independence and the ability to retain full control of their resources and most importantly- their own destiny. Marriage is just a form of indenture for men- tie them down, extract their resources to the benefit of women.
the words "money" and "romantic relationship" definitly DONT fit together xD and NO, its a delusian that woman dont need a man anymore CAUSE MAN are working and maintaining the complete Society these days, not just the own family ! Thats what woman dont get at all, If they drive there "own" cars and sleeping in there "own" bed under there "own" roof.... MAN DID THIS so now, every woman can live in "luxery" of a stable and secure (relativly) life! And man get less and lesser Validation for this, cause even if you dont wanna, basicly 90% of man are simping for 90% of woman CAUSE THEY WORK !!!
Women are afraid and ill equipped, to deal with public engagement these days. And anything related to Progressive-ism destroyed and eroded anything wholesome. That's my theory. Sad but how I see it.
Ive struggled with idea that my GF maybe a gold-digger; but after loosing everything and her staying with me. Im convinced she trusts me in being competent enough to make it back (and more). Lover your vids!!! Rooting for you 1k (and beyond!)
"Meeting" irl has been as good as outlawed. Thank the ultra-vague "harassment" laws. The law makes the individual woman who makes the complaint the arbiter of what is and isn't harassment. Naturally this power gets abused to no end, so why would a man with any sense at all risk that? Same goes for more serious accusations. The accusation alone, credible or otherwise, is sufficient to completely ruin a man's life. The sisterhood demanded all of this power and in the end they got it. Blokes on the other hand saw that and well... the less involved one is, the better. Not to mention family courts. This won't change until some semblance of sanity returns to the legal system. And I don't see a queue of women eager to get rid of all this legal power they have over men.
The video is nice. I personally did not enjoy living in the Netherlands at all. Some thjngs are ok...but if you have a choice...no thanks. For some reason people think its great. Sure its quirky but living there was my worst time of my life...is that too 'direct'?
No, personal opinions are not too direct since they express your personal experience. Sorry you couldn't make something out of it, luckily lots of people are very happy here.
Most women are spoiled from all the attention they get every damn where. Social media and dating apps have ruined many women. Bleak future for most men. Impossible to complete with endless attention women get when most men get zero attention from women
Online dating ruined everything. Women have so many options online. Instead of picking a guy in her small towns, she can get a rich guy from a big city!
Another great vid :) It's really interesting to see these studies and statistics, as I haven't thought about these aspects during dating that much, but they seem to make sense. However, it would be nice to have an insight into how these studies were conducted (to check their validity). That might be an area to improve upon for the next video - keep it up :)
It’s enlightening because I thought pursuing new hobbies would help me find someone - tennis and netball are examples, and I still haven’t found anyone. At this point, trying to date has become exhausting due to a lack of progress, ghosting on dating apps, and a struggle to find anyone I’m compatible with.
Als tip: Ik kan ook niet goed tegen kou, vooral me handen niet. Nu sinds ik al jaren warm en koud douche is het geen stress eigenlijk. Je moet rustig blijven ademen, neus in, diep in je longen dus zoals je wss weet: NIET naar boven maar naar je buik ademen. En mond uit. Eerst warm douchen ff ontspannen en je dingen doen. Dan in een keer koud en opbouwen qua lengte!
Love your videos! I think your perspectives about these subjects are spot on! Keep up the amazing work and dont let the negativity get to you, your opinions are valuable
Not all women are diggers. There's lots of good traditional women. The problem is as always rooted into social media mindset . Women become G diggers when they have a scarcity and selfish mentality. "My money is My money and Your money is our money. Meaning: what's yours is mine mentality. Take take take. Me me me. What can you do or provide for me while I bring nothing to the table". These types of women ruin any man. There's an old joke: can a G Digger make a man a millionaire? YES (if he's a billionaire) 😂😂
The problem with this is as soon as you say "all women" as opposed to "some women" it completely changes the discussion. In fact at that point it's no longer an honest conversation. Anytime somebody uses the word "all" when referring to any category of people it gives them an out. What a lot of people aren't discussing is the fact that men have gotten so tired of this type of expectations that 36% of men between the ages of 18 and 45 have dropped out of the dating pool.
I doubt the one night stand stat really holds any relevance. One night stands typically are self seeking validation activities that require no real influence on long term sustainability. I doubt a girl really cares how much the guy makes as long as he's not taking her back to a dump and he doesn't smell like garbage. However, I don't think it's "money" that women are attracted to. It's the ability for the man to provide necessary resources. You can't be truly "attracted" to something that doesn't really exist beyond a "socially" constructed and agreed upon value such a money. Although, you can be attracted to what this made up value can provide. Just out of curiosity, are all Dutch women similar to you? I dated a girl from Brabant while she was studying in the states. In contrast to the American girls I was accustomed to she was much more "traditional" and conservative despite being from a country that I was told to be the bastion of progressivism. She was very anti-materialist compared to the average USA girl. Best relationship I've had by far but unfortunately our relationship was brief as she was only here for a semester and she loved her country compared to the USA. I sincerely don't blame her.
I wouldn’t say most women in The Netherlands are traditional and conservative. Over all, I would say most of them identify as progressive. I haven’t met too many American women, so it’s hard to really compare for me. I do think Dutch girls are maybe more down to earth and direct in communication.
@@Lynneverly Ah, yep. I think it was the communication being so direct that was the big change up. Americans often tell you what you want to hear, Dutch (other Northern Euros) tell you how they feel. Of course, disclaimer, not trying to generalize!
And that proves that... the only ones who have really loved are... men 💔🥲 Just kidding. Just kidding 😂👍 From the last video all men become willing to save the world but women make it difficult 🤣 As always great topics 👍
- Only 5% of women want a relationship with a man who inherited the money, this shows that most women want a man who earned his money! This is the equivalent of: "We asked 100 women whether they prefer an unattractive nice guy or an attractive mean guy and 100% of women picked the unattractive nice guy!" Come on lol. Why would women say that they want the attractive mean guy, or in this case the guy who didn't earn his wealth? These surveys never work because they don't actually reflect reality, especially for women, as what women often say is attractive in a partner isn't actually what they find attractive, but it's what they think they find attractive, or what they'd like other people to think they find attractive.
We'd have to know how the survey was conducted and the methodology but I suspect the possibly reason women say they don't want a man who inherited his wealth is due to the idea that he actually isn't able to sustain his wealth compared to a man who had to work for it.
@delargealex Yes, I understand the reason behind the thinking, but I don't think it's true. People aren't honest in self reported surveys. They will answer with what they SHOULD be doing. Also, do you really think FOURTY PERCENT of women care about how a man inherited his wealth for a ONE NIGHT STAND? This is the biggest proof that this survey is useless.
@delargealex Everyone understands the idea behind preferring a man who earned his money. Problem is they were not being honest! Do you actually think women are turning rich, attractive men down because they didn't earn every penny? People lie in self reported surveys and answer with their IDEAL answer, not the truth. Biggest proof this is all meaningless is 40% of women saying they care about how a man earned his money for ONE NIGHT STANDS. Are you serious? Do you really believe that? You think women care about how a man earned his money when they're sleeping with an attractive stranger?
@@shams3831 I addressed the issue with the one night stand data in another comment. I wouldn't suspect women care much in those cases. However, again, I'd like to see if this was self-reported or what the exact methodology was. Yes, women certainly do get with plenty of rich men all the time but I doubt they are actually "attracted" to these men. They'll use these men. But you didn't address my speculation that the reason women are more attracted to men who make their own money instead of inheritance is due to the attraction of being able to both acquire and sustain these resources. You don't believe that would check out?
@@delargealex Of course women would prefer to commit to a man that makes his own money. But you're talking about a very small minority of people, and this is a video on the average man and woman and "gold digging". The average woman will not care about how a rich, attractive guy made his money. She will commit to him either way. If she had the choice between two clones, rich attractive guy (inherited) and rich attractive guy (self-made), sure she'll choose the self made guy, but what's the point of this information? It doesn't tell you anything, because women ARE NOT turning men down because they inherited their money! Again, women are NOT turning men down because of how they made their money. I repeat! It's a non-factor! It's just a pointless survey.
I am a fan of traditional gender roles however I am disabled, I have never had a job but I am working toward it. So I am not sure how traditional I could be in a relationship at the moment. Even when I do get a job it’s going to be a little while before I can afford to invite a woman into my life. I also have some other stuff to work on but it would also be very traditional for a lady to be supportive of my efforts. I don’t see that in America.
Lol. Most modern women from the West think they are the prizes for men, and men should bring EVERYTHING to the table regarding dating and courting. However, according to Hannah Pearl Davis, men are comparing the cost and benefits of the dating scene, and they figured out that dating/marriage is not worth it anymore for men, including: 1. Women are not pure anymore, and most of the time, if you meet a good-looking woman, there is a high chance her body counts are off the chart, or maybe she has experienced a run-through. 2. Pain in the ass to deal with. Modern women tend to think they are worth everything and everyone should serve their needs without reciprocation. 3. basic cooking, cleaning, or financial management skills are needed. I guarantee that I, an adult man, could cook better than my female friends.
You're a Based and smart girl. The stats says it all. I think the Dutch Style of dating is better in this current dating climate. Dutch women are not afraid of making the first moves or doing 50 / 50 in the first dates. That's the best way to genuinely get to know each other.
Women making the first move sounds good in theory but only works in countries like Finland and Sweden as unique cases. The west is leaning too far in one direction and even the most traditionally raised and rural young men & women fall into the same linear path corporations with governmental influence have set for them. The dating trends are a direct representation of the multi-layered propaganda efforts that have been ongoing for the past 20+ years.
What this new paradigm that you are describing means is that fewer and fewer people will be in relationships/getting married in both the short and long term because of how the dating marketplace works today. However, there *is* a silver lining because after a certain age (usu. after 60), a woman's narcissism begins to vanish because her looks and figure have faded. At that point in her life, she seeks companionship because her husband of 40 years has passed or something like this. If you are on any of the dating apps, you can see this on display every day. I am 52m never married so I have at least 10 years before entering the dating marketplace will make sense for me. As for you younger guys who seek to marry and start a family, good luck!
The real problem is this is how women naturally are , so men have responded, no more marriage, you can sleep with who you want, and we will not take you seriously
Goed gedaan! Social media, dating apps en films hebben echt een grote impact gemaakt op onze manier van daten. Wat ook speelt is dat zowel mannen als vrouwen constant het gevoel hebben dat er ergens nog een betere optie is, waardoor ze niet willen settelen.
zeker waar, allemaal opties die in werkelijkheid hookups zijn, 80% van de mannen tussen 20-37 is klaar met daten op dit moment (meerdere onderzoeken geen grap) dus die gebruiken vrouwen waardoor de vrouwen weer boos worden. maar uiteindelijk kunnen ze alleen boos worden op zichzelf en de vriendinnen die ze stimuleerden om het uit te maken want; girl je verdient beter!, grap is, als je een goede oprechte gast was, 10% kans dat ze nog zo'n jongen vind in deze tijd.
I highly recommend that guys try ALOT harder..have to go after the women make the first moves...even if you get rejected keep trying/ somebody has to make the first move..guys go to the gym work hard at your job and look after your looks and wear good clothes that fit. be smart..you really have to step things up. go after the ladies make the move.
@@madjunir I think the best we can do, is be a man,and get as many potential, as you can. Building something, stabilizing the world, and you can get women. It's hard work,but trust me,it's worth it, and it's an adventure in itself.
It seems like the majority of women today don't want children and that is a major turn off for me. I find it repulse and barbaric to think a woman would abort her own child. Maybe it's biological but when I hear women talk about hating children and abortion rights, I automatically think they are a psychopath and need to be avoided on all costs. It's a gut feeling that I can't describe. I can't even have sex with women who talk like this.
